Simply put, I can’t pay a provider $400/hr if he can’t cum. I have had two bad experiences with guys who, upon meeting them, say that they don’t cum or ask for an extra donation to do so. It totally kills the mood and makes me dislike the experience. In a massage setting I don’t care, but in a sex setting I very much do.
This provider knew that desire of mine and agreed to meet, asking me to confirm at least three times, which I did. I applaud that he (belatedly) realized he couldn’t live up to the expectation and canceled; what I don’t applaud is agreeing to meet, bumping me away from the first night in town when he knew he would be able to cum, finding a way to be unable to live up to very basic expectations for a $400/hr escort, and then canceling a few hours after what had been a clear confirmation on my part that we would meet.
I only became worried about his ability to cum once I detected he had bumped me off of Thursday to meet a different client, if not several different clients. I disagree with his characterization that I incessantly bothered him about it, though I did make it clear I was worried about it.
Lastly, I was somewhat relieved we didn’t meet because, I suspect, he likely didn’t have any juice left in the tank for our meet. I shared my experience to let others know he is willing to shift and annul engagements, and was willing to use my flexibility on time to make me his last priority — to fit me into his schedule at a time most would be at work and when he could likely forecast he wouldn’t be able to live up to clear expectations set.
It is obvious to me that he cancelled likely not because of being pressured but because he had cum so much he knew he wouldn’t be able to recharge by 1pm the next day. I suspect he felt guilt, which I applaud. That’s the likely reason to request my confirmation at 7pm, receive said confirmation within 15 minutes, and then cancel at midnight with minimal communication in between.
Philleas can wander around with his divining rod all he wants to. I’ve provided my review and don’t need to say anything else on the matter.