Racketjock

Interesting to read the journeys through fun of others. My luck has been with:
 
Andrew Justice (Houston)
JD Kollin (Indy)
Aaron Mark (LV)
Ray Dalton (SD)
Heath Jordan (Chicago)
David SF (SF)
Chad Brock (Chicago)
Brock Hart (Houston)
Christopher Daniels (LV)
Allen Silver (SF)
Devon Hunter (SC)
Tony Cummings (Atlanta)
 
Fun was had with all, at least once.

Interesting to read the journeys through fun of others. My luck has been with:
 
Andrew Justice (Houston)
JD Kollin (Indy)
Aaron Mark (LV)
Ray Dalton (SD)
Heath Jordan (Chicago)
David SF (SF)
Chad Brock (Chicago)
Brock Hart (Houston)
Christopher Daniels (LV)
Allen Silver (SF)
Devon Hunter (SC)
Tony Cummings (Atlanta)
 
Fun was had with all, at least once.

As a former trained chef, I am admittedly critical when it comes to the cooking shows. I detest the false competitions and drama which is demeaning and designed to drive ratings. I won't say there is plenty of drama that happens in a restaurant kitchen, but that isn't what is being presented. I actually like, or in some ways used to like, Ina Garten and Tyler Florence's shows. I admire that they would talk about the food, where it came from, differentiated what made them good, and were somewhat relatable, though I am not a millionaire with a beautiful house in the Hamptons or Mill Valley. I appreciated that they made good food, shared some solid recipes, and they were easy to watch. You can't quite find that today at all on the network.
 
As for HGTV, I really miss shows about gardening which seem to be a thing of the past, and there is far too much focus now on flipping a house and very little on actual design and what goes into it. I was a big fan of those that actually showed someone making something like Design on a Dime or those that walked you through a process where Candice Olsen was a favorite. I like the eye candy of the guys just as much, but they rarely break a sweat, never take their shirts off, and are careful to keep their assess covered. Where's the fun in that?

Agree he made some poor choices, was drunk, out with friends, and on the rush from training for years resulting in some great achievements. I don't excuse his actions, but even at 32, he is immature. What started out as a comment to mom has grown to large proportion and ruined his reputation and future income potential. My guess is he will need to seek help (image and personal), apologize, ask for forgiveness, and put in the work to build the image and man he wants to be. We are by and large forgiving as a country to the pretty and talented people. He's blessed with both. And should he do some porn or drop trow, I will gladly watch.

Agree he made some poor choices, was drunk, out with friends, and on the rush from training for years resulting in some great achievements. I don't excuse his actions, but even at 32, he is immature. What started out as a comment to mom has grown to large proportion and ruined his reputation and future income potential. My guess is he will need to seek help (image and personal), apologize, ask for forgiveness, and put in the work to build the image and man he wants to be. We are by and large forgiving as a country to the pretty and talented people. He's blessed with both. And should he do some porn or drop trow, I will gladly watch.

Agree he made some poor choices, was drunk, out with friends, and on the rush from training for years resulting in some great achievements. I don't excuse his actions, but even at 32, he is immature. What started out as a comment to mom has grown to large proportion and ruined his reputation and future income potential. My guess is he will need to seek help (image and personal), apologize, ask for forgiveness, and put in the work to build the image and man he wants to be. We are by and large forgiving as a country to the pretty and talented people. He's blessed with both. And should he do some porn or drop trow, I will gladly watch.

I will chime in that I don't think I hate much about porn at all unless I don't see the guys face when they cum. I seem to have a developing fetish for seeing guys with cum all over their face and then the top swooping down for some serious sharing/ kissing. I find that incredibly hot and a nice way to "savor" the moment. Only because of how it sets me over the edge, I like the CF videos where one of the guys sucks on the others toes and to see them squirm and their eyes roll back in their heads. That feeling will cause me to shoot hands free.

TruthBTold has it right about how to determine definitively. Though not to brag, I am volunteering my services for the sake of science and happy to think I could make it grow at least a bit, in my mouth, of course.

I posted this elsewhere, but it seems more appropriate for this thread. Especially with respect to being respectful of the client's time, courteous and literate in responding, but also because of the massage and the overall experience I'd recommend:
 
1. David
http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/massagefixchi.shtml
Legit masseur with a wide repertoire of techniques, soft-spoken, articulate, mixes his own organic creams, does this as serious business and is kept pretty busy by regular clients. The sensual part comes at the end and includes some scented hot towels, which, as much as it is creative & nice, probably isn't a good match for those who like more "interactivity" throughout the session. I never negotiate this part upfront as I like things to be spontaneous and based on both parties being up for it, but am always pleasantly surprised by how smooth/enjoyable this part is and how gorgeous this man is. He does incalls in South Loop, close to the Roosevelt stop of the red line.
 
2. Jake
http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/musclejake1.shtml
He is more interactive and does outcalls. Super smart, engaging, fun and playful. He is also super-strong and can give you as much pressure as you like or can take, maybe not as educated as a masseur as David but the dude is smart and able to listen, so you get the pressure you desire. On a side note, I find it really frustrating that so many hair stylists give you the same haircut no matter what you tell them and similar goes for masseurs. Not here, and I also LOVE when he stretches me, I am 6'4" and 200 lbs. but the dude is so strong and lifts me like I am half the size .
 
Both are on the upper bound of pricing ($150-$160) for Chicago, but well worth it. While there are some decent guys who charge around $100, I invariably find them lacking in some respect, like being routinely late (even over an hour, wtf?!), having a weird hang-up, not being into it, etc., so I have pretty much given up looking in this price range. Unfortunately, going for someone charging over $200 for 90 minutes (which I usually do because I find that 1 hour feels rushed) is no guarantee of quality either, one finds most masseurs in this range to be just as mediocre or worse as the guys who charge less, hence my two recommendations !

I will also throw my vote in for Lukas Ridgeston and would gladly post a pic if I could of his beautiful gift to the world.

Would have to agree with JJ's nomination of Lukas Ridgeston! Most beautiful cock on God's green earth! And still red hot at almost 40:D:p:D:p

Love it. Guys should always have bush showing!

http://66.media.tumblr.com/ed91122850fc7f8cf3b3478ef33c1f49/tumblr_npzpabXNwc1to8ovgo1_540.jpg

Agree with dlee02 and his good advice. I sincerely appreciate the referrals of those on this board and reviews by folks who have been around and I share common tastes in men. That has been the biggest indicator I will have a good time, though not always. I tend to think a dud may happen from time to time, simply because of failure to align communication with expectation or simply one of us ends up having an off moment or day. We are all human and it happens. I am obsessive about my hygiene and communicating what I want to get out of time spent but through it all appreciate the value of honesty and being kind. That seems to help both of us have a good time.

AndrewD (sadly retired) and Kristian Elix.

AndrewD (sadly retired) and Kristian Elix.

I have been on both sides of this coin. Early in my college career as an impoverished student, I had a wonderful arrangement with a banker with whom I enjoyed frequent weekend trips out of town, all expenses paid by him. He was French and very interested in American culture. In my youthfulness, I taught him a lot about spontaneity and eagerness while he taught me patience, expanded my horizons, and taught me to kiss like the French. Our time together passed far too quickly and I graduated college, but with deep appreciation for him and out time together. He purchased an expensive fragrance for me (that I still wear now some 30 years later) as a thoughtful sentimental gesture of something to remember him by which I do to this day.
 
Now in more recent past, I met a cute young man at a Barnes & Noble who I found was also running an escort ad in a city I frequent on business. He was thoroughly mired in debt and living on a friends sofa. We had initially some great times in bed and out, but all on the clock and tab. Eventually, he initiated wanting to see me whenever I was in town, regardless if it was beyond what I could afford for his escort fee. We settled on a mutual agreed amount for our times together with perks for shows, trips, and gifts that came his way. Less than 90 days into it and following a trip to the Carribean, the sex stopped, his behavior changed, and his resentment at his day to day situation versus when with me drove him to anger and the end of our arrangement. It wasn't healthy for either of us, and I wished him well.
 
Haven't repeated since.