UncutDad

I've seen Caleb twice. He actually has massage skill. I think he has a base rate and an extras rate.

If you ever met me you'd see that I am definitely not hairy. Hud and I have chatted and definitely have a mutual bond about being uncut and what that means. You can accuse me of whatever you want. I don't know you, it doesn't bother me. But you never answered the question. 1.) Did you meet Hud and get a massage from him? 2.) Or did you immediately block him as you wrote on here? Try not to deflect. It's #1 or #2.

you should absolutely wonder about some of the guys that comment on here. They're toads that are not happy with their own lives and they live to find a new target to tear down.. Truly fucking sad.

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here. I had a massage with Hud last night in DC. After the session I asked about what happened with you. He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site. But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session. I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone. But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story. This is the convo that I snapped from his phone. 1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly". The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?" I possess a photo of this from his phone. 2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?" He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok". This was at a little after 2pm. And that was the last the text between you two. You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for. So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"?? One of these things is not like the other. No need to answer me though, I have a copy of the receipts. The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table. I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find. And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession. You "Superben" are not to be trusted. You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation. Not an actual massage - a text exchange. Seriously dude....grow up.

Hmm. I'm seeing Hud in DC this weekend. I've never had an issue with him. Just the opposite in fact. Now I'm curious. I'll def report back if anything is different.

Any extras with Yobany?

Trent Cougar? There should be a list (just for the names alone) that some of these dudes come up with.

you absolutely cannot be possessive or jealous when dating a massage therapist.

I have had several masseurs kiss me. I've never initiated that type of thing, but when it happens I definitely let it happen. I did have a long conversation with a MT after a session and I asked him about the requests he gets. He told me he is often asked for kissing, oral (giving) and anal, but that 98% of the time he lets clients know he doesn't go that far. He told me that he gets a lot of people asking for those activities without him ever seeing what they look like. He charges $120. Personally, I don't know what would be going through someone's head to ask for that type of activity from a massage therapist and never send a pic. Especially for that low of a rate. My guess would be that if he's kissing you, he finds you attractive. But going beyond that, it could be dicey. I would try to lose "the feels" and look at it as you getting something that others likely do not. Massage therapists have to navigate a lot of things with clients that most of us cannot imagine for our jobs. Any therapist that provides extras that are not overtly advertised should be reasonably tipped as well.

Im not sure your rate expectations are properly tuned. $120.00 is hardly what I would call an erotic rate. Spas in Chicago charge that kind of rate now.

Whippoorwill, thanks much for the paragraphs you wrote. It is really informative and helps very much. As much as people want to take a stand against Florida, Texas, The UAE etc, I don't think anyone's hands are totally clean. I've traveled many places in the world. Just because I visit, observe and respect local laws and customs does not mean that I support them. But if I do not go, then I cannot say I have lived experience or perspective of any where in the world. It's like watching FOX news where they only show people crossing the dirt border and thinking that is what all of Mexico looks like. In actuality, places like Mexico City are world class cities. But if you don't go, you don't know. I've also talked with too many men that have lived in UAE cities that tell me it is a hot bed of horny men. Married and other wise.

Fortunately or Unfortunately, this is what happens when any muscle monkey with two hands thinks they can do massage. If you want erotic, I suppose it can be great. If you want therapeutic, it can be a real waste of time and money.

I wonder what Lindsey Graham (aka Lady G) thinks about this.