I’m new to this, but have long been interested in hiring someone. I made an appointment for someone Labor Day weekend, found his profile on rentmen, and now I’m super nervous. I want to have an enjoyable experience, I want the escort to enjoy it too, but is it natural to fear “what if I get caught?”
The escort will be in my town for a couple days before I meet with him, and I’ll get my own room in the same hotel he is and he’ll come to my room. But how do I assure myself I’m being intelligent here and not taking unnecessary risk? I hired him for a massage, figured that was a lower risk starting point. He has 5 reviews on file, a popular IG with 60K followers, and an OF with over 100 posts. I'm not on TicToc or Twitter but he's active there as well.
No hard set appointment has been set, just the day and two hours time. He said “that day is perfect, you can have as many hours as you want.” This is feeling like the classic two voices, one on each shoulder speaking. I see so many people on rentmen, I see so many posters on this forum, so how do I keep myself from making mistakes, amateur or otherwise?
I want to hire him for this massage, but I don't want to be paranoid the entire time and therefore not enjoy it. Any and all advice would be welcomed from those of you who have hired or decided not to hire someone.