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Tempting! I might take the plunge.

Yah he’s cute but that was a waste of money for a silly encounter.

Ppl who want 250 as a starting point are delusional in this market. Let the market correct them and their rose donations lol. for me, 200 is the high rn, as rates are at like 160-180 for a quality erotic massage in San Diego, 200 if they’re very sexy. If you’re paying over 200 you’re likely in the deli lol.

This is what you do @gloriouszero - you negotiate ahead of time what’s going to happen in the private and for how much. I suggest starting at 1500 for both nude, kissing, this or that, etc. The negotiations happen over buying the guy a drink or two, hanging out and having fun while you support the dancers. The negotiation is for above and beyond the 500 you pay the bar for the private. Hanging out gives you insight into what’s on the table or not, as well as your connection/vibe, and if you’ll need to go down for a private more than once! If you’re gonna buy them out of working, I’d suggest you offer that for the next night or a weekday night during your stay- that worked well for me.

In San Diego now. Very cute but seems too good to be true haha

He is @Foxyboy on here, and my understanding is that he rebranded his profile and price points so it might be a good time to try him and report back! I don’t have any personal experience but he travels with Cal who is a lovely person/masseur, so I assume he’d be a fun time.

I see him on every app/site and at every hour for around 200-300 when I’ve inquired, so it’s giving bad deli vibes to me. I’ve never seen him tho.

I appreciate your insight @SoCalBoySD, thanks for sharing!

I saw him once long ago and wouldn’t recommend. The extras weren’t enjoyable but I do recall the rate being low. YMMV as we didn’t really click. He was attractive if you’re into hairy guys.

San Diego now. Any insight fellas?

¿qué? Link por favor!

Bump-He’s in San Diego now. Anyone get a massage from him?

I miss him. He’s the best. So much fun. If he pops up somewhere do let us know 😍

I am Intrigued! Bump. anyone try? Never done a 40 min option!

They’re the same person. Massage was good and he’s a nice guy. If you’re into dad bod guys in their 40s with a salt n pepper look he’s your man. The pics on masseur finder are accurate. The RM pics aren’t recent as those are the same as when I saw him years ago. I would have repeated but I didn’t like the setup in a back shed-like cluttered studio that I recall having to sneak into, lol. It was a strange situation but maybe things have changed for the better as he’s been around a long time. Good luck!

Great advice and well-worded!

Automatic red flag is no pics of a massage table. I’d guess he’s not trained and charging 200 base for an escort-light experience on a bed. Let us know @MassageCommunityMember!!

I’d be careful not to mess up something good if you’re happy with what you have, however if you really like him take the time to discover things he enjoys and find something of mutual interest. Ask if he’d like to do one of those things together rather than just suggesting dinner or drinks, you’ll have a much more enjoyable first hangout if you’re doing something fun together rather than staring across a table or bar. Just my 2 cents, great things come from building a friendship first rather than forcing romance. Ask politely and be okay if he says no, let it happen comfortably and organically at a pace you two are both comfortable with (or not), so you can keep what you have now but also maybe explore something new — wishing you luck!

Agreed. When I want real body work I go to the Thai place, 90 mins for 110 bucks and it’s incredibly deep tissue from those grandmas! When they ask me how deep, I actually say medium lol 💪

I couldn’t agree more. Prices up and quality down. If they don’t have a table I don’t go. It’s quite alarming when they want 250 but don’t have the skills and value to back it up. I’m happy to pay when the quality and experience are there, but that’s hard to consistently find. Maybe that’s why I like the thrill of the hunt haha. I always appreciate all of your advice @7829V 🙌

Masseur finder is so much harder to figure out what’s really on the table. I tried a new guy yesterday but this could be my next exploration haha. Someone take the plunge and report back! 😈

Saw him yesterday and he was a sweetheart. Super handsome with dark features, cute mustache and tall lean buzzed otter/twink body. His building and apartment downtown were lovely, his space is very clean and inviting. There were lots of parking spots wrapping his block and his building is next to many nice cafes and bars in the Petco Park area. When I arrived and when I left he offered a shower, which was a kind gesture. I thought his table was a little uncomfortable (not too wide, not too padded) but it didn’t bother me after my initial reaction. The massage was Swedish style sensual, which was very relaxing even though he doesn’t seem trained. He didn’t mind both nude and mutual touch, so the energy flowed well and it was a fun time. I left happy and will go back. He’s charging 180 which is a good price based on the market. If you want more sensual over therapeutic in a nice environment than he’s great choice. If you want real body work or deep tissue therapy, you’ll probably want to keep looking.

@Simon Suraci Yes I paid them appropriately and asked them if they’d like me to share the story. They encouraged me to do so. I’ve also sent them tons of business, so I hope I’m not devaluing anyone but I apologize if anyone is offended. That Reddit page doesn’t prefer financial info be included in posts, and I always encourage open communication between clients and masseurs about what’s on the table and what’s not. As always, YMMV. I’m happy to remove the link to the Reddit post if that’s preferred by the providers here Thank you for your hard work moderating COM.

Did you see him? Hot guy? Any indication of extras? 👀

Intriguing membership idea - anywhere with his pics or info? Didnt see it on the site. I’d do the spa day with a sexy masseur that would keep it exciting.