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Curious what the norms on tipping are for the various massage offerings are in NYC for 1) the asian massage places 2) private therapist if it's a guy you meet on one of the massage sites (masseurfinder) or 3) an escort. 

Mainly curious abt the massage storefronts where the massages are $65-$80/hour and a tip is not negotiated. Like is a standard 20% even on those or is it expected to give more if extras are given but not negotiated?  Bit of a newbie to those massage store places and the few times i thought I tipped well, the guys always gave looks of disappointment making the exit feel weird.  The other day, I have $25 tip for a $65 massage and felt like I got dirty looks. 

I know you were joking with the above tho I’ve never seen storefront massage places that are African or European. I wasn’t being specific to Asian ones specifically except for the fact I didn’t know others exist. 
and thanks for letting me know a recommended amount is “generous”. Helpful! 

Oh wow. 40%-100% tip is the standard on the Asian massage storefronts? To me, that’s interesting mainly bc that can total an amount that might get you a real professional massage (possibly with a HE). 

Had a rather humiliating experience there a few months back, wont return

Curious what the norms on tipping are for the various massage offerings are in NYC for 1) the asian massage places 2) private therapist if it's a guy you meet on one of the massage sites (masseurfinder) or 3) an escort. 

Mainly curious abt the massage storefronts where the massages are $65-$80/hour and a tip is not negotiated. Like is a standard 20% even on those or is it expected to give more if extras are given but not negotiated?  Bit of a newbie to those massage store places and the few times i thought I tipped well, the guys always gave looks of disappointment making the exit feel weird.  The other day, I have $25 tip for a $65 massage and felt like I got dirty looks. 

Had a massage here by Phil. 
Phil made it clear from the beginning that the focus would be sensual as the massage started with light strokes across my butt and in between the thighs. Also, as soon as he started, he stood at the top of my table to work my back and neck and made sure to press his dick against my head.  The massage was more touching and not a very good massage but every few minutes he made sure to touch my butt, taint, or reach under to let me know this was sensual. Additionally, even when he was on the side, he always made sure my hand placement was next to his dick and a few times placed it on his dick, but i didnt really go for that as i like it to be about me. 
I would have preferred a bit more focus on massage, but hey, i always like surprises - at some point midway through i came with the inner thigh massaging, but he was a sport and continued and kept the sensual on me focused. When i flipped over, it was more obvious that it was sensual as a lot of nip work and an extra.
For a sensual perspective, it def hit the right spots. 
 

Ah thx thx. It doesnt even nec need to be an older guy. Even if someone with that energy and all and knowledgeably into this

No upselling. He just gave it 

Tried East Men today. Had Leo---gives a good deep massage. Started great and then got a bit weird. Wouldn't repeat.

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Had a massage here by Phil. 
Phil made it clear from the beginning that the focus would be sensual as the massage started with light strokes across my butt and in between the thighs. Also, as soon as he started, he stood at the top of my table to work my back and neck and made sure to press his dick against my head.  The massage was more touching and not a very good massage but every few minutes he made sure to touch my butt, taint, or reach under to let me know this was sensual. Additionally, even when he was on the side, he always made sure my hand placement was next to his dick and a few times placed it on his dick, but i didnt really go for that as i like it to be about me. 
I would have preferred a bit more focus on massage, but hey, i always like surprises - at some point midway through i came with the inner thigh massaging, but he was a sport and continued and kept the sensual on me focused. When i flipped over, it was more obvious that it was sensual as a lot of nip work and an extra.
For a sensual perspective, it def hit the right spots. 
 

Oh wow. 40%-100% tip is the standard on the Asian massage storefronts? To me, that’s interesting mainly bc that can total an amount that might get you a real professional massage (possibly with a HE). 

Break it down:
If you go to a massage place, the practitioner is getting only a portion of the fee.  Everyone knows that the $ 65 is a point of entry fee. So if you get more than a basic massage ( Happy ending, bj or more ) you're not really "tipping" you should be PAYING this guy for escort services.
If you go see a person  privately at his place, then he's getting the entire fee, and tipping is a sliding scale. If you got what you paid for and no added effort to provide exceptional service, the tip is optional. If you got excellent service, a tip, is like a restaurant for excellent service in the range of 20%.  If you got more than just a massage, then again you should be paying extra for extras. Same if the session turns to a full-on escort service. You paid for a massage not an ass-fucking. So you're no longer "tipping" you're paying extra for extras. So if the price was not discussed, use your observations of what a good fuck is going to cost you and add that to the price.
Simple.

Usually tip 20% on private at home masseur; 40-60% for the cheaper massage parlor depending on service.

No upselling. He just gave it 

Had a massage here by Phil. 
Phil made it clear from the beginning that the focus would be sensual as the massage started with light strokes across my butt and in between the thighs. Also, as soon as he started, he stood at the top of my table to work my back and neck and made sure to press his dick against my head.  The massage was more touching and not a very good massage but every few minutes he made sure to touch my butt, taint, or reach under to let me know this was sensual. Additionally, even when he was on the side, he always made sure my hand placement was next to his dick and a few times placed it on his dick, but i didnt really go for that as i like it to be about me. 
I would have preferred a bit more focus on massage, but hey, i always like surprises - at some point midway through i came with the inner thigh massaging, but he was a sport and continued and kept the sensual on me focused. When i flipped over, it was more obvious that it was sensual as a lot of nip work and an extra.
For a sensual perspective, it def hit the right spots. 
 

Had a massage here by Phil. 
Phil made it clear from the beginning that the focus would be sensual as the massage started with light strokes across my butt and in between the thighs. Also, as soon as he started, he stood at the top of my table to work my back and neck and made sure to press his dick against my head.  The massage was more touching and not a very good massage but every few minutes he made sure to touch my butt, taint, or reach under to let me know this was sensual. Additionally, even when he was on the side, he always made sure my hand placement was next to his dick and a few times placed it on his dick, but i didnt really go for that as i like it to be about me. 
I would have preferred a bit more focus on massage, but hey, i always like surprises - at some point midway through i came with the inner thigh massaging, but he was a sport and continued and kept the sensual on me focused. When i flipped over, it was more obvious that it was sensual as a lot of nip work and an extra.
For a sensual perspective, it def hit the right spots.