john1973

Mine was with an effusively recommended masseur. He got snippy when I had trouble finding the entrance to his apartment. He had a big sore on his upper lip (herp?). He refused to lower the roman blinds on his picture window, allowing his neighbors a view of my nakedness. The bad treatment disarmed me. I could not wait to hop on a plane back to Chi town.

Wow. The best combination imaginable. I'm glad you experienced it. Some good things never last--but having it so good for even half a year is a big win in my book.

Yes, I've always wanted to try those Chicago School of Massage Therapy/Cortiva student massages . Used to be $35 or so per hour.

Price is a factor here as well, right? No or little nudity at around $100/hr is not worth it to me.

Thanks, matt842! I'll try that line next time I book! QUOTE="matt842, post: 1287340, member: 14617"]If a nude masseur is important to you, you might consider trying one thing that I used to do. In a pre-massage email after the initial contact, I would say something like "I understand if you are more comfortable discussing this after we meet, but I prefer mutual nudity during massages," and then explain that it was because I liked body-to-body contact and not because I was looking for a sexual experience. You can generally figure out from his response what his attitude about nudity might be. If he says "We can discuss it after we meet" or "It depends on the client," he's probably comfortable with the idea. That doesn't necessarily mean that he will be nude throughout, but he will probably get naked at some point if he feels comfortable with you. Some replied by saying that they don't work nude, and others ignored the question. Even a few of those ended up getting nude at some point during the massage, and I found that those experiences were among the most exciting ones I had. I stopped asking that question a couple of years ago because I found the surprise more exciting than going into the massage expecting it.

I'm generally too shy to ask about the masseur's "boundaries" upfront. What words do you use for that purpose? I am afraid of offending or sounding indelicate.

My only regret when I was new to this was not asking the masseur how soon the shorts could come off.

Definitely matters. So erotic to touch balls, shaft, head and a thatch of pubes.

Thanks for the info and thoughtful replies, BigRic!

Oooh, I like!

Is the "more" worth several hours of travel?

I love the emphasis on "tasteful." Woof!

He's strikingly handsome in person. I saw him at Stock a year or two ago. But a forum member who had a private with him told me that the experience was not enjoyable, which makes sense because Alfie is quite cocky (not the good kind, alas). Hopefully he's more amiable and less conceited these days.

Not to be uncouth but do they retain the full frontal scene from the original production?

Minneapolis folks, please take one for the team.

His ad disappeared some time ago. Too bad.

Any intel on Hudson in Chicago? http://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/hudsonshands/

Mattr, please PM me with details about Marcus's lapdance. I'm a fan. Drool. Pretty please? :-)