I think @Gar1eth 's post #10 just upthread could be very true in this case......I don't think he's "messing around" with clients, but, rather, is probably just busy with this gig and others......as for being "straight", check out his videos in my link upthread.....he may be "G4P", but I wouldn't let the "is he straight or not?" quandary affect your meet at all.....I've met with a few "straight" guys who very definitely aren't.....gain his trust through respectful and professional communication, then politely ask if he is comfortable with {insert "act" here}.......