EastbayMike

I once contacted a masseur via phone for info about a massage. I mentioned I liked the photo of him in the cowboy hat and jokingly asked if he wore it during the session. He replied in all seriousness that that would be a kink session and his fee would increase $50. To put on a hat.... That told me all I needed to know and I never scheduled with him.

Look like your pics.

If I'm looking for a hand job and don't feel like paying escort prices I search rentmasseur. If I want a real massage from someone with training (and only the potential for a handjob) I search masseurfinder. Generalities of course.

I'm EXTREMELY penis-centric in what turns me on about men. So many of my sex stories with friends who question my choices end with "yeah, but he had a really nice dick!"

The first time I was is Paris I met a Parisian and ended up spending about 2 weeks with him sharing an intense romance. He was uncut and was surprised I was cut (claimed I was his first Amercan). He also told me his mom taught him how to pull back the foreskin when he bathed so as not to offend his girl friends. I'm sure his boy friends also appreciate the effort.

I recently had a conversation with my mom about circumcision and told her I wished I wasn't cut. She was surprised when I told her my husband is intact (he was born in Mexico) and even more surprised when I told her that besides the US and Moslem countries, circumcision is rare.

I love uncut dick. More to play with and the foreskin keeps the head silky smooth. It wasn't until my early 30s that I had an encounter with really stinky smegma. I met a cute Brazilian kid with a beautiful smile and a nice tight body one night at a bar in Frisco. We went to his place and started making out and ripping off each other's clothes. He got down to a pair of loose chonies when the entire room filled up with the most wretched smell. I didn't handle it well at all. I just made a lame excuse and left as soon as I could. I still remember how bad it was and the disappointed look on his face as I left.

I love uncut dick. More to play with and the foreskin keeps the head silky smooth. It wasn't until my early 30s that I had an encounter with really stinky smegma. I met a cute Brazilian kid with a beautiful smile and a nice tight body one night at a bar in Frisco. We went to his place and started making out and ripping off each other's clothes. He got down to a pair of loose chonies when the entire room filled up with the most wretched smell. I didn't handle it well at all. I just made a lame excuse and left as soon as I could. I still remember how bad it was and the disappointed look on his face as I left.

Based on his ad copy, just think how miserable it would be to meet him irl.

I hired him about 18 months ago. Really nice guy, nice trained massage on a table, many extras. Definitely would repeat.

As I acknowledged in my reply.

I think you meant the Watergarden in San Jose. While temporarily shut down due to covid, Steamworks has not to the best of my knowledge closed permanently. ["Steamworks," a bathhouse of long-standing in the Bay Area recently closed.]

Great news, not so great timing. I'd be surprised if we see any new venues opening for at least a year or more. Even then it would likely be more along the lines of 442 rather than a traditional bath house like the old 8th/Howard or Ritch Street.

One is not glued to the table for the whole session. But if I want full service I hire an escort. My goal with a massage is a professional session on a table by a trained provider; not on a bed by a pretty boy whose only apparent qualifications are a gym membership and the ability to buy baby oil. Doesn't mean sessions haven't progressed beyond a massage. That's just not among the criteria I use in choosing a masseur.

Table!

When it comes to autos I'm an extremely late adopter. I bought my car in 1976 when I was 15. Every car since then was a stick until 2 months ago when I finally brought my first automatic. It's a great car but damn I miss rowing my own gears! And no, paddle shifters don't count.

Talking Heads - Take Me to the River (See also: Al Green)

Al Green - Tired of Being Alone

The Who - Baba O'Riley

U2 - I Will Follow

It means you're an idiot and you're likely trolling us. You found your way to this site yet you can't figure out what bottoming is?

Search "hunggcouple" in the deli. (Two gs)

Not all gay men are into anal sex and certainly not all of us are bottoms. If it "hurt like hell" I'd blame your doctor more than how you identify sexually or what activities you enjoy.

Anyne with experience or info? He also has an ad on a4a with a face pic. https://rent.men/MrNiceGuyla

Absolutely not.