goldenrainbow222

I proposed a massage trade with BigTallMuscle some months back earlier in 2023. Never got to see him mostly due to travel and schedule conflicts. He was hesitant to meet, telling me he didn’t think he could control himself enough to get through it with professionalism lol! Apparently he had a crush on me. Aw, shucks.
I was curious about his massage and wanted to mutually benefit from a trade. I would still love to see BigTallMuscle someday. He sounds like a real sweetheart, although we’ve never met in person. @Becket’s comment sounds fun! Wow
I’d like to add Dann to this list, since he falls into the more mature masseur category. He’s covered elsewhere in the forums, definitely worth a visit. He started filming adult content in addition to his massage and esthetician work, so his availability may be affected by that. Since summer 2023, he travels to film scenes. Great guy, highly recommend.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/
Give these mature men some love. I haven’t seen all of them, but oftentimes they have more experience, patience, and respect than the younger crowd. Sometimes less expensive, although not warranted. It’s a byproduct of overvaluation of youth and looks. For massage, the experience is more important than how the guy looks. You’re face down and/or eyes closed for most of it anyway. These are just generalizations. YMMV.

Go with Dann 

Hi. 
So I saw 
https://rentmasseur.com/KenAsianHot. 
A. His pics are outdated. There was some debate in other threads that they are fake pics. 
I think some are real but they are outdated. He is not as fit as pictures show. He is still fit and very sexy so this doesn't bother me. 
B. The massage overall was very good. I did receive the time I booked and he was very friendly. However, I doubt I would repeat if he was back in town. 
The main reason being is when it gets to end he tried to upsell in the moment. That is a big turn off for me and I had to tell him no several times to move on. It ruined the moment for sure. 
Also when you turn over he barely massaged my front half. Like my arms and hands and done. Not my legs and not my chest, neck area. 
He starts his massage with no lotion or oil and does a dry rub and relax of your muscles overall. I really enjoyed this aspect because I was much more relaxed when he did add lotion. 
 
Also after the massage and I showered he had me lay back down and he rubbed lotion all over me and worked it in. That was very nice and made the price point worth it. 
He is very sexy and if you want more than a he I am sure he would accomodate but I don't normally look for that.
 
 

The answer is relative to who is asking. I would recommend any of a half dozen or so masseurs depending on your personal priorities and needs. There is no one-masseur-fits all. Nobody is objectively better in every possible category than all the others, and everyone’s criteria is a little bit different.
My personal top priorities are high quality deep tissue skills and professionalism. Everything else factors in to a varying lesser degrees.
I haven’t been able to try all the choices over the past couple years, but I’ve seen quite a few, primarily for market research purposes. I would try more on my list, but I’m running short on time before my move to CA. I’d like to try Roman, for instance, based on thread comments. If I can this week, I will. I would normally avoid a guy who looks like Roman because more often than not the massage is lackluster in favor of “the view”, which is nice but tbh I don’t care. Even from a superficial carnal perspective muscle gods aren’t my thing, so it’s not that exciting to me anyway. Still, I appreciate a good looking fit man the same as the next guy. Massage quality is way more important to me. If he’s as good as others say, I’d really like to try him.
Same thinking about Roman applies to Tristan. He’s a personal trainer and a muscle god too. I would normally pass assuming I’m paying mostly for the view, but from the intel here I decided to try him a while back and I’m happy to say I highly recommend Tristan. Excellent massage, one of the best around. Still not quite up to my standards (nobody in Dallas is), but he’s among the best available. He doesn’t do much in the way of extras, and that may be a downside for many of the clients reading here, maybe even be a dealbreaker for some. He offers HE for a $50 upcharge and he’s up front about it before the session which I appreciate. I saw him for therapeutic only because I don’t need any extras or HE or MT or any of that. At $150 for 90 mins therapeutic only, there’s no better value in town. Amazing. He’s among my top recommendations.
Others I highly recommend for various reasons, alongside Tristan: 
JD, Dann, Jayden (leaving soon)
Kade on MasseurFinder. Late 20s. Strictly therapeutic, outcall. No HE, MT, or other extras, don’t ask. Stays completely clothed the whole time. He’s strictly professional and quite guarded about client advances, borderline paranoid about it. No problem for me because I only want a therapeutic massage. If you see him, please show respect for his boundaries and you’ll be fine. Excellent skills, very reasonable rates. Cute. Works part time at a call center or retail, can’t remember which one he does currently.
Fernando in Bedford, TX. Only advertises on MintBoys, not your traditional go-to places like MasseurFinder or RentMasseur. Offers Lomi Lomi and traditional massage, both sessions very good. Therapeutic, a lot more technical. 20s, Italian accent. Offers HE. It’s not the focus. Remains fully clothed until the end. YMMV. Book in advance.
The following two you can find on RentMasseur. I work with them for 4-hand and other sessions. Each are more sensual/erotic. I can’t rate them overall as highly as the others because my personal needs are more therapeutic, but if an erotic and/or sensual spectrum experience is more important to you than traditional therapy, I recommend them. Glenn is more skilled with traditional massage but goes pretty sensual as well. Langston it’s more of an erotic focus. Btw, they each offer full service sessions at different rates:
Glenn (Mustachioedman)
Langston
Here below is my regular guy in Dallas. I chose him because he is the only one who almost meets my very demanding deep tissue needs. He is certified, excellent at his craft, a joy to be around, and a great guy. I consider him a personal friend. Excellent therapeutic deep tissue work. Sweet, funny, bearish type, around my age. Tons of personality and spirit. He’s chatty, so be warned that may not be the best for everyone. I’m sure you can have a quieter session with him if you want to. Usually I prefer to zen out quietly during a massage, but he and I click and we enjoy talking the whole time.
Chris (Oak Lawn)
Therapeutic only, incall only. Maybe HE if you’re not pushy or grabby or aggressive about it. Stays clothed the whole time. I skip the HE even though I’m sure he would do that for me, I just don’t want/need that. I’m there for full body therapeutic deep tissue, and he consistently delivers.
 

Another+1 for Dann. Super sweet guy, sexy af, and great massage.

Another+1 for Dann. Super sweet guy, sexy af, and great massage.

If you aren't going to mention the name of the provider, what is the purpose of the post? How to handle a similar situation? You didn't provide enough details for someone to provide you with an intelligent answer.
If you are concerned enough about what happened to you to create a new topic, then you should be equally as vigilant in giving us the provider's name so no one else has to experience this "dangerous encounter". Otherwise, this thread is totally useless.
BoZo
 

If NOTHING else you must give the CITY this occurred in or the cit the scort works out of, so those here who hire there can DM you for deets. 

I'm very sorry this happened to you.  It must have been very scary.  I'm glad you came out ok.  But please consider letting us know who he is so none of us meet him.

I saw him recently.  I felt he looked a bit different than his pix but they are his pix.  Not quite as in shape.  Nice guy, good massage, but definitely wants you to upgrade (at a hefty price) which I chose not to do.  HE but MT limited (perhaps because I didn't upgrade?). Shorted a bit on time, personally I wouldn't repeat for the price.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/22143/
Decent massage and a lot of play at the end.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30935/
Same as above.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5923/
Solid massage. HE.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28120/
Best massage in Dallas. Interactive at the end. Repeat customer.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/223/
Horrible. Stay away.