As I've said I have met Kai and found him generally fine. One point in general I'd like to make. I've hired "board darlings" who seemed to be extolled here who I had terrible experiences with and I've hired others who weren't liked by some posters who I had a terrific time with. So I encourage you not to "blacklist" someone just by some posts here. Keep an open mind.
Asperger's is no longer a diagnosis. All are now on the autism spectrum. And your opinion is negated since apparently you were rejected on Grindr.
Ive hired Kai. I found him a nice enough guy.
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That's not how it works. First, on Grindr, a no reply is considered a polite way of saying not interested without coming out and saying it. Second, referring you to their ads is a violation of Grindr's TOS and could get them kicked off.