Interesting timing, last week I met up with a guy I'd seen well over a dozen times and he just couldn't perform in any capacity. I wrapped things up as quickly as possible, way less time than we usually spend, and sent him on his way with the usual envelope in hand.
I am/was VERY disappointed considering all of the time I spent getting ready, commuting, securing and paying for a day use room, prepping, etc.. I would have really appreciated some sort of acknowledgement/apology after the fact (he always texts me afterwards when things go well), but have heard nothing.
Everyone has bad/off days and unknown personal issues, but the course of action I've decided to take here is an extended break and see if the sting wears off.