I had a similar experience when I started receiving massages. I got so excited that I was very squirmy and I wouldn’t last long. One of my regular masseurs noticed and one day he said before we started “I want to give you a really good massage today but I need you to be fully relaxed first.” He undressed me and he dropped his robe. He turned around and put my dick in his ass. I fucked him for like two seconds and came like crazy. He turned around, cleaned me and said “ok, and now we can begin.” It was an awesome massage as I was already released. At the end of the massage he gave me another HE. I was a regular (he does no longer massages) and, since then, I have been able to control timing better.