JSchorr

Over time I have come to the conclusion that it’s best to be upfront. I usually apologize for being blunt but then proceed to state what I am interested in experiencing. It’s usually not anything out of bounds for a sensual massage as I prefer a fairly vanilla experience. That being said, if I change my mind once things get going I ask but don’t demand. Most of the time the masseur is fine with it.  One time he was fine with what I asked but didn’t feel properly prepared and would have to take a break to get himself ready. I passed and we just continued what we were doing. No problem. Always best to be respectful.

I have generally just paid the quoted rate if it is at or more than what seems to be the standard in my city. I am very vanilla and really don’t ask too much of the provider so I feel that’s fair. On the massage side, however, I usually go in expecting massage, some mutual touch and a quick HE…if it ends up being more than that, more attention, kissing, oral or whatever, I tip generously which ends up being the escort rate rather than massage rate. 

I have generally just paid the quoted rate if it is at or more than what seems to be the standard in my city. I am very vanilla and really don’t ask too much of the provider so I feel that’s fair. On the massage side, however, I usually go in expecting massage, some mutual touch and a quick HE…if it ends up being more than that, more attention, kissing, oral or whatever, I tip generously which ends up being the escort rate rather than massage rate. 

I have generally just paid the quoted rate if it is at or more than what seems to be the standard in my city. I am very vanilla and really don’t ask too much of the provider so I feel that’s fair. On the massage side, however, I usually go in expecting massage, some mutual touch and a quick HE…if it ends up being more than that, more attention, kissing, oral or whatever, I tip generously which ends up being the escort rate rather than massage rate. 

Over time I have come to the conclusion that it’s best to be upfront. I usually apologize for being blunt but then proceed to state what I am interested in experiencing. It’s usually not anything out of bounds for a sensual massage as I prefer a fairly vanilla experience. That being said, if I change my mind once things get going I ask but don’t demand. Most of the time the masseur is fine with it.  One time he was fine with what I asked but didn’t feel properly prepared and would have to take a break to get himself ready. I passed and we just continued what we were doing. No problem. Always best to be respectful.

Over time I have come to the conclusion that it’s best to be upfront. I usually apologize for being blunt but then proceed to state what I am interested in experiencing. It’s usually not anything out of bounds for a sensual massage as I prefer a fairly vanilla experience. That being said, if I change my mind once things get going I ask but don’t demand. Most of the time the masseur is fine with it.  One time he was fine with what I asked but didn’t feel properly prepared and would have to take a break to get himself ready. I passed and we just continued what we were doing. No problem. Always best to be respectful.

Over time I have come to the conclusion that it’s best to be upfront. I usually apologize for being blunt but then proceed to state what I am interested in experiencing. It’s usually not anything out of bounds for a sensual massage as I prefer a fairly vanilla experience. That being said, if I change my mind once things get going I ask but don’t demand. Most of the time the masseur is fine with it.  One time he was fine with what I asked but didn’t feel properly prepared and would have to take a break to get himself ready. I passed and we just continued what we were doing. No problem. Always best to be respectful.

My experience with him wasn’t recent, maybe 5years ago, but yes he allowed that and also rimming. He was offering massage back then and was definitely the receiver in any activities that followed (no intercourse). I’m pretty vanilla so it was ok with me. Nice guy though, personable, good conversation, masculine. 

My experience with him wasn’t recent, maybe 5years ago, but yes he allowed that and also rimming. He was offering massage back then and was definitely the receiver in any activities that followed (no intercourse). I’m pretty vanilla so it was ok with me. Nice guy though, personable, good conversation, masculine.