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This seems to be a fairly common trait among providers and I was kinda curious how others respond. For context I found a provider I find extremely attractive on mintboys (not the best platform). He responds to my messages when he gets bored or something, and has said yes to a time I suggest on 3 occasions now. The issue is that he goes radio silent as that time approaches. The real kicker is that later on he will send me a message as if nothing was wrong. I am baffled by this because the conversation keeps going but we still haven't met. It feels like a game to me at this point, so I have started treating it like a game. There is some entertainment value but I would actually like to meet him. I don't understand his reasoning because I'm not paying him for this idle chit chat thru text messages. How common is this nonsense? I have a feeling that most people would have moved on already lol

Too bad his services are so limited, he's hot... I saw him on rentmen btw

I understand what would actually happen, my whole point is that part of the providers job is customer relations and some put in zero effort. If they are going to treat me the same as a client vs some stranger at the bar then I'll go find someone else to give my money to.

Given the state of global affairs I can't imagine the demand has gone up, unless for some reason this is replacing some other even more expensive hobby for enough people. I would think fees are based on region. The outliers are less interested in making business but will engage for the right price. I think they hear stories about someone making $500 an hour and figure they deserve that as well. Idk about you but most providers I've met think pretty highly of themselves.

$300 is very standard here in the PNW, I usually ignore anything over this. Being selective seems to be working well for my wallet, only really schedule with traveling guys that check every single box. Ultimately I am sacrificing other things I enjoy to afford this hobby, such is live, but I try my best to use it as a learning opportunity and education is expensive.

Massage was up to my standards, but I'm not an expert. I had a good time and he is quite dashing. If I was looking for strictly therapeutic I would probably look elsewhere, but I would love to see him again if he comes back to town.

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It was a confusing interaction tbh, he said "have a good one" and I didn't even understand he was ending the conversation for a few more messages.

No, he said he had a large family already. I said something about that sounding chaotic and then he cancelled.

Be careful what you say to him, he cancelled on me because he said he had a large family and I told him that sounds hectic and I wouldn't like it.

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Honestly I'm concerned for this guy and I only have a handful of messages from him. He seems nice but lost, hopefully things get better for him.

Hmm, wonder what he was on... He's cute but you make him sound strung out

So it seems that case was closed in 2022. I'm not really sure how to see if the result was guilty or not guilty. What are the chances he learned from his past behavior? Anyways he has a lot of positive reviews but I see many of the same reviewers over and over like others have stated. I'm mostly curious if those body pics are recent.

So I was just looking over my chat with westisvers and every time I said anything that wasn't related to time and date it was ignored. He didn't even acknowledge anything was said. I communicated interests and I don't even know if he recognized that's what I was doing. I cancelled due to a scheduling conflict but I honestly do feel like I dodged a bullet. It's pretty normal for initial reactions to dictate what happens next and I'm not sure why hiring an escort should be any different. I've had a few bad experiences because I didn't clarify what I wanted from the interaction and that's on me. If I'm the problem for trying to avoid a bad time, then maybe this isn't the right hobby for me.

Damn, he was hot too

Honestly he was more responsive then many other providers, I'd say that speaks more to effort then anything written on a profile. I'm sure there is varying opinion on this. He seems more effeminate then I usually prefer, but he also seems like a guy I could chat with comfortably and I value that. If all fails I'll chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

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I agree with you on the brief communication. For me the timing didn't work well so I cancelled way before the date. He just didn't seem interested enough for me to change other plans to get things to work. He is sexy, but I like to at least pretend the provider would notice me at the bar.

Honestly all the feisty comments make me want to meet him more... Sadly I can get picky about how the conversation goes while planning

He was pretty short with messages while planning, which is fine but then never responded on the day we had planned... So many good reviews and none of them really talk about the lack of communication so idk.

He contacted me last night, said he took a week off. Sad because it's towards the end of my trip now and my ability to schedule is limited... It was worth a try, hopefully the next person wanting to meet him doesn't visit the wrong week.

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I have a similar experience, spoke with him on 02/04 and he has since gone silent.

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