DaltonJ

This suuuuucks!!! 🤢

**Super easy turkey chili** 1 package of ground turkey 2 cans diced tomatoes (you can choose mild or hot, whatever you prefer) 😜 1 can black beans First, cook the turkey until it’s brown in pan on your stovetop. Second, add the tomatoes and black beans. Stir and cook for about 10 min. Medium heat. During that time, toss in the microwave a bag of 10-min white rice. When the rice is down, so is the turkey. Mix and voila! Season as preferred.

Hi, Jamie — I completely agree that the risk of the experience deepening is more on the client side. Providers work hard to create a personalized and meaningful experience while keeping clear boundaries, and that’s no easy task. It’s impressive how providers can balance intimacy and professionalism to make the session feel special for the client. Managing client expectations while still delivering a quality experience takes a lot of skill and care. 👏 A BFE, for example, by its very nature, suggests an added layer where the experience isn't meant to feel like anonymous sex. I think most clients appreciate this and would likely NOT want a session to feel transactional. I understand the challenge you described, and I agree that the risk of crossing boundaries and blurring lines between a provider/client relationship and something more personal is typically greater on the client side. There are exceptions, but generally speaking, this is more likely to be an issue for the client than the provider. Regarding Jarrod's original post, and I can be completely misunderstanding here, but what I am taking away from his post is it seems he feels a disconnect in non-client hookups because they lack the depth and consideration he experiences with clients. It’s possible that some of his regulars have connected with him in a way that could lead to a more meaningful relationship. If that's the case, it could be worth exploring, but that comes with its own set of complexities and considerations. If Jarrod IS looking for a meaningful relationship, he might find it more easily with one of his clients than through non-client hookups. Most “meaningful relationships” would likely involve shared expenses and a journey together, as I am understanding from his OP (but again, I’m not speaking him). Of course, such a shift would mean moving away from a provider/client dynamic whereby the foundation of that dynamic is predicated on the client paying the provider for a sexual experience, thus requiring careful thought and communication since that will now cease.

Hi Jarrod - have you considered that some of your clients would want a scenario where you didn’t leave, where it wasn’t all about getting fucked, etc.? Is it possible that some of your regular clients may view you more than just provider getting paid for your services? But they don’t act on asking for a relationship bc of the nature of the hookup and to respect unspoken boundaries? For some, I don’t think these client hookups are “meaningless.” Sex is intimate, whether it’s paid or not. It’s an intimate experience. And seeing a client regularly, that experience has to naturally deepen in some way. Whether it’s acted upon outside the client/provider relationship is a different story, but I think the experience deepens in some way. So if you’re getting money and gratitude from a client, that you’re not getting from non client hookups, have you thought of pursuing one with a client that checks off the OTHER boxes that you seek from non client hookups, would be my question?

That makes perfect sense - thank you for sharing. In reaching out to the provider, I was very intentional in what I hoped for our overnight experience. I had a very traumatic experience when I graduated from high school, so my request was centered on a very vanilla BFE: kissing, hugs and cuddles. I brought up my high school experience just to be transparent with him and to provide some color. I specifically mentioned just sleeping in his arms and to feel safe and protected. The price was the same. I would never negotiate or ask the provider to adjust his rates.

I just watched this intense, disturbing new Netflix series called “Baby Reindeer.” It follows the true story of a young writer / comic named Richard Gadd who faces a stalker. The show is gripping and deals with the fear and psychological impact of being stalked, but it goes even deeper into other intense and complex issues. The performances are top-notch, and the series really keeps you hooked from start to finish. Parts are very hard to watch. Still chewing on the ending. Let me know what you think if you watch it!

His hat is appropriately titled. 😂

I’d do $20 just for the biscuits! 😋

I thought the same. 😂 If he can get it, which it seems he can, good for him.

To my wrestling friends - see, no cup. 😜

The most I was quoted was $4000 for an overnight. He has glowing reviews on this site, so I thought I’d reach out. He seemed very nice. Unfortunately, I could not afford his price. He then offered $3,500. I thanked him, and said that was sadly out of my budget; I would honor if I could. I asked about his hourly rate — I was quoted $500 p/h with a min of 2 hours = $1,000.