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I thought about this later. I guess I should have begun stroking my cock at that point.

Don’t be embarrassed. The masseur wasn’t embarrassed or he wouldn’t have cleaned you up. It could be a sign of encouragement. Maybe next time say “sorry but I just find this exciting.”

I wasn’t suggesting touching my cock until he sprayed oil all over my cock, balls and pubes. Wouldn’t his action be harassment? Haha (Of course I liked it and was hoping that was a sign the fun was about to begin then nothing). OTOH, how does one bring up happy ending with a masseur in a spa such as HK Men’s Spa? I would find it a bit awkward but maybe I’m being too bashful about it.

I’m a gay guy in my 60’s—somewhat straight acting but 100% gay. Decided to go to HK Spa for a massage last week—my first time at that spa but not new to these type of spas. Made an appointment with a guy discussed here on the board who people recommended. The massage (60 minutes—only availability during my availability) was good but not too sensual. He got close to me in the beginning and I touched his thigh via his athletic wear. He avoided massaging my thighs so it wasn’t too sensual. I never got an erection. Toward the end he aimed the massage oil and squirted it toward my cock, balls and pubes but maybe because I never got hard never touched me there. Ended the massage with nothing sensual. It was the oddest thing. Did he expect me to begin to jerk myself off? I should add that in a massage when I am relaxed, I often don’t get hard unless a guy starts handling my cock. In the spa thread others have said he gave them a HE and a very sensual massage. Thoughts on this and what I might have done differently to have made it more sensual ending in a HE? Thanks!

I had a massage from Cody today and nothing sensual nor a HE. My first time with him. What gives.

Thanks for the great detective work!

I see. Makes sense and thanks for the clarification. Good to know.

Same. I don’t understand.

If there’s MT and a HE, it’s not a “therapeutic” massage.

You’ve just given me an idea. Thanks.

Completely agree. First, I could care less what the provider thinks. I certainly don’t need their validation. Second, any gushing of compliments in an email or text I’d take to be disingenuous.

Anyone see him?

Texted me too. Said he was at Central Park Hotel.

Not trying to be insulting to the OP, and with acknowledgment to the excellent points raised by the responders, the type of ignorance (SDT) and simple minded thinking (legalization) represented by the OP is all too common and frequent in the population and among men who hire escorts. Let’s not ignore this fact.

Doesn’t bother me

Cody is lucky he didn’t get the OP as a customer from the irrational rant above. Reflects more on the customer than Cody. Makes me want to book with Cody lol

To be deaf and blind as a gay man in the age of HIV is pretty stunning. Your comment is as revealing as it is stunning.

Old fashioned and out of date. Just sayin’

Mauricio is totally out of the picture in every way. Giovanni is now entirely in his own.

I’ve found many put that solely as a marketing ploy who have no intent of using condoms unless certain clients request/require it.

So then you repost the number so even more people can see it. Smart thinking. 🙄

I like the edging option.

You’re hiring; you’re in charge. Take charge. “Woa! I cum very easily. Let’s slow down. I don’t wanna cum too soon.”

And some might be on an every two month injection.

In 2024 , in the era of prep, this is still an issue?