I had an experience with a provider in Madrid (I won’t name names publicly as he tends to visit this forum but happy to DM to whoever is thinking on visiting Madrid) that was a huge turnoff. The guy is gorgeous but he was so much into himself. He kept saying “don’t you think I’m good-looking”, “don’t you think I’m hot”, “ain’t I one of the hottest guys you have ever been with”, “ain’t you lucky to be in the presence of this body”, “did you ever think you’d be with a guy like me”, “guys like you cannot get guys like me so enjoy this body”. He kept looking at himself in the mirror and saying “fuck I look hot” “fuck if I could I would fuck myself” “don’t you wish you could have a body like mine”. Dude that was the biggest turn off. I know it’s transactional but still you want the fantasy too… after a while I couldn’t get it up with all the comments. Total mood killer.