Nodalguy

I will never again pay a deposit. If the provider demands one, then we're just not a fit and it won't happen.

My policy now is that I don't pay deposits, but on the one occasion that I did (that I can remember), the guy ended up really being a piece of work and jerking me around. Canceled the night before on me (I found out later, based on his reviews, to go to a different city to meet up with a client for an overnight but probably mainly so he could get rid of a recent bad review). Then his pricing ended up changing all the time and getting more expensive. I really should have just killed it there and asked for my money back (since he canceled on me) or given him a bad review. Finally, when it came time to meet up, I had to travel about 75 minutes on two buses to get to a really shady part of town. The trip home was also pretty eventful and not fun because of some transit work service outages. And there was a roommate at his place where he was hosting! We didn't end up meeting for anywhere near the full time agreed (at the end he was leaving to go somewhere, so I question whether he ever intended to spend the full time). I was a bit out of it so didn't notice we'd only spent half the time until I checked my phone on the walk to the train. He also didn't partake in the party at all (probably because he had those plans that cut our meeting short), which made things a lot less fun. Other red flags (that I experienced only after paying deposit): He had a setting on the messenger app we used that deletes all our messages after only 24 hours. He had multiple Cash App accounts. Wanted me to send him a huge amount (additional to deposit) in advance so that he could get a friend to join when I said it would be fun to have another guy. Constantly changing prices with seemingly no recollection of prior arrangements and prices agreed or consistency between them. He also seemed to totally forget about the deposit and his prices did not seem to reflect that I'd already sent him 200. Was big on selling fantasy versus making real plans that could happen and that would be enjoyable by everyone. The only good things about it were: he was reasonably hot and did match his pics/description; he was pretty professional about the actual service in a number of ways, even as some things went awry; and also he had an amazing connection really close by with great merchandise (although it was rip-off expensive... I think he literally doubled his connection's actual price and pocketed the split).

His look pretty legit to me, if you click on them and look at their profiles and reviewing history. But I didn't know that about the RM ratings changing.... It definitely explains some of the weird things I've seen with some shady providers. For example, take a look at the guy I linked below. The rentboy he reviewed so highly so often (the only one) was kind of a notorious, inconsistent, and I'll say "shady" guy (profile now completely deleted but I have his Twitter and can send privately). Lovehim - Reviews - Male Escort - Chicago, Illinois | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Verified gay escort reviews of Lovehim, Chicago, Illinois! Enjoy this amazing gay massage or gay escort near you.

Yes, in Chicago it is 300/hr. I have found that pretty consistently even among visitors. I don't meet up with a lot of newbies, but they usually are a bit less as mentioned. I've paid quite a bit more on some occasions, but can't think of a time I found it anywhere close to worth it in retrospect. I think this is because people who inflate their prices either tend to be scammy, totally self-serving, or just completely self-absorbed with zero interest in you and who are generally not the people I've found to be fun and to get into it. I think sometimes part of it is that they tend to be physically very attractive, but that just means they are more likely to have the qualities I mentioned earlier and are less likely to have any real interest in you or providing good service. Most providers will give a discount for longer sessions, which can vary a lot. Enhancements can vary too. From what I've seen, most providers will include them or ask for a minimum (2-3) in hours if consuming just a bit with them. If you're wanting to take some hot tea to go, it's usually around 80-100. Of course the amount and quality plays a role, this is just typical.

I don't really think this is accurate in my personal experience. I could definitely meet up with someone I'm into and have a fun time without PNP. What is True is that if things sort of align perfectly or you manage to set them up perfectly, you can have an utterly amazing experience PNPing that I think would be hard or impossible to match otherwise. The huge downside to PNP can be its impact on performance (sometimes affecting hardness, or making it very challenging or, let's say, extremely time-consuming to cum).

I think every "ask me" and definitely every "anything goes" provider has gone bareback with me, even without discussing it in most cases (but my profile makes it, or anyway did make it, fairly clear that it's fine by me). I've had some "safe only" guys approach me offering BB as well, and one I met up with who I am pretty sure stealthed me.

Dang, he looks like a great fit for me. Looking at his reviews, it seems he has visited my location fairly recently as well. I'll keep my eye on him and maybe someday we'll meet up and I can report back.

I am curious about your motivation for posting this, as you seem to bring this topic up repeatedly. If you don't want to do or be around drugs, don't discuss them or even mention in your profile that you do not want to be involved with them whatsoever. If you have an interest, then select PNP as one.

I saw him when he was traveling and enjoyed it just fine. He is pretty sweet and hunky. Massage was decent. I would visit him again, but it's been a while since he traveled where I am.

Yes, I really like when there is a Twitter linked that actually adds value with media and posts that give insight into the provider's personality. Protected or Not Found Twitters give me the opposite feeling. If I have to fix the Twitter link and it does actually come up, then I would say that it is still a positive, but it does make me wonder about their attention to detail and how it is that they goofed and never even tested that their own link worked. If it's actually an OF account name that they've stuck in there, then that is a definite negative for me.

I'm into a variety of guys, but I would say they tend to be mid-20s to early-30s, fit, and generally nice looking to quite handsome. Lately I've also been on a real streak for Latino guys, but that's not a requirement at all. Other than that, the most important factors for me are: safe sex status and, let's say, providing some hot tea for the party. I do also like uncut and hung (although not too much so).

Thanks for linking for me :-*. Yes, two of them are in FL now, but I actually met them at their hotels while they were traveling. Those two happened to stay in nice hotels. Other rentmen I've met up with... did not.

I enjoyed my experience with him. He looks great to me and was about what I expected based on his pictures. But it was really pretty quick. I was coming down from earlier partying but was still pretty horny and wanted a quick thing, and I think he also was rushed for some other reason. He asked me I think about 75 minutes before our original start time if I could arrive a half hour earlier. Since I was already pretty prepared from the earlier said events, I was able to arrive 20-25 min early. I think his load was pretty big.

Probably AlexBiXL on RM. He's just so resourceful, energetic, and fun to be with. Jordaan on RM is extremely hot, but I think both of us were in a bit of a hurry. He is very handsome and has a great body. Would have loved to have spent more time appreciating it. DiegoPassion on RM is a real sweetie and a hunk. His massage was enjoyable but not amazing. I just found a brand new provider I'm meeting up with this weekend. I can see us getting along great, as we are a great match, but we'll see. Might report on him in the future. I also have a handful of providers that are definitely on the Never Again list, but that's for another post.

I typically am looking for PNP specifically. It's definitely possible to do it intermittently but regularly and basically be normal the vast majority of the time. These days it does feel as if it takes a bigger toll on my body than when I was in my late twenties, and I have noticed that many of the more experienced PNP providers really look kind of rundown themselves, even if they're 30yo or so. Frankly it's so hard to find, at least for me, there's really zero risk of long term dependence. It's just not possible to get regularly enough or in sufficient quantities. And you are very unlikely to overdose on it unless you do something like ingest or bump it, where you could end up taking in much more than you would if inhaling over time and controlling it. But the reason for using it is that it obviously that it is an experience. It does change how things feel, for the most part in a positive way. The most amazing experiences I've had sexually have been on it. But in general, yes, I would say it's not for everyone. The most important thing if you do choose to use is to do it somewhere safe, stay hydrated, brush your teeth, and try to eat whatever you can, even though you will have zero appetite and it will be actually quite unenjoyable and a chore to take every bite.