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He actually had 20+ positive reviews on RM (I used a VPN so I saw some of the positive comments alongside the ratings), though I did read some mixed reviews on here. It might have been an error in judgment on my part to proceed, but I thought that it's impossible for anyone to have 100% perfect reviews, so the occasional mixed review, balanced with the 20+ positive ones on RM, makes sense. But perhaps the RM reviews could be fake?
And thank you! Now that I had my first experience hiring a provider, I do know now what I want or find enjoyment out of and not just the actual sex, even though that's fun too.
I'm wondering how I could screen for guys who enjoy giving pleasure and being with a variety of men. Are there certain keywords that providers would use on their profile, or something I could ask?
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I'd have liked to be made to feel special haha. But you're right, an hour is probably not enough, though I couldn't afford more than that at the moment.
Interestingly, I've heard that the fantasy leading up to the actual event is often hotter than the deed, but I guess it's often luck of the draw on the actual experience we'd get.
And thanks for the kind words. I'm actually in NYC as well.  I guess I can't force chemistry, but thanks for the tip about slowing things down for a few minutes to get to know each other a little. I'll keep that in mind.
Thank you for the kind sentiments! I wasn't planning on hiring frequently, maybe just once or twice a year, so I guess I was expecting too much as a newbie. This is a learning experience nonetheless!
The provider was in his late 20s, but I'll see if I can find someone else a little older in the future who would be more experienced.
I actually did ask him before meeting up if he would be into getting facefucked, and he said yes. But perhaps that had set the tone of having the entire session as sex-focused and nothing else.
Now that I know what I'm looking for, or what I think would be an enjoyable experience for me, I'll make it clearer in the future.

I recently hired someone for the first time, and I left feeling a little disappointed.
I had mentioned to him via chat that I wanted to explore face fucking him, and topping him after. In retrospect, I guess I didn’t know what I want and wanted more of the boyfriend experience that eventually leads to sex.
We started off the session almost immediately with sex. What ended up happening was him simply lying in bed while I did the majority of the work. I kissed him, but his kisses were not passionate. I sucked him off, but he was soft the entire time. Eventually I lost my hard-on when I realized (at least in my view at the time) that he probably wasn’t attracted to me, based on how foreplay went, but the least he could do was pretend to be interested.
The sex ended in 30 minutes after I came, and he then immediately got up to use the bathroom and wear his underwear. I would’ve liked to stay in the bedroom and do some post-coital chats and cuddles, but instead, we ended up in his living room not cuddling, and sat side by side talking. He had made indirect hints as if the session was over, but I told him I’d like to chat since there was still 30 minutes left.
That chat was nice! I felt like I enjoyed the chat more as it was more intimate than the sex. And I guess what I desired was also intimacy.
I just needed to get this off my chest. I know he can’t read my mind, but I wish that he could’ve guessed or even asked what I like. Should I have planned out the whole hour in a detailed fashion? I had wanted it to be a little more organic.
That feeling or perception from me that he didn’t find me attractive didn’t make me feel very good, judging by how soft he was during the entire half an hour of sex. Is that normal for a provider that bottoms? I’d have liked him to cum.
I’m just wondering how I could ensure I’ll have a better experience next time if I were to hire someone again. Would you have any tips for me?
If it matters at all, I’m Asian. I’ve read studies and heard that Asian men aren’t typically desired in Western countries, and that probably contributes to the occasional hit in self-esteem.

He actually had 20+ positive reviews on RM (I used a VPN so I saw some of the positive comments alongside the ratings), though I did read some mixed reviews on here. It might have been an error in judgment on my part to proceed, but I thought that it's impossible for anyone to have 100% perfect reviews, so the occasional mixed review, balanced with the 20+ positive ones on RM, makes sense. But perhaps the RM reviews could be fake?
And thank you! Now that I had my first experience hiring a provider, I do know now what I want or find enjoyment out of and not just the actual sex, even though that's fun too.
I'm wondering how I could screen for guys who enjoy giving pleasure and being with a variety of men. Are there certain keywords that providers would use on their profile, or something I could ask?
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I'd have liked to be made to feel special haha. But you're right, an hour is probably not enough, though I couldn't afford more than that at the moment.
Interestingly, I've heard that the fantasy leading up to the actual event is often hotter than the deed, but I guess it's often luck of the draw on the actual experience we'd get.
And thanks for the kind words. I'm actually in NYC as well.  I guess I can't force chemistry, but thanks for the tip about slowing things down for a few minutes to get to know each other a little. I'll keep that in mind.
Thank you for the kind sentiments! I wasn't planning on hiring frequently, maybe just once or twice a year, so I guess I was expecting too much as a newbie. This is a learning experience nonetheless!
The provider was in his late 20s, but I'll see if I can find someone else a little older in the future who would be more experienced.
I actually did ask him before meeting up if he would be into getting facefucked, and he said yes. But perhaps that had set the tone of having the entire session as sex-focused and nothing else.
Now that I know what I'm looking for, or what I think would be an enjoyable experience for me, I'll make it clearer in the future.

He actually had 20+ positive reviews on RM (I used a VPN so I saw some of the positive comments alongside the ratings), though I did read some mixed reviews on here. It might have been an error in judgment on my part to proceed, but I thought that it's impossible for anyone to have 100% perfect reviews, so the occasional mixed review, balanced with the 20+ positive ones on RM, makes sense. But perhaps the RM reviews could be fake?
And thank you! Now that I had my first experience hiring a provider, I do know now what I want or find enjoyment out of and not just the actual sex, even though that's fun too.
I'm wondering how I could screen for guys who enjoy giving pleasure and being with a variety of men. Are there certain keywords that providers would use on their profile, or something I could ask?
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I'd have liked to be made to feel special haha. But you're right, an hour is probably not enough, though I couldn't afford more than that at the moment.
Interestingly, I've heard that the fantasy leading up to the actual event is often hotter than the deed, but I guess it's often luck of the draw on the actual experience we'd get.
And thanks for the kind words. I'm actually in NYC as well.  I guess I can't force chemistry, but thanks for the tip about slowing things down for a few minutes to get to know each other a little. I'll keep that in mind.
Thank you for the kind sentiments! I wasn't planning on hiring frequently, maybe just once or twice a year, so I guess I was expecting too much as a newbie. This is a learning experience nonetheless!
The provider was in his late 20s, but I'll see if I can find someone else a little older in the future who would be more experienced.
I actually did ask him before meeting up if he would be into getting facefucked, and he said yes. But perhaps that had set the tone of having the entire session as sex-focused and nothing else.
Now that I know what I'm looking for, or what I think would be an enjoyable experience for me, I'll make it clearer in the future.

Does anyone have any experience with this provider? https://rent.men/Jared_Cross
I’d be curious to hear more about your experience!

Does anyone have any experience with this provider? https://rent.men/Jared_Cross
I’d be curious to hear more about your experience!

Does anyone have any experience with this provider? https://rent.men/Jared_Cross
I’d be curious to hear more about your experience!