BearDen

Agreed whatahoot8.  I've had the same experience...great massage and no communication issues.

I don't know superben or uncutdad.  I've had more than half a dozen great massages by this guy who was always professional and communicated well. His massage is why I keep going back to him repeatedly.  I hope this helps.

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here.
I had a massage with Hud last night in DC.  After the session I asked about what happened with you.  He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site.  But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session.
I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone.  But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story.  This is the convo that I snapped from his phone.
1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly".  The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?"  I possess a photo of this from his phone. 
2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?"  He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok".   This was at a little after 2pm.  And that was the last the text between you two.  You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for.
So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"??   One of these things is not like the other.  No need to answer me though,  I have a copy of the receipts.
The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table.  I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find.  And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession.  
You "Superben" are not to be trusted.  You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation.  Not an actual massage - a text exchange.  Seriously dude....grow up.
 
 

Mid-50s here and only been at this for 2 years but find I like attractive men of all ages. Attraction for me goes well beyond physical looks; it’s more about connection and intensity. And I get my share of younger and older men for “free” (though is it ever really free 😆); has little to do with decision to hire.

Woof!  What a sexy man!   Yes, Daddy! 
He's like a fine wine 🍷 

I’ve seen some of the masseurs over the years in Denver and wanted to share some information. Just quick thoughts so it’s easy to reference. I hope others will add to it. DM me for any details. I pasted links from MF, but also found guys on RM.
Corbin—nice guy. Quiet. Massage was focused less on the therapeutic and more on enjoying. He’s older now, but his skills are still there. Also, he’s blessed if that’s important to you. I’d go back.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5438/
 
Christopher Marx—he was friendly. He instantly erased any questions about intentions of the massage. He didn’t even ask me what I wanted out of a massage or if I was sore or injured. He just did his thing. This might work really well for many guys—straightforward and immediate. I won’t be going back, but I don’t discourage others.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44439/
 
AussieAlex—he seemed a little older than his photos. Short guy. Easy to work with. More therapeutic with promises to move to more “the next time” I hired him. I’m on the fence about hiring again.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4069/
 
Ryanpatrix—nice guy who used his whole body in the massage. Good human. I’d hire him again.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/15910/
 
BearHealer—If you are able to see the photos behind the paywall on rentmasseur, you know what you are getting physically. He’s super nice, easy to schedule with, and listens. If big guys are your thing, go for it.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46732/
 
Conrad—nice guy, good looking. Really tries to make it good for you. He’s a little awkward…for example, I asked to use the restroom but he said I had to sit down to take a piss. I actually wouldn’t care, but found it odd that I’m hiring you and I’m told that. Not a big deal, but it was little things like that. Nice body. I would still hire him.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/11244/
 
Cory—it was not only 100% legit, but I had to sign something that discussed conduct. He dates women but does have a vibe, but I won’t go back. I felt like I could just go to my local chain.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40463/
 
Michael—nice guy, real massage but enough to make it fun. I’d hire him again.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35937/
 
Steve—he’s awkward and there’s a disconnect, at least for me. Massage was good with some extra. I likely wouldn’t go back but encourage others to try. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30316/
 
Isaac—very personable and nice to be around him. Comes across as straight, but very open. I will be hiring him again! https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39898/
 
Leo—sexy guy, but connecting for an appointment was hard. I do want to go back, but it hasn’t worked. If you’re willing to work at it, he’s good. Can’t find his link at the moment.

Both…

It’s been quite a while, but he was super friendly

Haven’t used him, but he is very clearly that it is strictly professional.

Have seen Jamison in Palm Springs many times.  Always therapeutic only, always a great job.  He just knows the body well, is very strong and has a great, intuitive technique.  Highly recommend if you want therapeutic. 

Thanks so much!  I really love Masseur Finder and the others.  I hope the implications in my original post showed that I do know  finding an older guy in a parlour is rare, which is why I decided to create a topic listing to do a broader search to see if anyone has specific experience with older guys at any of the parlors (they do).  It's not lost on me that most older guys also probably care more about their reputation and are smart enough to want to keep their own money (which is something younger guys aren't thinking through just yet).  This is the same reason why younger guys are more prevalent in porn, but it also speaks to the larger demand of people who prefer to look at and pretend to be adored by youthful looking people.  One doesn't need to do too deep of a dive to recognize why this is, specifically in America.  
Anyway, to everyone who has messaged, thank you.  Keep messaging me and I'll post regular updates.  

And to @pubic_assistance -- I hope you understand that when you're talking within your community of other gay men (or queer, however you want to identify this group), you should recognize that our bond is special and should be protected.  To liken older people to stale bread, old food, or just a fetish is so beyond insulting to the people who quite literally had to fight for their lives to exist. They are beautiful and should be respected, not made fun of.  It saddens me you can't see this.  
Maybe you're afraid of growing old, maybe you resent being older, I don't know.  But whatever it is, I hope you can try and heal whatever is inside of you that makes you feel entitled to be negative.  I hope that when/if you are older, you will be shown love and respect by people of all ages.
 

An update to my list from 2 years ago. Michael is now my go-to guy in Denver. Highly recommend.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35937/

I recently discovered Michael, and honestly, it was one of the top 5 massages I've ever had. He will be my new go-to guy.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35937/

They are very good for therapeutic massage. Super nice and kind. There are little hints of sensuality but mostly focused on your wellbeing. 

Hmm. I saw him a year ago and thought his massage skills were average. He was sans clothes with me but in typical eastern European fashion, he doesn't like being touched you know where.  He was kind of hard to talk to but on a positive note, he is very attractive in person and looks even better than his pictures.

Good masseur, deep and thorough.  Therapeutic and fully dressed.  I’ve heard if he likes you, you may get a bit of an extra, but no such luck for me.  
For the massage part only, I would recommend.  

His link on masseurfinder:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36958/