Roger Smith

Not sure if this is a topic that's been covered here or not, but here goes.
When hiring a pro bottom, what are the expectations around if and when you can expect them to cum?
I know that that typically in a gay anal sex situation, both parties tend to make an effort to keep the bottom from cumming until very near the end of the experience.  The idea being that you're minimizing the time that the bottom continues to get fucked after having cum, because that can be physically challenging. 
My question is this: when hiring a paid bottom, theoretically a professional bottom, does that same expectation hold?  
I can't be alone among tops in this.  Some of us are into cum play.  Love to fuck a load out of a bottom.  Enjoy his his load, share it with him, get us both messy with it.  Then take my time in getting myself where I need to get off and breed him.  All without worrying if he's okay and if I'm somehow transgressing.  
Is this a realistic expectation of a pro bottom?  Any NYC guys able to recommend specific providers whose skill set includes this kind of sex?  
 

Not sure if this is a topic that's been covered here or not, but here goes.
When hiring a pro bottom, what are the expectations around if and when you can expect them to cum?
I know that that typically in a gay anal sex situation, both parties tend to make an effort to keep the bottom from cumming until very near the end of the experience.  The idea being that you're minimizing the time that the bottom continues to get fucked after having cum, because that can be physically challenging. 
My question is this: when hiring a paid bottom, theoretically a professional bottom, does that same expectation hold?  
I can't be alone among tops in this.  Some of us are into cum play.  Love to fuck a load out of a bottom.  Enjoy his his load, share it with him, get us both messy with it.  Then take my time in getting myself where I need to get off and breed him.  All without worrying if he's okay and if I'm somehow transgressing.  
Is this a realistic expectation of a pro bottom?  Any NYC guys able to recommend specific providers whose skill set includes this kind of sex?  
 

You can't go wrong with DznNYC.  I'm far from a first timer, but... 
Kind, patient, sexy, and far more vers than his profile makes it appear. 
 
rent.men/DznNYC

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

You totally earned the search bar lecture, however, they could also just answer your question.
 
It doesn't get much better than Nick Halden.  10/10
Top tier, true professional.  Very hot experience. 

Of course, baby!   You deserve it.  
I think a lot of guys don’t understand how challenging it is to be a bottom for hire.  A lot of us tops who hire come with limitations.  We can’t do every position.  We’re limited in what cadences or positions or intensities get us off.  Some of us - even if very hung - have trouble staying hard.  Topping is hard as you age! Some of us hire because we don’t necessarily have to capacity to think of more than getting ourselves off.
So it can be challenging for us when we’re trying to top a fickle bottom.  It’s one of reasons we seek out professionals!
So it can be very very frustrating when you book a bottom who can’t deliver.  I can’t do certain shapes or sizes.  I can only do this position.  You have to do it slower.  You have to come from that direction.  
So when you meet someone like Blake who can do it your way and accommodate your sexual quirks with ease, you want to lift him up!
Definitely one of my top three bottoms in NYC. 

YES!   He looks generally 20’s.  Could pass for 21.  Could pass for 30.  And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model.  
Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently.
His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

Of course, baby!   You deserve it.  
I think a lot of guys don’t understand how challenging it is to be a bottom for hire.  A lot of us tops who hire come with limitations.  We can’t do every position.  We’re limited in what cadences or positions or intensities get us off.  Some of us - even if very hung - have trouble staying hard.  Topping is hard as you age! Some of us hire because we don’t necessarily have to capacity to think of more than getting ourselves off.
So it can be challenging for us when we’re trying to top a fickle bottom.  It’s one of reasons we seek out professionals!
So it can be very very frustrating when you book a bottom who can’t deliver.  I can’t do certain shapes or sizes.  I can only do this position.  You have to do it slower.  You have to come from that direction.  
So when you meet someone like Blake who can do it your way and accommodate your sexual quirks with ease, you want to lift him up!
Definitely one of my top three bottoms in NYC. 

YES!   He looks generally 20’s.  Could pass for 21.  Could pass for 30.  And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model.  
Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently.
His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

Of course, baby!   You deserve it.  
I think a lot of guys don’t understand how challenging it is to be a bottom for hire.  A lot of us tops who hire come with limitations.  We can’t do every position.  We’re limited in what cadences or positions or intensities get us off.  Some of us - even if very hung - have trouble staying hard.  Topping is hard as you age! Some of us hire because we don’t necessarily have to capacity to think of more than getting ourselves off.
So it can be challenging for us when we’re trying to top a fickle bottom.  It’s one of reasons we seek out professionals!
So it can be very very frustrating when you book a bottom who can’t deliver.  I can’t do certain shapes or sizes.  I can only do this position.  You have to do it slower.  You have to come from that direction.  
So when you meet someone like Blake who can do it your way and accommodate your sexual quirks with ease, you want to lift him up!
Definitely one of my top three bottoms in NYC. 

YES!   He looks generally 20’s.  Could pass for 21.  Could pass for 30.  And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model.  
Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently.
His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

Of course, baby!   You deserve it.  
I think a lot of guys don’t understand how challenging it is to be a bottom for hire.  A lot of us tops who hire come with limitations.  We can’t do every position.  We’re limited in what cadences or positions or intensities get us off.  Some of us - even if very hung - have trouble staying hard.  Topping is hard as you age! Some of us hire because we don’t necessarily have to capacity to think of more than getting ourselves off.
So it can be challenging for us when we’re trying to top a fickle bottom.  It’s one of reasons we seek out professionals!
So it can be very very frustrating when you book a bottom who can’t deliver.  I can’t do certain shapes or sizes.  I can only do this position.  You have to do it slower.  You have to come from that direction.  
So when you meet someone like Blake who can do it your way and accommodate your sexual quirks with ease, you want to lift him up!
Definitely one of my top three bottoms in NYC. 

YES!   He looks generally 20’s.  Could pass for 21.  Could pass for 30.  And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model.  
Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently.
His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

YES!   He looks generally 20’s.  Could pass for 21.  Could pass for 30.  And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model.  
Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently.
His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider.  Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch.
I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC.  Aesthetically he's top of the heap.  He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile.  As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out.  Very accommodating.  Very game to experiment.  Very connective.  Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM.
I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here. 

You totally earned the search bar lecture, however, they could also just answer your question.
 
It doesn't get much better than Nick Halden.  10/10
Top tier, true professional.  Very hot experience. 

So I don't hire tops that much anymore, but this thread inspired me. 
I just had a fully TRANSCENDENT experience with Gentleman_Justin.  
We know RentMen is full of anatomically gifted tops.  Justin is certainly that, and then some.  And we know tops with STAMINA aren't necessarily rare on RentMen.  Justin is that and then some too.  But damn...
It's truly rare to find an intuitive connective top who's willing to take you on a RIDE.  A dynamic ride.  It's been a LONG time since I've finished a session with a top thinking about when I can book him again.  A true human experience.  Worth every penny and then some.  
Worth noting: my own selfishness almost prevented me from chiming in here.  Sometimes when a new escort becomes suddenly popular, his rates go up; his availability becomes scarce.  But I couldn't not recognize this true talent.  
This guy MAY have restored my faith in hiring tops. 

I feel exactly the same way about @DznNYC   
Sounds like you and I would be competing for his time, my friend!  

So I don't hire tops that much anymore, but this thread inspired me. 
I just had a fully TRANSCENDENT experience with Gentleman_Justin.  
We know RentMen is full of anatomically gifted tops.  Justin is certainly that, and then some.  And we know tops with STAMINA aren't necessarily rare on RentMen.  Justin is that and then some too.  But damn...
It's truly rare to find an intuitive connective top who's willing to take you on a RIDE.  A dynamic ride.  It's been a LONG time since I've finished a session with a top thinking about when I can book him again.  A true human experience.  Worth every penny and then some.  
Worth noting: my own selfishness almost prevented me from chiming in here.  Sometimes when a new escort becomes suddenly popular, his rates go up; his availability becomes scarce.  But I couldn't not recognize this true talent.  
This guy MAY have restored my faith in hiring tops.