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The training for which could explain the time spent in Botswana.

ALL DONE EDITING You are welcome. Read on for my take on the conundrum of shouldn't have to tell an escort what you look like vs fear that the escort will run when he sees you. So, here's the thing: this is about you, not the escort. You don't want to contact escorts you find attractive out of fear that they will not be able to perform because of your self-perceived unattractiveness, but you don't want to weed out escorts who might find you unattractive due to your size by telling them you are overweight. What to do? Contact one of the escorts you would have hired this week and hire him. See what happens. If you have a great time, then you are happy and might have found someone to hire on a regular basis. If you don't have a great time, then you are exactly where you are right now.

@Realalist, I don't share your feelings but can empathize with you. My advice is similar to @Guy Fawkes - communicate what you are looking for and, because you find it to be an issue, share your anxiety about your appearance. There are several escorts whose ads state all shapes and sizes are welcome. Start with one of them. If they don't strike your fancy then send a note to someone you are attracted to and see what happens.

Someone referred to me as "cocksucker" and I replied "Would you care for a demonstration?" That said, I've heard the term "re-claiming" used to describe an escort calling themselves a "whore" or a gay man calling himself "faggot." Typically, it is OK for the person re-claiming the term to use it, but not someone who does not belong to the slurred group.

Email [email protected] so the issue could be addressed.

Despite being a weird, 70's-designed hotel, the Westin Bonaventure in LA has some rooms with the dual benefit of great views and no one can see in.

HA! The same Safeway has a very good tequila section. It is a HUGE, recently remodeled store. Wish it was within walking distance. I might have to move closer to it.

Funny you mention the traditional marriage. I was one of the few kids in my school whose parents were not divorced. I think things would have been better for my brother, mother, and me had she divorced my dad. He was not the primary wagearner (after losing his job he returned to being a freelance artist) but took care of the house, which was a good thing because I learned many DIY skills from him. Also learned when NOT to DIY. Again, funny you mention this, because in terms of "punishment for doing something wrong" he was the less harsh parent. Heaven forbid one of us cut the grass, raked the leaves, walked down the sidewalk, manged our carers, or other non-infractions the wrong way. Crazy, isn't it? I'm glad you were able to have a few talks with your mother. I found it beneficial for me to talk with my dad. What made it easier to forgive him (LONG after we talked and several years after he died) was seeing the abuse his sister heaped on her daughter (my cousin). Both my father and his sister were engaging, funny people that everyone LOVED hanging out with. They were also deeply mentally ill and lived in their own constructed realities. Also, he reacted extremely well when I came out at age 33. Essentially, he thanked me and asked if he and my mom could meet the guy I was seeing at the time. The guy and I broke up shortly thereafter. I work very, very hard at not being judgmental and overly critical. Sometimes I succeed, often I fail. What works for me is recognizing the triggers and avoiding triggering events. I've also learned when to and when not to engage with people. A therapist once suggested that I give myself permission to take a time-out when it seems I might lash out. It is hard to do but it works.

This question hits home for me because my father was frequently verbally abusive. The kicker was he would defend my brother and me when he saw an injustice committed against us at school. That said, the damage done has taken years and years to become less raw. To this day I still suffer the effects, although not nearly as much as when I was a young adult. He apologized at one point and I told him I forgave him, but the fact is I hadn't completely forgiven him. At this point, almost nine years after his death, I've finally forgiven him.

I bought three plants for my balcony today: A cactus, an agave plant, and a plant the name of which I can't recall at the moment. The two nicest ones (the agave and the one whose name I can't remember) came from...Safeway! They were $20 each. They get their plants from a local nursery.

Yup. I didn't know that myself until one day I Googled her. PS: LOVE her in SVU. I think it's great that she has carried the show after Christopher Meloni left. Would love to see Olivia Benson and Lily Rush (from Cold Case) team up.

I think you mean clients are not RM's customers. The escorts/masseurs are their customers as they pay for the ads. Clients, on the other hand, are the audience. That is, they consume the content.

I read that as meaning he is also available to women and couples in addition to men. However, one could ask

I'm not irritated by people who quietly chew gum. I often chew gum after a meal or when my mouth feels un-fresh but there is no toothbrush/toothpaste or mouthwash available. However, cracking gum, chewing with one's mouth open, and/or chewing loudly is simply annoying. The offending party should be forced to listen to Lawrence Welk Meets The Clash over and over again.

I'm still mad that the original Bike swimmer is no longer available.

That's a far more reasonable fee structure than what your friend originally depicted, although the 15% fee to the donor still seems high.

In the past, many reviews were essentially poorly-written gay erotica. They described, often in blistering and exhaustive detail, the reviewer's impression of what transpired. If the reader was into exactly the same stuff as the reviewer (or wanted some JO fodder) the reader was in luck. If the reader was into different stuff, the review was pretty much useless. One can still write a comprehensive review of the escort and his business practices by including the following: Did the escort show up on time (or reasonably on time)? Does the escort look like his pictures? Was payment requested up front? Did the escort delivered what was promised? (doesn't matter what he promised, just that he did it) Did the escort show up high, stoned, drunk, or otherwise impaired? Did the client feel comfortable with the escort? I recall reading a very detailed review of a long-retired escort whom I had hired several times. The review was rather fantastical, so I asked the escort about it. He told me it was complete fiction, but the client was an extremely nice guy and he didn't want to insult him by correcting the client's telling of the session. If you don't write reviews, the site will fade away, as @Guy Fawkes mentioned. Why not simply adapt and evolve? We expect straight people to adapt, evolve, and accept us for who we are so why can't we do the same with the review site?

rvwnsd thought the same when he saw the escort's photos.

I think Onlyfans uses TRS-80s as servers. Rarely can I view vids without having problems.

My second grade teacher in Chicago taught us to pronounce words like "what," "why," and "where" in a similar fashion. However, I would describe the pronunciation as starting out as if you are quickly blowing though very slightly opened lips just before making the "w" sound. In my recollection the sound was fairly common until the 1980's or 1990's. I haven't heard the words pronounced that way for years and years.

Been blocked by an escort? Take part of the fee you would have spent on him and donate to Daddy. You'll keep this site running, which will help prevent others from being treated poorly. Oh, and we won't have to convince your pets that you don't love them.

That is one of the best suggestions I've seen in a while.

Basking in his amazingness?

There's a men.com plot line in the making if I ever saw one.

This reminds me of profiles that used to show up on AOL back in the day. They promoted a supposed organization of men and handed out these stickers so members could identify other members and feel more "secure" picking them up at truck stops, rest areas, and AOL chat rooms. Of course, there was a fee associated with all this. I thought it was either a scam to get money or a group of guys who were trying to identify guys for them to gay-bash.