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And not to veer the conversation too far back on topic but this dude's ad is chef's kiss! And he even shows ID! Let me know if you've been with him.... https://rent.men/Yourlocalbottom And thank you too all the guys DMing on topic!

There is an undercurrent of revulsion here to the scenario of a 50-year-old man having sex with a 16-year-old boy. And I'm not giving you legal advice here, but if you're in Michigan or one of 30 other states and a 16 year old boy on his birthday shows you his ID and proves that he's 16 and you see his birth certificate and you absolutely know that he's 16 and he wants to sit on your dick then you absolutely legally can. It is probably very dangerous to hire him because then you run afoul of a lot of other server laws. Some of you might be disgusted by the image of a 16 yr old boy and a grown man, but trust me this whole forum bathes in things that a majority of Americans think is pretty disgusting and unethical. I think it's okay to cast stones sometimes because I hate false equivalencies. But I think it's important to not fear monger. Being disgusted with each other is of course acceptable and indeed commonplace on this board. Further reading.... https://okeefelaw.net/sex-crimes/age-consent-michigan/

You do all know that the age of consent is 16 in the majority of states in the United States. Right?

Years ago my therapist and I worked on a similar issue. He really helped my recognize that for many gay people, people-pleasing stems from growing up in environments where acceptance felt conditional. It is a survival mechanism—often called a "fawn response"—developed to stay emotionally and physically safe by predicting others' moods, hiding authentic feelings, and avoiding potential rejection. Hiring escorts, as opposed to regular hookups actually helped me get more comfortable asking for what i want. I still have a few survive memories of providers essentially saying "eew no!" But it's gotten better in my head.

Fuck Fascism! Rise up! Scholars like Robert Paxton emphasize that fascism relies on a "compensatory cult of unity" and the subordination of individual interests to the state. So for example any legal behavior, lifestyle, or cultural practice that falls outside the rigidly enforced norms of the state can invite harassment or violence from both the state and civilian informants.

You're right I could ask. But if they say "no stalker I'm not showing you my effing ID, are you effing stupid?!?" Then what?

Luckily, it's not an affirmative defense in California. Meaning the accused doesn't bear the burden of production or proof. Innocent until proven guilty baby! Gotta love at least that part of this 250 yr old country.

I love the screen name. Brilliant word play that works on multiple levels. Pretty guy. Pretty big guy. Big guy. Big Afro guy. Mix because he's Colombian.

Not sure how I'd go about seeing valid ID, but in California at least actual and reasonable belief that the person is over 18 is a defense if they turn out to be younger. The hiring part is actual the more illegal thing. But I guess most of us on here are law breakers.

I'm in California, but travel around the US.

Exploring a dad son kink recently and was wondering if you all could recommend any US based (US raised probably) providers who look under 21. As long as they are over 18, their actual age doesn't matter. Age shaving is fine as long as the look the part. Looking for providers who were "a good boy" for you. Thanks!

So many new beautiful Black men. ❤️‍🔥

I just finished an hour with Apoloman at his hotel in San Francisco. What follows is an unnecessarily long and detailed thought dump. Short version: He is beautiful, fun, and great in bed. One of the top five providers I have hired in my 25+ years of hiring (out of 150+ providers). Are his pictures accurate? Yes, except he is not as shredded. He is still breathtakingly beautiful, has abdominal muscles, and a very built body! You can tell he works out 5-7 times per week. But if you explicitly want him at the extremely low body fat percentage he is showing in his pics, you’ll have to wait for his next deep cutting cycle. As for his face it is exactly as pictured. It is rare I get romantic about providers, but him looking into my eyes and smiling at me is surreal. It is like getting with one of those Calvin Klein model I have always fantasized about. He looks 28 as listed in his profile. Is he friendly? Yes. I asked if we could start by talking and he was comfortable answering my open-ended questions about things he had put in his profile. I am a huge fan of porn where the cameraman/director is talking to the beautiful star as the star undressed and strokes. I did that with him, and he was very fun to talk to. He smiles and even told a few jokes. I confess my dream guy is a sweet humble sexy midwestern corn fed American boy. Apolo (that is not the name he goes by in person so feel free to ask him and he’ll share what to call him) is from Argentina and English is his second language. If you try to have a long conversation with him, he will occasionally not understand or use the wrong word, but he is sweet and self-confident about it. If you are an immigrant to the US or grew up with them, I suspect you’ll have no problem making yourself understood. We shared some detailed fantasies and memories with each other, so don’t be shy if you like that kind of stuff. Any weird vibes or hiccups? None. The initial text communication was effortless. He shared with me that he often goes to bed at a reasonable hour and wakes up at a reasonable hour, so your midnight texts might not be answered until the next day. I shared with him my general stats without him asking and he did not ask for a picture or deposit or anything unusual. When I got there, he did not ask for money up front and offered me water. He did not watch the clock, but I did. I generally don’t like to overstay the hour, but he was telling a me a story and so I ended up leaving a few minutes later that the allotted time. He asked for $400 and I paid in cash, plus tip. He said Venmo would have been fine too. And he’ll tell you what hotel he is staying in. You can check out the reviews. I’ve been to it numerous times with other providers. It is clean and cute. What about the actual time spent in bed? Divine. I don’t know what is allowed on this forum so if you have questions about his stamina, performance, positions, endowment, hygiene, etc. please DM me. But I had no complaints in any of those departments. His profile said “ask me” on the topic of protection and I did because I don’t enjoy condoms and don’t use them with providers. We discussed the whole active/passive thing, and we synched up perfectly in that regard. My nipples are sensitive, I showed him the pressure I like and he tended to my chest expertly the whole session. What if I want him to take control and ravish me? I don’t know, we didn’t do that. But we talked about Dom Sub stuff, and he confidently shared with me that he can Dom. He doesn’t do “crazy” stuff. Stigmatizing language aside, I think you can lovingly and directly ask if he will do something with you and he’ll let you know. Nothing surprising was on his “crazy” no-fly list. @Chancealot mentioned that Apolo ghosted him. Chancelot has been on the site for 4+ years with 400+ posts. I don’t know him, but I trust he is a good human and his experience alone kept me from even considering Apolo for a long time. I don’t think we are the measure of our worst day on the job (I have no idea if Apolo ghosts often or just that once) and so I decided to give Apolo a chance. And who am I kidding, the possibility of him being real was too much of an incentive for my heads and heart. My guard was up the whole way over to his hotel, but evaporated within 2 minutes. What Apolo did to Chancelot is not ok, and so far, Apolo has treated me with kindness. Is @Dinoes glowing review fake? I dunno. Like many of the folks on here, I don’t usually pay any attention to reviews from clients who join, post, and leave. But my experience was consistent with the Dinoes’. Well except I was not passive with Apolo in any of the connotations of that word. Why is he in Cleveland or New Jersey or Delaware or some small market? I feel silly now that I asked him this. Like I was waiting to catch him in some suspicious answer. Anyway, ask him if you care. It is a very normal reason. Nowadays when he is NYC, SF, DC or whatever big market he is for hire. @montroyal mentioned that Apolo was “Very standoffish, no personality.” I don’t know Montroyal and I can say that Apolo was lush with personality during our hour. With me he was not “bitchy” (sorry for the misogyny in that, but there is not a good synonym) or distracted. I hired him on a mild sunny Sunday SF afternoon; I was the first client of the day (not the last of the day he let me know) and maybe I just got lucky. But know that if you also get lucky, you’ll meet a sweet sexy funny genuine man. Why the fuck did you write all this? I think it is because I was so ready to believe he was fake or mean or disappointing. The hurt part of myself was banging around pretty loudly telling me to not waste time. But another part of me took over the executive function and urged me to give it a try. I’m 53 and still excited for what life has to offer, but it is not just going to come sit in my lap, I have to go find it and put it in my lap. I hope you hire Apolo and I hope you have a blast. And if a part of you is scared or jaded, I hope it goes well and I hope he helps heal that part just a little. And of course, DM me for the naughtier bits. Love you guys!

I've met him a half dozen times and he's one of my favorites. Great body and a pleasure taking and receiving. Sweet and adventurous. A very punk vibe which i didn't realize I'd love until we were cuddled up together talking. He really is a surfer and has lots of other fun interests. He's got a really down to earth artsy masculine vibe. Hope you guys get some time with him. https://rent.men/Surfer_XXX

I've hired him a few times. He's great. Down to earth and soulful. Sexy as hell. And i don't think he hosts, but check and he'll let you know.

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What if this version is only the caterpillar and the butterfly is yet to emerge. Can't wait!

And he's 6'2" ?!? What a rare trans masterpiece!

Really appreciate this thread and the beautiful guys here. I don't think it's a stretch to say Indian guys (not necessarily Middle Eastern guys) often end up on the bottom of the racial hotness totem pole for many folks. And so happy the thread is not called "I Think I'll Have Chicken Tikka Masala Tonight" 👳‍♀️

Can confirm that initial communications with him have been very smooth and professional. And the pictures he sent are stunning.

Oh Bozo. What would we do without your wit and insight. 🤔

I'm curious who the top names are you mention. I'd love to hire them on my US tour.

I hired him, he's wonderful. Muscle already DM'd for details. Happy to share thoughts with others.

https://rentmasseur.com/Bodymancer Hey guys, any experiences?