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It also had one of the fastest rise to the #1 position at the time - six short weeks. It stayed in the Hot 100 for 15 weeks, achieved Gold status (1M copies sold) on February 11, 1980 and Platinum status (2M copies sold) in 1997. It was the first 12" single to top the new 'Disco / Dance Chart' where it stayed for four weeks.

I just finished the first season of Fellowes' "Belgravia", from 2020 (which was the reason 'The Gilded Age' was pushed back) . Like "The Gilded Age", this is a series in which the story could've been told in half the time - three episodes instead of six. For some reason, he really likes to stretch his series out with a lot of 'filler episodes' which does nothing to move the story along. Tedious and dull.

I don't know - I think what keeps the attraction going this far is the 'mystery' between the two of us.

Nope. Learned it from a friend 'Anthony', and Italian kid who lived across the street from me who was two years older. It was then (around 12-13 years old) I realized I was attracted to him - when he pulled out his hard dick to show me his pubic hair. He asked me if I wanted to touch it and I did - quickly. I loved it. Nothing ever happened between the two of us, though. As we went through our teens he became cuter and cuter (with long hair) and his body developed into something sexy and muscled by the age of 18, and grew into his sexy 'bad boy' image. All the girls were in love with him, and he asked me if I was gay (I said no - I was scared). I always secretly thought he was. We parted ways when he went to a different high school. We reconnected at a funeral 10 years ago, and try to meet for dinner a couple of times a year (he has aged well for someone in his early 60s who's a jogger and a vegan). When we first went out to dinner 10 years ago, we were reminiscing about how we became friends. I reminded him he taught me about sex - he was very embarrassed, and apologized for being a 'tough guy jerk' back then. He doesn't ask about my 'love life' - he knows I'm not married, and he must know I'm gay. He's married with two adult kids, but keeps his own 'private apartment' close to where I live in the city, to be close to his work (he's very successful - has a beautiful home about an hour away). What's funny is that every time we end our 'dinner date' (it's always just the two of us) he asks if I want to 'go back' to his apartment with him, as he's staying the night. His invitation is offered in a way where it can innocently mean 'we can go back and finish our conversation over a glass of wine' or a more seductively 'we can go back and do what we didn't do when we were growing up'. I prefer the latter (I can kick it off by sitting next to him on the couch, and saying 'So teach me again about sex' )! However, I always deny his offer - tell him I have to get home for one reason or another. I always end with 'maybe next time we're together'...

After just four months of performance, Barry Manilow's passion project "Harmony" has set a closing date of February 4. Despite mostly good reviews since opening on November 13, the show never caught on in finding an audience at the Barrymore Theater. Last week, the show pulled in just 77% of ticket sales (with a moderate average price of $85), not enough to keep a musical of this size going. The show never saw the theater fill more than 80% of its capacity since November. When the show closes, it will play 92 performances. Despite its struggles at the box office, "Harmony" has gotten plenty of Tony buzz this season, especially for star Chip Zien. The Barry Manilow / Bruce Sussman project has been decades in the making. The show tells the true story of 'The Comedian Harmonists' - a German vocal group which became an international sensation in the 1920s and 1930s, until the Nazis wiped away their history. At the peak of their career, the group sold millions of records, made dozens of films, and played hundreds of venues around the world.

His ad is so unappealing to me. It reads as a resume - and not for the 'work' he's looking for.

This they canceled - but they renewed the sleep-inducing 'Gilded Age' ???

A classic case where someone who has zero business sense buys / starts a business and treats it as a 'hobby' not a real 'business'. Fails all the time.

I'm the odd man out, but I really enjoyed the movie - one of the better films I saw in the past year. I thought BK was excellent in his role (especially when he went to visit his family and we saw the 'real' Oliver) - he should win an Oscar. Sure there were some 'shocking scenes' to get tongues wagging (and they have), but they played nicely into the film and the craziness of the character.

Is it officially canceled ?

I'm finding my straight female friends enjoyed this series. My gay male friends did not.

I find this happening more and more with escorts from other countries. They speak the Queen's English when it comes to money and payment, but don't know a word of English when you talk about the service and decide to play dumb.

I would love to hire a nude male, nice-looking, well-defined housecleaner. Never saw any ads in my area. I've offered some extra cash to a few young guys who have been to my house for repairs, etc (told them this was all 'on the side' of course, not to interfere with the work they do each day) but no one was interested. Actually, one young man named Cody (supposedly straight) was - he was 25, handsome and well-toned smooth sexy body. I hired him to clean my bathroom and kitchen 'nude' for $100 (good price for a small bathroom and small kitchen - both not that dirty). He agreed and came by one Saturday. Once he got here, he decided he'd take everything off except his underwear (bikini underwear). I told him I'd give him $75 since he went back on the deal. We negotiated back to $100 when he said I could touch him during his time here - just not his dick. I was fine with that - but by the end of his appointment (2 hours), he did pull out his dick for me and let me stroke it a bit. When he cot close to coming, he told me to stop and pulled his underwear back up. (That was fine). He agreed to come back once a month - he didn't mind 'the job'. When I called him the following month, he ghosted me.

I can't understand the guys who advertise 'erotic' and want to leave their underwear on for the first half of the massage. I paid for a full hour for an erotic - not a half hour. I want to see the whole package for an hour. I admit, many times when they are in front of me in their underwear, I start rubbing their cock through their underwear (which gets them rock hard really quick). They usually drop their shorts quickly after that. If they don't, I start to reach for the waistband, and remove it myself - which they let me do. Once the cock is pointing at me, it's all mine during the massage.

My tank holds a little over 200 gallons, so I only get 100 gals at a time - making it half a tank. Today, I had a delivery and my tank was 1/8 full - so now I have a half plus 1/8. It usually goes down to 1/8 in 4 weeks depending on the weather. This November - January has been unseasonably mild, so I've been stretching it a bit (my last delivery was 5 weeks ago). On average (November - May) I will get 5 - 6 deliveries. I do get my last delivery in May for the summer (which will last through October, usually) as I do need it for hot water.

It shouldn't be scary unless you are afraid to be naked in front of him. If you're comfortable being nude with him, then this shouldn't be scary at all.

His RM profile says '31'. Last time I saw him (2018 ? 2019 ?) he had to be in his mid-40s. He's leaving today, so I passed on him.

I know what his real job is, and that schedule makes sense. Let's just say he 'flies around' quite a bit.

I said pushing 50 but yes you're right - upon closer look, I think he's in his 50s. The photo with the sunglasses on suggest he went to Barry Manilow's plastic surgeon and said "I'll have the Manilow". He has definitely had work done, and I think hair plugs.

I should add I have oil heat. I'm getting a delivery tomorrow - $3.40 a gallon (100 gallons). It's the lowest its been in a while.

I searched his name and MF # and nothing came up... Any info on Charley these days ? I met with him pre-pandemci and he was pretty good (very affordable) ; less massage more sex which is what I was searching for at the time. He's returned to my area but his photos seem old. Anyone have any recent info on him?? One thing I recall was he was on 'the small side' soft - and he talked about it right away (got the elephant out of the room). He handled it well (not that it mattered to me). He got pretty big though, and really knew how to use it. He was very thin, too - which is not always a turn-on for me, but it was fine for me in the end. (I prefer defined / built). https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41764/

Yes - that's the Tantric guy. Can it be those are his current pictures ? He's still sexy looking if they are (he must be pushing 50 now). Yes - he wanted to be a film-maker (and a country singer, I recall). I mistakenly said 'actor'. Thanks for finding him. If those are accurate pics, I wouldn't mind meeting up with him again.

I understand what you're saying, but I know many people who have left their small environment to become an adult and it didn't work out as planned. But every individual is different...

Since you've been to him a number of times now, here is how you get be nude in front of him for the appointment: "Do you mind if we do this appointment without the draping ? I must admit, I really love coming here for your massage but I don't feel as relaxed as I should with the sheet over me, and I'd like to try no draping this time." Let's face it - it's YOUR appointment and the focus should be on you and your comfort. Not his comfort - your comfort. I would be shocked if he refuses your request. If he should say he asks his clients to stay covered up, ask him why (be direct) - is it for reasons of client modesty ? Assure him you feel 100% comfortable being exposed in front of him, as you do in front of other healthcare providers (and essentially, that is what he is). Again, I'd be shocked if he refuses a male client this request (a female client is different). Once you're on the table nude and get an erection - remember, do not apologize for it. There's nothing to apologize for - you're a healthy male who gets erections. Maybe he will make a comment about it - kindly let him know you're not embarrassed by it, as a matter of fact you're more relaxed with it now, not constrained under a sheet. (Let him know that made you feel more self conscious about it). As a matter of fact, whether he acknowledges it or not, you may want to say this anyhow - let him know covering your erection with the sheet was a big reason why you felt 'less relaxed' since you were 'hiding it' (this comes across as professional). Most importantly, do not apologize. Second time you have a 'nude' appointment, and you pop an erection, then you can use the jocular attitude - 'look who woke up during this relaxing massage' with a chuckle. Then see where it leads to. (Quite honestly, if he doesn't make a move on it with the second nude appointment after your jocular comment, ask him if he minds if you 'take care of it' yourself to get rid of it...I doubt he won't pitch in). Good luck ! Remember - the appointment is about YOU, not him. Your requests, your relaxation, your comfort level. No modesty, no apologies.

This one has stayed in my memory for years...I'm sure many of you know who I'm talking about. I don't know if he is still around, but years ago I hired "Johnny Tantric" in NYC. (I'm talking maybe 15- 20 years ago?). Anyhow, I can't recall how I saw his ad (I don't know if it was a 'rent' site, as I wasn't too familiar with them back then), but I liked his smile, blond hair and body. I wasn't sure what 'tantric' was, but I figured I would give it a shot. He came to my hotel room on time and looked hot (especially for a masseur), decked out in black leather. His face / body matched the photos and his blond hair was a bit longer (I liked it). I get undressed (I'm hard at this point, standing just a few feet from him in his leather) and I don't think he even notices - he's talking a mile a minute as though he has known me forever (I figured he was on something). Somehow, I find all this sexy. He undresses, and as we're both standing there (he's soft), and I'm expecting him to tell me what to do next. Instead, he lays down on my bed and asks me to get him hard by performing oral on him. WHAT? I asked him - isn't this supposed to be MY massage? He tells me it is - and this is how he starts the appointment. Fine - I dive right in and enjoy it, and so does he. Long story short, there is no 'massage' as the two of us start rolling around on the bed and 'exploring each other' and making out (again, he assures me this is part of the appointment). After about a half hour, we both cum and the physical aspect of the massage is done (I guess). We're both lying on the bed naked and he wants to 'cuddle with me' (fine, he's cute and sexy) and keeps talking about himself - he's going to be an actor and a country singer within a year, he just does massage as a 'side gig' to make money for his move to California. He starts playing with me again (I get hard again) and I do the same to him, and then we head to the shower to clean each other off and we both (lightly) cum again. He gets dressed, I pay him (I think it was $200 back then which was 'a lot') and he kisses me goodbye and tells me he hopes to see me again. I have one question before he leaves: "That was a tantric massage ? All we did was have sex." He tells me a tantric massage is anything you want it to be - its where 'the energy takes you'. And he's out the door. I was indeed tempted to call him again a few times when I returned and saw his ads, but then wondered what for ? For just sex ? For a tantric massage and hope we have the same energy ? I passed.