For me I could never change my mind. You broke a code of confidentiality, by having a knee jerk reaction and doing something of this nature.
Who's to say you won't repeat this act again if something or someone comes along and upsets you again, and I have to agree as you now see this thread and this seems to be your livelihood damage control is in full effect.
"Once bitten shame on you, twice bitten shame on me".
No thanks.