I agree with your sentiments about the site. I, too, found myself taken by his ad over the years. If he were in my area, I would've reached out but that's now a no go because of the reviews. I am also grateful for the this site
I have only contacted directly and have had pretty decent responses. When I pushed back on what seemed like a pretty high price for what's being offered, that's usually when silence followed. That was good enough for me to indicate that I was dodging a potentially negative experience.
That first picture looks like the actor, Jesse Metcalf. MF used to let you post reviews but then they switched to the provider choosing whether or not to have your review posted on their page. That was about the time I switched away from using that website as I wasn't confident that the reviews were legitimate.
I tried setting up a meeting with Esjunior last month when I was in Chicago. He answered the first email immediately and then stopped when I asked him to talk about his offerings. I wasn't impressed.