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    General thoughts on interactions with providers

    in Spas & Masseurs

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    Agreed. I really do not think it’s about getting a bigger tip.  Maybe the guy is just aroused . Or yes maybe he is acting out of habit and it’s his usual process. If you like the guy and feel comfortable, then go with the flow. Don’t overthink it!   If you truly have  strong boundaries for some reason ( like loyalty to a partner) then yes just be clear up front as you have been and hope he respects that.  He should!  

    First time hiring a provider

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Definitely.  It’s all about clear communication.  No one is a mind reader. That is also why I like establishing a reporter with a masseur and becoming a regular client.  Makes life so much easier for both parties.  Plus lets you build respect and friendship along with having a great time !  Nothing like a solid connection which builds over time. 

    Shorted time from masseurs you like...

    in Questions About Hiring

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    Agreed. It is disrespectful when time is cut short. For a 60 minute session, the massage should last close to 50 mins with ten minutes allowed to get dressed, clean up, final chat and part ways.   I think with regulars they can start taking you for granted which is unfortunate.  I think it might be unintentional but it lacks professionalism. I agree, play dumb and mention the time issue. Otherwise you will stew and sulk and feel cheated. At the end of the day, it is still a business transaction. Speak up and stand up for yourself. You can do it in a nice polite way. 

    411 Mert NYC

    in Spas & Masseurs

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    Yes. This Young Turkish guy is excellent masseur in my opinion. Generous with his time and very skilled magic hands. Great communicator and super friendly personality. Saw him in Philly. Will def repeat again!! 

    I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]

    in Questions About Hiring

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    I usually just respond that I am out of town. If he continues to reach out on future visits, just say thanks for reaching out but you are really busy.  Most will get the hint you are not interested.  Note:  A lot of masseurs do reach out as a courtesy in case you aren’t regularly checking the sites and they are visiting town for a day or two. It’s a nice gesture. But you have no obligation nor should feel pressure just because they do that. 

    So many bad reviews

    in Spas & Masseurs

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    It’s terrible.  I have seen the guy and he is excellent!!  I am glad everyone is seeing past this attempt to smear the guy for some reason.  MM Jayler is a professional guy who deserves respect and many good clients in his future !! 

    Pushiness about Estimated Time Arrival (E.T.A.) ?

    in Questions About Hiring

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    Younger generation is def over the top with constant texting and often no sense of time. It’s crazy.  If a client is coming to you, the masseur is not running around or inconvenienced.   Just chilling in his room.  I cannot tolerate a lack of common courtesy either. I so appreciate when a younger guy is professional and acts accordingly.  That’s why I prefer to go to respectful masseurs  I have seen previously, rather than  deal with such nonsense. 

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