Aedo

I was considering hiring him (he ignored all my inquiries earlier this week, but did respond when I messaged him today), but the way he presents rates suggests to me that there will be no sensuality or eroticism in the massage — it will be a regular massage with a handjob at the end. $300 for that is too much, and honestly not what I am looking for. 

Also a bad sign that he offers a 30 minute massage — suggests he doesn’t mind whirling through the massage as if he were the galloping troika in the Brothers K.
Until I see some feedback from others’ experiences with him, I will avoid. 

I just spoke with him. The (strong) impression I get is that he won’t try to be sensual unless he wants to be. I won’t be meeting with him — too risky imo.
 
I had a good time with another provider, so will likely hire him this month instead. 

He’s asking for a deposit for a same-day session, so I presume he is a scammer. Kinda surprised. 

I’ve already commented on this guy but he’s a hustler. And I’m so glad this forum exists so no one has to part with their hard-earned cash and feel completely duped! Sounds like there’s a one in a million chance you’ll have a good experience with him but are you willing to take that chance?

Forced ?  lol 
it certainly (for me) is an expectation or hope 
prob not a “requirement” and I agree that the pressure of it being such is problematic to some providers 
I have been leery of seeing a provider after a just prior appointment as in are they spent if not from a cumming standpoint but being into it etc 

I enjoyed my experience with him, but don’t plan to meet him again.
 
He has the stereotypical American-flamboyant energy despite being muscular, which may appeal to some. I found him to be very nice. He definitely has “gay Miami Vice” vibes, which describes his energy well (though, it should be added, aren’t so strong that they give off overt escort energy, which I appreciate). The word “earnest” also comes to mind for whatever reason. 
 
The massage was quite good. Would give it a 7/10. His sensuality during the massage is quite forced, but after the massage feels very real. 

Consideration has to go both ways. There's a reason clients try to "confirm" that a provider will actually do as he has (willingly) agreed to do. Because so many providers do not. It's among the reasons this site exists. And it's made even more necessary because when providers fail to perform as they agreed to do, they seem to expect full payment anyway.  

Sad to report that this guy just isn’t up to task of being an escort, or perhaps has taken his professional cues from Kawhai Leonard. He demands a high rate ($400/hr) and canceled on me just now, the night before our 1pm appointment tomorrow, because he felt I had put too much pressure on him by expecting him to cum during our session (in no particular manner, merely that he cum).
I rejoindered with the option of doing $300 + a $120 tip if he cums, but he never responded.

Little bro doesn’t seem to understand that when you request Patrick Mahomes money, you’re held to a higher standard than Sam Darnold.
Probably also worth mentioning that he had bumped our session from tonight to tomorrow (so he could meet a different client tonight), before ultimately canceling outright. You take a great risk when you block out time in your schedule for this kid. He fundamentally doesn’t respect the money he asks of you. 

On Wednesday we agreed to meet Thursday night; he quickly changed the time to Friday afternoon, which I agreed to (this wasn’t problematic at all because I had indicated that Thursday or Friday were fine, so it didn’t bother me that he moved it. I wasn’t sure why he was moving it, though in his cancellation message he said he had just cum with a client, so I now presume he moved our session so he could meet this other client).
He messaged me Thursday afternoon to confirm Friday at 1pm. I confirmed it. He then messaged me Thursday evening, requesting that I confirm again by 11:30am the day of our meet; I said I would do so. He then messaged me a bit before midnight that same evening to cancel. 
 
Your use of the phrase “turn down a job” is curious. He agreed to our meet and asked me for multiple confirmations, which I provided.

They want your cock, Ben. That’s what they want.

It’s weird how cities that are only 3x the size have 50x the escorts. I’m in Louisville now and see what you mean.
 
There is so much lying in this industry I think I’m done for quite a while. When I hire again I will request a shirtless instant selfie, as two of the past three providers have been in far worse shape than their pics (one blamed it on being unable to afford to get a gym membership in the US, and the other on having been traveling in the US for a month), and I will never assume that these guys know how to give a massage unless it’s verified here on this forum. I probably need to be more open to hiring the same provider instead of searching for another.
I almost suspect that the fewer providers there are in an area, the more honest one has to be, which cuts down on the number of crappy/scammy providers. Just an unverified hypothesis.

They want your cock, Ben. That’s what they want.

Ok, but, guys aren’t on IG to find dates. They’re on IG for street cred, like a visual, vain facebook. People on Grindr and Tinder are there (theoretically) to meet others who share their sexuality. I think I’ve said hi to three guys on IG; I vaguely recall one of them wanting to talk more. But I still wouldn’t want to “use” IG as a dating app. 

They want your cock, Ben. That’s what they want.

They want your cock, Ben. That’s what they want.

I am happy to have learned that size does NOT matter. when your guy is sweet, loving, passionate, beautiful and a great kisser, that’s all that matters...

Changed his fake photos again. 

Eh, count me unimpressed. He’s staying in my neighborhood, and I offered to drive him to my apartment and back to his hotel. He said that that was fine, but he’d be charging me for that time. So basically he wanted to charge me an additional 20 minutes of meeting time, or reduce our proposed session from 60 minutes to 40 minutes.
That was completely out of line. And I’ve also never had a good experience with a provider who was eyeing the clock to the minute.

Yet another oxymoron.
This all sounds like a trip to Narnia.

Lol, crazy. 

Lol, crazy.