TyrEngineer

Ryder_Cox - Male Escort, Gay massage - Los Angeles | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Ryder_Cox Gay Escort in Los Angeles, California, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. |... New profile.

I've seen his profile on rentmasseur for awhile, sexy guy for sure but I feel like he is more keen on giving massages then a deli experience. Services offered seem vague and I'm usually looking for a top so I haven't contacted him but would love to hear someone's first hand experience.

Bump

Considering time is the only thing he wants to chat about I'm surprised he forgot. Still a sexy guy with decent reviews.

Maybe it's my fault for contacting him at midnight but he pushed for now and then asked for a deposit to wait while I take a shower. He said he was into kissing, and quoted a little high, he made sure to tell me he is a quality man. Yes he is sexy but I'm not going to pay a deposit for him to wait an hour after telling him tomorrow is better. I wish I was always ready for action at a moments notice, but I need to plan things out at least a few hours. Maybe I'll try again while he is in town, but him asking for a deposit puts a bad taste in my mouth.

I feel like people like to twist words on purpose. Of course I think all providers deserve payment for services rendered, any other expectation would be absurd. You make it sound like I am looking for charity. I have never once had a provider specifically mention they want cash for payment. As if they didn't want me paying with a credit card. If this guy wants to hook up with clients only when he is in the mood while ignoring the times I gave him for my availability then it seems like he is trying to monotize his sex life. I couldn't have been any more flexible with my availability, and sitting around all day waiting for a message saying come now isn't my idea of a fun time.

He also said "please bring cash for payment" which sounds quite odd to me. Luckily clients won't put up with his shenanigans so I don't need to go out of my way to warn anyone.

Yea I expect this to be the opinion of most. He contacted me out of the blue for right now and I think I've accepted this situation is never going to live up to my dreams. I think he is trying to monetize his sex life or he wants some spending money for the weekend. Oh well, another crazy story to add to the diary.

I was referring to poor communication in general, not the silly game this guy is playing. If it's not common the search feature must be built with AI making stuff up.

They were referring to hygiene, but seems you read that a different way. I'll fix it for you. Their private areas are probably dirty, sweaty and not groomed. Not that I agree completely, lots of physical labor makes me want to take more showers not less.

Yes the provider has a clear advantage when meeting new clients. It's much easier to hand someone cash then it is to make sure they leave happy, that's just a fact. I value effort, but I wouldn't expect them to put much effort into texting. If I am unable to get reviews from members on this board then I expect a learning experience. Sadly you can't win them all, and I have passed on guys for ignoring my questions. You are fishing for unicorns or something, and if that's the game you like to play then keep playing, but don't expect everyone to understand it.

Judging a book by its cover is one of those slippery slopes I keep hearing about. The purpose of the monetary transaction is to have all the necessary information to make a sound judgement. Red flags have their purpose because paying a bunch of people for poor performance isn't in anyone's best interest. When it comes to dating apps I find it impossible to decide if we click without meeting people. The best indicator for personality I've found is getting a hold of their social media accounts, but this is not always possible. I feel like this whole industry is a probability game, even if you find the perfect provider. Personally I think you shut down connections a little prematurely, but that's your perogative. I don't have the funds to fly guys around so I don't actually understand where you are coming from. I could imagine it would open the door to finding the perfect provider, and maybe that golden spoon is what drives your actions.

God this guy is so sexy, almost worth planning another trip just to see him.

This seems to be a fairly common trait among providers and I was kinda curious how others respond. For context I found a provider I find extremely attractive on mintboys (not the best platform). He responds to my messages when he gets bored or something, and has said yes to a time I suggest on 3 occasions now. The issue is that he goes radio silent as that time approaches. The real kicker is that later on he will send me a message as if nothing was wrong. I am baffled by this because the conversation keeps going but we still haven't met. It feels like a game to me at this point, so I have started treating it like a game. There is some entertainment value but I would actually like to meet him. I don't understand his reasoning because I'm not paying him for this idle chit chat thru text messages. How common is this nonsense? I have a feeling that most people would have moved on already lol

Too bad his services are so limited, he's hot... I saw him on rentmen btw

I understand what would actually happen, my whole point is that part of the providers job is customer relations and some put in zero effort. If they are going to treat me the same as a client vs some stranger at the bar then I'll go find someone else to give my money to.

Given the state of global affairs I can't imagine the demand has gone up, unless for some reason this is replacing some other even more expensive hobby for enough people. I would think fees are based on region. The outliers are less interested in making business but will engage for the right price. I think they hear stories about someone making $500 an hour and figure they deserve that as well. Idk about you but most providers I've met think pretty highly of themselves.

$300 is very standard here in the PNW, I usually ignore anything over this. Being selective seems to be working well for my wallet, only really schedule with traveling guys that check every single box. Ultimately I am sacrificing other things I enjoy to afford this hobby, such is live, but I try my best to use it as a learning opportunity and education is expensive.

Massage was up to my standards, but I'm not an expert. I had a good time and he is quite dashing. If I was looking for strictly therapeutic I would probably look elsewhere, but I would love to see him again if he comes back to town.

GreekMasseur - Male Massage & Bodywork in Eugene, OR | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur GreekMasseur in Eugene, OR offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual... Found an old thread for this guy, seems traveling around the states is his thing. A little poking around he gave me his menu of extras. I'd love to hear if anyone has details, but I'll be seeing him next weekend.

It was a confusing interaction tbh, he said "have a good one" and I didn't even understand he was ending the conversation for a few more messages.

No, he said he had a large family already. I said something about that sounding chaotic and then he cancelled.

Be careful what you say to him, he cancelled on me because he said he had a large family and I told him that sounds hectic and I wouldn't like it.

Nick_DD - Male Escort, Gay massage - Seattle | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Nick_DD Gay Escort in Seattle, Washington, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. |... I'm pretty much already sold, someone recommended this guy in a thread with a bunch of Seattle providers but how does he not have more reviews on here. Look at that cute smile.

Honestly I'm concerned for this guy and I only have a handful of messages from him. He seems nice but lost, hopefully things get better for him.