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    superben got a reaction from + cougar in Blakethedancer in Pittsburg   
    Then go ahead and pay $350 for a massage and a bj with a small peepee.
    Jokes aside, 95% of the clients expect their escort or erotic masseur to have a big one, even if they are not size queens. That's how the market works. The guys that have a big one typically charge more because there's more demand for them. It's economics 101.
    If we pretended that penis size didn't matter when hiring an escort, erotic masseur or stripper, then we would just be delusional.
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    superben got a reaction from tennisjock in Very tall, well endowed young man in Barcelona, 4-1-1? FelipelypeXXL   
    I lived in Barcelona for nine months eight years ago and remember Felipe really well. He has always been extremely hot, probably one of the most popular guys in the Barcelona gay scene. He was a true staple in many bars and clubs in the city, I mean he was so tall that you couldn't help but notice him. 
    He's definitely not 26 now. He was 22 or 23 eight years ago, so unless the clock stopped for him, he has to be in his early 30s now. I am also not sure about the bisexual info in his profile, I always thought he was 100% gay and the way he walked and talked was also a little feminine back then. 
     
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    superben got a reaction from LFABWC in Have you ever done a freebie for a hot client   
    I would take this post seriously if escorts actually provided their clients with a receipt or an invoice for monetary transactions at the end of each session and paid taxes on their income like everyone else does. 99% of escorts don't even disclose their real names LOL. So what kind of freakin' income are we talking about here?! To me the "income" that you are referring to is nothing but extra cash that an escort can make through a private, confidential and verbal agreement with another consenting adult, and it is an agreement that often requires a certain flexibility because it is not regulated by anything, it is exclusively based on some sort of honor system. If an escort feels insulted by a client's request for a discount or a different rate, then they should apply for a regular job at a Spa, a hotel or a massage center, where they don't have to worry about negotiating prices and all they have to do is massage their clients for $30 an hour plus taxes without even having to take off their shorts. How does that sound for a reality check? You can't expect to make between $200 and $300 an hour in cash with a job exclusively based on the honor system, not pay a single penny in taxes and think that you're not going to deal with situations during which you have to negotiate with your clients.
    Many escorts that I had the pleasure to meet have always been very honest and actually humble enough to realize that. The ones that act as if their shit doesn't stink have always been a big no for me. Especially the ones that ramble about how professional they are or how valuable their time is, in my personal experience they have always proven to be the most unprofessional and awful providers.
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    superben reacted to sjmuktop in Is Onlyfans affecting the escort business?   
    What I don't get is people being happy to part with cash just to see nude pics or pics and/or videos of people having sex. Basically it's just like subscribing to amateur porn. 
    Not for me. I would much rather part with my cash to actually enjoy a hot guy in the flesh.
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    superben got a reaction from BonVivant in Very tall, well endowed young man in Barcelona, 4-1-1? FelipelypeXXL   
    I lived in Barcelona for nine months eight years ago and remember Felipe really well. He has always been extremely hot, probably one of the most popular guys in the Barcelona gay scene. He was a true staple in many bars and clubs in the city, I mean he was so tall that you couldn't help but notice him. 
    He's definitely not 26 now. He was 22 or 23 eight years ago, so unless the clock stopped for him, he has to be in his early 30s now. I am also not sure about the bisexual info in his profile, I always thought he was 100% gay and the way he walked and talked was also a little feminine back then. 
     
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    superben got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Have you ever done a freebie for a hot client   
    I would take this post seriously if escorts actually provided their clients with a receipt or an invoice for monetary transactions at the end of each session and paid taxes on their income like everyone else does. 99% of escorts don't even disclose their real names LOL. So what kind of freakin' income are we talking about here?! To me the "income" that you are referring to is nothing but extra cash that an escort can make through a private, confidential and verbal agreement with another consenting adult, and it is an agreement that often requires a certain flexibility because it is not regulated by anything, it is exclusively based on some sort of honor system. If an escort feels insulted by a client's request for a discount or a different rate, then they should apply for a regular job at a Spa, a hotel or a massage center, where they don't have to worry about negotiating prices and all they have to do is massage their clients for $30 an hour plus taxes without even having to take off their shorts. How does that sound for a reality check? You can't expect to make between $200 and $300 an hour in cash with a job exclusively based on the honor system, not pay a single penny in taxes and think that you're not going to deal with situations during which you have to negotiate with your clients.
    Many escorts that I had the pleasure to meet have always been very honest and actually humble enough to realize that. The ones that act as if their shit doesn't stink have always been a big no for me. Especially the ones that ramble about how professional they are or how valuable their time is, in my personal experience they have always proven to be the most unprofessional and awful providers.
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    superben got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Have you ever done a freebie for a hot client   
    Thank you for keeping it real! Like you said, everything was too politically correct in this thread. 
    In my personal experience, it happens quite often. There's an erotic masseur that I see on a regular basis in my hometown, I pay $140 for a 1-hour session. My older/heavier friend sees him on a regular basis too and he pays $200 for a 1-hour session.
    A Brazilian escort was in our town for a week last summer, my friend met him for $300. I met him two days later for $200. Same service and very similar time-slot too. 
    I could mention a few more examples with discrepancies in the prices that I am being charged compared to the prices that my friend is being charged, especially when it comes to escorts and masseurs that we both see on a regular basis. My friend doesn't mind though, as a matter of fact we often joke about it. 
     
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    superben got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Have you ever done a freebie for a hot client   
    As a client, I received discounts multiple times from escorts as well as erotic masseurs. I never meet with a provider unless they share recent face and body pics and I share my pics with them. The primary reason why I do this is to avoid any surprises, from both a provider's and a client's point of view. This is what usually happens: I send a text asking if the provider is available, if they are, I will ask what their hourly fees are. Then I will ask exactly what services are included in those fees and if we are on the same page, I will ask for recent face and body pics. If the provider sends their pics, I will reply with mine out of respect. 
    At this point, the tone of the negotiation completely changes more often than not. I can tell that most providers become a lot warmer and less distant in their messages, to the point that some of them offer to meet for a lower price than they had originally said before seeing my pics. If the original price was $200, they would often be willing to meet for $140 or $150.
    So the idea that providers are not willing to give a freebie or at least a discount to a hot guy is pure BS in my personal experience. And I'm not even hot, I'm just an athletic 45-year-old guy, 5'11, 176 lbs. I like to work out and keep in shape, but I don't have a six pack and never will. I can't even begin to imagine what kind of discounts and freebies I would get if I were a hot 35-year-old closet case - perhaps married with kids - who would find it much easier to contact and pay for escorts than getting caught looking for guys on a dating app or at a gay bar. Quite frankly, we all know that those clients do exist, probably many of them! No offense to anybody, but whoever thinks that for an escort there is no difference between sex with a hot 35-year-old and sex with an ugly 65-year-old is either delusional or completely out of touch with reality. We are all human and so are sex workers.
    Another reason why I am saying this is that I know for a fact that a friend of mine, who is 17 years older and 50 pounds heavier than me, paid a higher fee when he hired some of the same escorts that I had previously met with. He sometimes paid $50 or $100 more.
     
  9. Verbose
    superben got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Today's fake ad, West Coast edition   
    So you opened this thread about a fake escort profile purely based on your personal "intuition" or do you actually have proof that he's fake? Also, does the fact that you've been member for 21 years make everyone else dumb?!  That's what your response sounds like. "Even if everyone else is right and I'm wrong, I'm right anyways because I've been a member for 21 years."
    OK boomer...
     
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    superben got a reaction from Emir in Today's fake ad, West Coast edition   
    He already has two five star reviews, so not only is he fake, but the two clients that wrote a review about him would be fake as well. You have to be a premium member to write a review on rentmen and a premium subscription costs $20 a month. One of the clients that wrote a review has been a member since 2016, the other client has been a member since December 2022 and has reviewed other escorts, including one escort to whom he gave 1 star. So how did you come to the conclusion that Baraja is fake? Just curious! I keep reading that there are so many fake escorts and reviews on rentmen, so I am curious about the process and how the system can be cheated so often.
    In theory, the escort Baraja would have had to create a client profile in 2016, then he would have had to create another client profile in December 2022. He would have had to buy a premium subscription for both client profiles and use one to review other escorts. Then in January 2023 he created and paid for his fake escort profile, and he used the two premium client profiles to write himself two five star reviews. 
    The entire thing sounds a bit of a stretch, that's why I'm curious to know how you can be 100% sure that Baraja is fake. To be clear, I am not questioning your good faith in warning other members of this forum about this scam, and if you are saying that this escort is fake, I totally believe you. But I just would like to understand how he was technically able to cheat the system.
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    superben got a reaction from + Pensant in Today's fake ad, West Coast edition   
    He already has two five star reviews, so not only is he fake, but the two clients that wrote a review about him would be fake as well. You have to be a premium member to write a review on rentmen and a premium subscription costs $20 a month. One of the clients that wrote a review has been a member since 2016, the other client has been a member since December 2022 and has reviewed other escorts, including one escort to whom he gave 1 star. So how did you come to the conclusion that Baraja is fake? Just curious! I keep reading that there are so many fake escorts and reviews on rentmen, so I am curious about the process and how the system can be cheated so often.
    In theory, the escort Baraja would have had to create a client profile in 2016, then he would have had to create another client profile in December 2022. He would have had to buy a premium subscription for both client profiles and use one to review other escorts. Then in January 2023 he created and paid for his fake escort profile, and he used the two premium client profiles to write himself two five star reviews. 
    The entire thing sounds a bit of a stretch, that's why I'm curious to know how you can be 100% sure that Baraja is fake. To be clear, I am not questioning your good faith in warning other members of this forum about this scam, and if you are saying that this escort is fake, I totally believe you. But I just would like to understand how he was technically able to cheat the system.
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    superben got a reaction from + FrankR in Today's fake ad, West Coast edition   
    He already has two five star reviews, so not only is he fake, but the two clients that wrote a review about him would be fake as well. You have to be a premium member to write a review on rentmen and a premium subscription costs $20 a month. One of the clients that wrote a review has been a member since 2016, the other client has been a member since December 2022 and has reviewed other escorts, including one escort to whom he gave 1 star. So how did you come to the conclusion that Baraja is fake? Just curious! I keep reading that there are so many fake escorts and reviews on rentmen, so I am curious about the process and how the system can be cheated so often.
    In theory, the escort Baraja would have had to create a client profile in 2016, then he would have had to create another client profile in December 2022. He would have had to buy a premium subscription for both client profiles and use one to review other escorts. Then in January 2023 he created and paid for his fake escort profile, and he used the two premium client profiles to write himself two five star reviews. 
    The entire thing sounds a bit of a stretch, that's why I'm curious to know how you can be 100% sure that Baraja is fake. To be clear, I am not questioning your good faith in warning other members of this forum about this scam, and if you are saying that this escort is fake, I totally believe you. But I just would like to understand how he was technically able to cheat the system.
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    superben got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Any info on Amsterdammn ?   
    I contacted him to set up an appointment yesterday. He was extremely rude. A total asshole. Good luck to anybody willing to contact him.
    A few hours later, I saw he was on Grindr. His Grindr profile says he's bottom, while he claims to be a top on his rentmen escort profile LOL
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    superben reacted to misterhumphries in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    I beg to differ. Selling cars, jewelry, etc is not the same as an escort -- who sells his "time" by the way, not his body. Sales of any consumer good do not require the salesman to get naked, to have a certain type of body, or to anticipate a customer wanting to have intimate contact with his sex organs. The last three men I contacted about their services, I didn't book a session. For one reason or another, they were not right for me. It's fair to call me a time waster for that reason. Being called a time waster can be undone by booking and keeping an appointment.
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    superben reacted to Todd Jenkins in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    If everyone who was in the business of 'sales' were rude like many providers can be, they would make very little money. How many times have you gone to look at a car, at a piece of jewelry, etc. and had a rude sales associate? Not many times. If the sales associate is rude, you are not likely to purchase the product.
    Can you even imagine going to look at a high-priced item and after a few moments of questions and back-and-forth, the sales associate goes "GET OUT! STOP WASTING MY TIME, YOU ARE A TIME WASTER!"?
    Same goes for people selling their body. 
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    superben reacted to coriolis888 in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    Good for you.
    If more clients did what you do, pompous escorts would do without a chunk of money that they could have earned by being civil to those who have questions.
    Calling potential clients "time wasters" tells us how big an ego a potential provider possesses.    
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    superben reacted to Todd Jenkins in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    BOTTOM LINE: If you are selling a HIGH-DOLLAR item (perfume, 'companionship,' pricey meal, wine, etc.) and you can't be BOTHERED to take the time to answer questions about that item, you're not getting my money. 
    You want me to take hundreds of dollars out of MY POCKET and put it in to YOUR POCKET, but you can't be bothered to have a 10-15 minute call? Yeah, you may look at me as a 'time waster' – and that would be to your detriment because I've flown to guys I like to spend overnights with them – but if you can't take a few minutes to have a conversation with me, I will GLADLY spend my $ elsewhere.
    Point. Blank. Period. 
     
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    superben reacted to Scott Virginian in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    I'll go one further.  If someone's asking me for $300 an hour but won't answer a few reasonable questions intended to make sure it works out well -- for both of us -- then imma keep looking.
     
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    superben reacted to coriolis888 in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    Many professions that rely on advertising get a lot of calls that do not end up resulting in a client being hired. 
    It just goes with the territory.  
    In our firm, we hire special "secretaries" to screen out" callers that likely would not result in becoming a client of the firm.  However, the secretary is not rude in the screening process.  
    A lone individual, like an escort, having to screen calls and messages has a more difficult and time consuming job. 
    However, to categorize many potential clients as "time wasters" is like throwing away money and a good possible client.  
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    superben reacted to coriolis888 in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
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    If you contact to hire an attorney or designer or any other high hourly rate person  (like a provider or escort), and if you get called a "time waster" by the person you are considering hiring, you have to wonder how the person failed to learn basic communication or marketing skills. 
    You also have to wonder why you bothered to call such a rude individual.
    Statistically, there likely are some time wasters but I do not believe there are as many as claimed by the many "rude" providers falsely alleging their precious time is wasted by people contacting them with useless questions or "time wasting" questions.    
    Civility is a two-way street.  
     
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    superben reacted to + glutes in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    If you don't ask a couple of germane questions of a $300+/hour provider, you aren't doing due diligence.
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    superben reacted to coriolis888 in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    Yes, the imaginary "time waster" label gets used again.    
    A product is being sold (escort services).  If more than a few questions are asked by the client concerning details of the potential encounter, the client is labeled a time waster.  
    Too often, something is out of sync.  
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    superben reacted to pubic_assistance in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    Well...that isn't always true.
    "Ask me" is quite a common component of the rates section. So I am forced to ask . The second most common need to ask is availability to host ( where and when ).
    So I don't need to text you if you're too expensive or hosting somewhere inconvenient or working hours that are inconvenient..but that's not always apparent in the ad. So a quick response in messenger keeps me off your text threads on your phone.
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    superben reacted to Trick in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    This will only work if the provider is providing accurate information on their ad. 
    My first question is always “Are you in (my city)?”  Some providers are not actually in the cities their ad shows.  Even with dates shown,  many times they are not the actual dates they are visiting.   
    Rentmen does not show the rates so they have to be asked for.  
    As for “I Am Into,” many providers check all the boxes so it has to be verified what they are really into.
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    superben reacted to Jamie21 in Anyone feel like a lot of providers are rude via text?   
    No excuse for being rude, but not engaging fully with some enquiries is a way of weeding out the time wasters, window shoppers and those who expect a ‘deal’. 
     
     
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