carolus

yes he did.

If the OP doesn't take a "no" for what it is, then that's an issue. merely asking isn't. I recall i used to see a nude massage only provider several years ago, and I would admit I asked him once if he did sex. He smiled and said "no, he only gives massage since sex to him is special". I said no problem and never raised it again. I recall him doing an interview for a local LGBT mag, and he said the same thing that he didn't offer intercourse, only massages, handjobs and prostate massages at best, so one can infer it was a hardline and most likely a number of his clients asked and he declined. It's a pretty natural request in that setting, given the erotic nature of massage and him being naked whilst delivering it. I don't really see the deal. Provided the client respects the escort's boundaries, it's pretty fair.

There's no real harm in asking. not all inquiries of this type lead to harassment or pressuring. At best, that depends on the client in question. Some might ask, and if declined, never ask again. Others might push it to the point the escort has to "fire" the client. An escort, if asked about if they'd breach a stated boundary or service limit, can do a few things. they may accept the breach and the extra money, politely decline, decline in a hostile manner and continue with the session, or tell the client to leave and never return. Escorts with sense would know there would be some clients who might ask for "more". If they are firm at preserving the boundary, so be it. This thing isn't really that deep, and the OP really is doing nothing wrong. Let's be honest here, i think most clients have asked a provider if they will do "more" in specific occasions. If the provider gives a hard line and is true to their profile, so be it. It's somewhat expected and escorts would know it happens. Take a massage-only provider, I'd bet they get many requests for sex even though massage is only on offer. It happens. they know it will happen, and they just put their foot down. The Sub Boy guy making the OP seem like he's as bad a war criminal is very cringe and excessive.

I mentioned SA since you mentioned rapist behaviour. Asking a person if they would fuck men for pay isn't connected at all to SA. Don't move the goalposts.

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This depends, a lot. More often than not, they do what they say in their profile. this includes sex acts as well as who they fuck or what sex/gender they're willing to fuck. For a lot of providers it is a hard line, but not all providers would break their profile requirements. There is no harm in asking, I suppose. But then asking something they won't ever provide can lead to a blocking in some cases. The OP or anybody else can try but proceed with caution all the same.

If the OP wants to ask straight escorts, let him. he'll just get told no most of the time. Or he might score lucky, occasionally. I don't see the big deal. No more than asking a top-only escort if he bottoms. He'll just say "no, i only top". What's the deal? lol.

with respect, that's an extreme logical reach to make. Asking a guy who is straight "would you fuck a man for pay?" isn't rape or SA. the worst he can say is "no".

Why not just contact an escort who says he only fucks men? maybe it's me but I've never found it appealing to "turn" or "sus out" providers. Like, one doesn't go into a Chinese take-away and sus them out to make Iranian food.

My preference is 8" and I can take up to 10" easily. I only really hire hung escorts. I don't apologise for being a size queen. Those "offended" can take a fucking hike.

The TOS stands though.

Never through OF. that's explicilty frowned upon in their TOS. Most tend to have a social media account that they would advertise or share pics on. X allows porn on it, so that's best for racy pics and vids. They are allowed to show their OF URL on X.

if it's not sexual per se, then he shouldn't touch it. Or he just did it out of courtesy or empathy. I guess if you were dribbling, so to speak, it would distract him or take away from the massage. Maybe that's how he was trained, or what the spa policy is. It may not mean anything or be a sign or anything potentially good in the offing, or anything sinister.

I've used dayuse without any issues. It's just like staying in a hotel overnight or several nights, so it's no problem. I've had outcalls there and the terms say the normal hotel terms are fine as in accepting guests.

Most tend to be for escorts only. they tend to ask for proof of being an escort before they let them in. From what escorts say, they don't badmouth the clients there, but they just talk about who is pleasant or dangerous, or a timewaster or not.

This must be an American or LA thing. it's not common in other parts of the world do this. I guess it's the escort's right to choose whom they want fuck or be sexual with. ut the implication is that it's sex for pay, so pickiness is limited somewhat. The normal format is that as long as a person isn't overly stinky, or has evident skin conditions, or in terms of behaviour

I wouldn't think so. I'd say it could be just as much they are well-valued. It doesn't mean he's paying people off to leave him good reviews.

in the grand scheme, yes you're right, it's not. but younger guys wo't typically go for an older man. yes, escorting is different from proper dating or hook-ups but still.

generalising isn't good or wise. This doesn't mean that bi guys are inherently flaky due to merely being bi.

I ensure my home is clean, and nothing of value is visible. Not to assume they're thieves or dishonest, but then i don't like to take chances. I also ensure the bathroom is clean and often the like to freshen up or change into something more comfortable before the session.

I'm a bi guy. I prefer early 20s twinkish guys who look feminine or have a campy look. the thing is, I'm in my late 30s, and would said escorts mind about seeing a guy who is older? I saw a guy about a year ago who was 22, but I'm a bit put off but then it's what I like.

seems like an odd question, but i'm just curious about something. do escorts mind noise? when i get fucked, i can often orgasm from anal alone, and i tend to moan a lot and be loud. i get a bit self-conscious and often apologise to the escort if it freaks him out. is this OK?