BetweenTheSheets

happy that you live in what you call a desirable location, but curious what you mean by "inferior" neighborhoods.
mind to explain?

More to the point, "crack dealers" (which i wonder whether or not it is a coded reference to something quite different) want to avoid drawing the attention of law enforcement, not encouraging it.
just a simple business calculus.

Why would a crack dealer stab anyone? They should have tons of money!

Especially for $300

Perhaps because I come from a nation where people performing "race play" figures deeply into  our national consciousness... where sex tourism runs rampant..... where the very possibility of a meaningful relationship between an Asian and a white/western person must overcome so many hurdles for it to be even possible
Perhaps because I am a young, Asian person who is often fetishized for NOT fitting into conventional stereotypes of the Asian man
Perhaps I need to bottle up my rage a bit (something we Asians are widely acknowledged to be SOOO good at,,,)
 

Especially for $300

Hmmm, now I am having secondary second thoughts on hiring him when/if he comes to SF. I can imagine him getting booked up all the time given all the hype and empathize that he can be mechanical/disinterested after a while. 
The lack of massage table can be an issue for me. The couple of times I experienced it, it was very unpleasant. My neck came out tighter and the 'massage' always ended up short on time. 

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Had a similar experience  - he was not ready for me at our appointment time.... left the door ajar to his hotel room while he was in the shower so I kind of awkwardly entered the room and waited... and waited....
The massage work was on a bed which gets very comfortable, particularly if the guy is as skilled in his work as this guy was/ I was congested, my neck hurt, my face hurt, and so on. But the massage was technically good.
The problem -- and this is why I don't get all the hype as well -- is that this is clearly a job for him and he does not know how to even fake engagement. I went for the VIP thing too, and his eroticism was surprisingly un-erotic -- I got the feeling that he does not like to be touched.
Left feeling like I knew way too much about this guy's life, and my happiness disappeared as I thought back on what had happened.
Would not repeat.

Had a similar experience  - he was not ready for me at our appointment time.... left the door ajar to his hotel room while he was in the shower so I kind of awkwardly entered the room and waited... and waited....
The massage work was on a bed which gets very comfortable, particularly if the guy is as skilled in his work as this guy was/ I was congested, my neck hurt, my face hurt, and so on. But the massage was technically good.
The problem -- and this is why I don't get all the hype as well -- is that this is clearly a job for him and he does not know how to even fake engagement. I went for the VIP thing too, and his eroticism was surprisingly un-erotic -- I got the feeling that he does not like to be touched.
Left feeling like I knew way too much about this guy's life, and my happiness disappeared as I thought back on what had happened.
Would not repeat.

Massage good... but with sooo much hype in here I was expecting something EXTRAORIDNARY, and it is not, based on my experiences getting massages.
Massage is on bed, no face cradle... so that makes it uncomfortable. He WAS not ready when I arrived, even after me telling him that I was on my way. We started late... and he ended that session without compensating for the lost time.
If you get the 300/VIP gets you full service. Not sure what you get at a lower rate...  If you like masculine guys, this is NOT your guy. Maybe my bar is too high when it comes to a great massage. And I really don't care for full service when I get a massage, I prefer a more sensual/erotic session than full service.
 

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Me too! Oddly, for me, it’s the slow steady strokes that get me so close. It’s like when someone tries hard to make me shoot fast and furious, it’s futile. But if you try to just give me pleasure then I can’t hold off. 

I never said it was new. Im a former escort myself, so I know first hand that it isn’t new. I’ve had a handful of white clients ask me to participate in “race play”. The answer was “absolutely not”. Race play is  racism. It’s degrading someone or being degraded based on race, which is where I draw the line. 

Or quickly changes their name/profile  the second someone asks about him here. 

The guys I go back to are the ones who make it sensual throughout.  I’m surprised so many of these MTs don’t realize that the whole massage is sensual, not just the last 60 seconds. 🤷🏼
 
sam