the guys at Adonis certainly talk among themselves about the opportunity to meet privately with clients outside the club.....some will do it eagerly, others cautiously, and others not at all (one guy, when I asked politely, said no because that would make him a prostitute....bless his heart!).......expect high rates and possible limits (remember, these guys talk among themselves!)......
I think the ONLY way to make a private meet happen (other than occasionally seeing an Adonis guy actively listing on RM) is to go to an Adonis event in person, find a guy you like (or THE guy if you know he's there that night via the mailings), do a few lap dances with him, be polite and professional, then ask him if he would meet privately with you....... if affirmative, let the negotiations begin!