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You may want to look at Misterbandb they may have some private listings to fit your needs

Have you tried Personal Touch or GayWellness? I like the "environment" of GayWellness and it lists providers in other wellness categories like yoga, coaching and even skin care (or at least it is the avenue the site is trying to pursue.. it doesn't have a lot of listings).

I think we as gay men think that if another man ejaculates while we are "playing" then he must be into me.... and if he doesn't then he is not. There is so much more to sex and sexuality then ejaculation. You have to remember that in massage or escort services, the main goal of the provider should be about them meeting your needs. There are guys out there who really just enjoy getting other guys off (hand, mouth or whatever) and have no consideration to cum themselves.

I do not know the cost of advertising on Rentmen, but it has a prime audience of men that either pay for companionship or are not averse to that idea. And it looks like a listing on the site allows you to list your website and twitter handles. So why wouldn't there be some listings that are really just advertisement for their other businesses? This is the audience you are trying to reach. I have only booked massages so far but I have also run into providers that do not respond. And that is what happens when you are dealing with independent contractors... its not like you are calling the receptionist at your local massage envy. If I have have not heard back from a masseur I simply move on. I would not take it as a personal attack.

Wish he was in Chicago

As a client, if you are not having frequent sex, (and maybe doesn't merit being on PREP on a daily basis) but are concerned with being with a provider because of their sexual activity you can talk to your doctor about taking PREP ON DEMAND. The dosing is different, but you only take it around the window of sexual activity. I am not a medical professional so I am hesitant to get into the dosing, but it is an option for gay men that don't have sex on a regular basis but still want to make sure they are taking care of themselves when they do.

Nah... I think if you shave more than 5 years off you are up for ridicule. He's' either 33 and smokes 2 packs a day since age 11, or not 33

if they really wanted to do bodywork, they could just advertise on rentmasseur or another site... I think they are using the rentmen platform to gain followers for twitter and OF

Don't think of it as a fake name, think of it as a nom de plume or DBA (doing business as). I used to see a masseur who I didn't realize was using a fake name until he told me his real name at our 3rd session. He said it helps provide a little anonymity and also he was bad with names... so if someone referred to him by his "working name" while out, it helped him narrow down where he knew the person from. Also, just because someone is advertised as "MagicHands4U" and tells you their name is Mike when you meet them... doesn't mean. their government name is actually Mike.

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i think you're thinking about someone else. Not only are the pics accurate, he actually sent a current pic via text so you knew who you were meeting with.

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I think the use of the word tip is confusing the point for some people. A tip is "to insure proper service." If you would like to ensure or see "service" increase on a future visit then a tip would be a good indicator to the provider. Did they squeeze you in or take you as a last minute request... a tip is appropriate. If you don't think most providers keep a record or payment,, services rendered and gifted amount, I believe you would be wrong. Now... does it need to be 20%... not necessarily, but a little cash is much more memorable than a verbal gratuity and a hug. Yes. the provider is keeping much more of the fee for the service visit (so it is not like you are paying someone that is working on tipped hourly wages) but I think a base $15 to $20 tip is expected.

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I think part of paying for a massage is getting undivided attention for yourself for 60/90/120 minutes. If there were other people in the area it would definitely affect the ambiance/mode for me. For those clients that also have to concern themselves with discretion I would think this would be a deal-breaker.

I think you may want to look for a professional Cuddler (yes.. its a thing). There was a guy on RM that used to advertise as a cuddlist in Chicago Cuddlist.com seems to be the most "authentic" site, but there are others you may want to try (where you are hiring a "professional" certified cuddler.) Cuddlecomfort.com seems to be more a community to find like minded people that want to cuddle

So... I've seen several threads that mention masseurs that use a theragun and it would seem most clients DO NOT prefer the gun. But we often seen providers posing with them in pics (Moreso on rentmasseur vs RM but this is just my opinion I've always operated under the assumption that the gun has its uses but it is primarily used: 1) To strengthen the professional "image" of the masseur 2) To indicate on a more conservative website that the provider has a "big gun" As I personally tend to avoid therapist that advertise with the gun this is just an assumption on my part, but I would love to hear your insight as clients and providers as to using the theragun in pics to advertise services.

Looks like he is now in Chicago... is the age of 27 real?

But if you read the reviews.. he actually never had a massage from the guy. They should just delete both of those off his listing

Is this provider in the Witness Protection program for masseurs? Law & Order: RM

Maybe this is just me... but I always thought the theragun was a symbol for a large cock. Since the masseurfinder website is a little more conservative in its postings. The pics on MF seem to have more masseurs with the "gun" then on RM. Just my thoughts

based on your guys reviews, I tried to schedule a massage with PJ. 1st attempt he wasn't sure if he would be available for the time I requested. I understand... so HE said that he would PENCIL me in and get back to me the next day and let me know for sure. No message back the next day. Contacted him several days later... no response again. Can't knock his massage as I've never had one, but I would suggest if you value your time, have a plan B in place as from my experience, he doesn't follow through in the planning.

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Gorgeous pics, but if I had to say a con,.. it would be he looks a little "empty" or "drained" in the eyes... there is just no joy (if that makes sense to you).