BetweenTheSheets

agree - i like j crew - no recognizable logo at all. just a quiet statement of who they are and what they represent.

i agree with you for the most part, but... it's not just a word: the word reflects the consciousness behind it and in this specific case, the gentleman (here) had a history of pretty nasty stuff

When someone thinks it's OK to call me "Boy", there is nothing good to say about the situation.

take a look at hip hop videos....

you can up your game just a little by making your own vanilla creme patisserie... give it a look! https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/1020475-spiced-pear-tart

i went to a culinary school... and my final exam was making a pear puff pastry tart ever since that day, i use frozen puff pastry (haha) but it does matter which brand you buy - read the label carefully for ingredients you don't want... to me the best is the Dufour brand

Kim chi

happy that you live in what you call a desirable location, but curious what you mean by "inferior" neighborhoods. mind to explain?

More to the point, "crack dealers" (which i wonder whether or not it is a coded reference to something quite different) want to avoid drawing the attention of law enforcement, not encouraging it. just a simple business calculus.

you speak the truth - once people stop fixating on neighborhoods that are "trending", even though NYC housing prices have been and always will be ridiculously out of sync with most other cities, "affordable" places are there to be found with a little bit of work and some flexibility in standards. but gone are the days, i guess, of $125 apartments in the east village with the famous tub in kitchen, haha

I honestly think you may have missed the point of my posting.... it is really NOT simply an individual problem, it is a collective's problem.

Perhaps because I come from a nation where people performing "race play" figures deeply into our national consciousness... where sex tourism runs rampant..... where the very possibility of a meaningful relationship between an Asian and a white/western person must overcome so many hurdles for it to be even possible Perhaps because I am a young, Asian person who is often fetishized for NOT fitting into conventional stereotypes of the Asian man Perhaps I need to bottle up my rage a bit (something we Asians are widely acknowledged to be SOOO good at,,,)

Especially for $300

He used to be a "service provider" (not a masseur) at gogo bars in Bangkok. Perhaps there is some carroyover from that choice of profession. But he truly needs to make up his mind, not mislead, and be clear about who and what he is.

Had a similar experience - he was not ready for me at our appointment time.... left the door ajar to his hotel room while he was in the shower so I kind of awkwardly entered the room and waited... and waited.... The massage work was on a bed which gets very comfortable, particularly if the guy is as skilled in his work as this guy was/ I was congested, my neck hurt, my face hurt, and so on. But the massage was technically good. The problem -- and this is why I don't get all the hype as well -- is that this is clearly a job for him and he does not know how to even fake engagement. I went for the VIP thing too, and his eroticism was surprisingly un-erotic -- I got the feeling that he does not like to be touched. Left feeling like I knew way too much about this guy's life, and my happiness disappeared as I thought back on what had happened. Would not repeat.

Take a look at this site for some good entry level and flavorful approaches to wok cookery: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBrxd1Mum2cYH7DOxo2exJA

Maybe

https://rentmen.eu/riooo Looks familiar but says new to RM.... Think he is a face from D-List BB porn but also not sure - name search doesn't bring up anything. Any experience or info? Thanks!

I had a guy I worked with - hot MexAm twink.... but he has changed his name like six times in the last year so I don't know how to recommend him and the more important question should be IF i should recommend him. Especially since he got into BB porn and ripped a client off. I'm not naming names but just a beware of guys who change their names all the time.... gotta be running away from something or someone i guess.