JSchorr

Saw him a couple of times but a long time ago (years). The photos are old but he takes great care of himself. Extremely discreet, nice guy.

I haven’t seen him in a long while but he’s very sexy…gives off a very masculine vibe. Professional, takes very good care of himself. Some of the photos are older but he truly does look the same, 6pack, etc. Very friendly.

What was the extent of his sensual massage, assuming that’s the version you had. Mutual nude/touch?

I saw him some years ago but I suspect he looks much the same as the photos….very into taking care of himself. Very nice guy but does have (or did have) limitations. He did a nude massage and was ok with being stroked/milked, receiving oral and being rimmed. I’m an older guy so maybe he’d be into more with someone more his type.

He sent me one. Not similar but ok. Ultimately I passed - had some text convo but took too long to respond - was not precise on when available, etc. Pass.

Was the selfie better or worse? I reached out to him and he responded but we haven’t agreed to meet yet.

Well more indeed.....

He mentioned to me that he was going back to school soon so he often goes on and off rentmasseur depending on his availability.

Not my experience at all…have seen him several times in Sacramento. Very professional. Talented massage. Kind of goes with the flow in terms of extras.

I agree with the above….he came to my place and was pleasant enough but not engaging enough for me….a bit mechanical.

He’s currently in Seattle….I met him in SF a couple of weeks ago. Also highly recommend. Very affectionate, kind, good looking. Very well endowed and hard.

I like to kiss - and it doesn't have to be deep wet kissing either..light is fine. I have found over the years that it's just better to be upfront about it...I usually just ask -even if kissing is on the provider's list of "Intos." I always specify that I don't require hard kissing, that I am clean, have good hygiene, etc. Those who say no I usually ask if they mind their necks or other parts being kissed and they usually say no. If I really liked everything else about the provider I went ahead with it and the experience was fine.

I do the same..I point out MY personal experience if different from the complaining party. Sometimes I know more background about a provider that could explain his behavior in this certain instance and I will point that out without revealing any details. I would hope others would do that for me if the situation was reversed.

This has only happened to me a couple of times but when it did, I just ignored the escort, looked away or maybe had a weak smile on my face as he walked by. Later I texted and acknowledged the encounter and said that I hoped they were well, etc. but didn't want to embarrass them. They seemed to appreciate it.

Thanks for the warning!

I had a massage from Ken last week. He has a small but dedicated massage room in his apartment. The area is a bit sketchy but that's nothing against him, it's the state of things in San Francisco these days. He is very attractive, cute, smooth body and well endowed. The massage is on the lighter side but felt great and is thorough. With me he started out in shorts and at some point I heard them hit the floor. Very sensual using his hands and body. When he was standing next to the table working on my thighs I reached out and stroked his very firm butt then lightly took hold of his penis....it was quite a handful and erect. He responded positively. I told him I didn't care about an HE this time but as the end was approaching he was so sweet and eager to please I let him go ahead and it was very satisfying. He allowed the use of his shower afterwards which I declined so in lieu he wiped me down with warm towels. Very nice touch. Sweet guy. I'll definitely return.

I saw him for a massage when he was visiting my city last year. Very nice..not a big talker but nice guy, very accommodating. Handsome, very large.

I’m going to try that…..often I lie there thinking about what’s to come (when will it happen, how will it happen, what if I cum too soon, etc.) and I don’t enjoy the whole experience.

I’ve always been attracted to small curve…not sure why but I get instantly excited. I had a very nice younger guy for many years as a friend with benefits type of thing….unfortunately his lifestyle and work schedule just didn’t mesh with mine. We remain friendly and check in with each other occasionally but haven’t gotten together physically in quite a while….I’m assuming he’s moved on. The reason for my bringing all that up is that he had a very tight foreskin. The tip of his cock could not be fully exposed. I was always conscious of it and was concerned I would hurt him if I got too aggressive with sucking or stroking it I had never encountered one like that before.

I like giving not receiving…and of course it always depends on the guy, good hygiene, etc. if you had told me some years ago that I would rim another guy, let alone enjoy it, I would’ve said you were crazy! I don’t honestly remember when the tide turned but I do distinctly remember one time early on I had a massage by a good looking Indian guy from RM who was totally smooth, small/compact stature, very muscular and a perfectly shaped butt and clean all over. We were nearing the end of the massage and he stood directly in front of my head/face, making contact. I touched him and sucked him a little and something possessed me and I politely asked if I could rim him, with an extra fee of course. He obliged and I just couldn’t get enough. He smelled so sweet, was so smooth and he obviously was enjoying it. He would wiggle his butt back and forth, push back on my tongue, etc. He was visiting my city and still does for his other job so I still see him every time he is in town, maybe 3 times per year. I get a nice massage then we head to the bed and he assumes the position (on all fours). I get excitied every time he tells me he’s coming to town. We have great conversations on a number of topics, some personal, and I feel so lucky to have found such a nice young man who I am comfortable with and who lets me indulge myself. Looking forward to his next visit!

I have seen him once, plan to repeat. Very nice massage room, attached bath. Nice guy, excellent and thorough massage. After getting dressed I paid him more than his rate because of the experience I had and he looked at it and asked if I realized it was more…nice guy.

I have generally just paid the quoted rate if it is at or more than what seems to be the standard in my city. I am very vanilla and really don’t ask too much of the provider so I feel that’s fair. On the massage side, however, I usually go in expecting massage, some mutual touch and a quick HE…if it ends up being more than that, more attention, kissing, oral or whatever, I tip generously which ends up being the escort rate rather than massage rate.

I regularly tip generously if I feel the rate is under what I received. This mostly applies to masseurs…if I go in expecting a nice sensual experience but received much more I will pay escort rate for the time. I met a very nice masseur a couple of weeks ago…was up front about what I was looking for..the basics only. Towards the end he escalated things very gently, did not ask and did not force it on me…it was lovely and I paid him extra. As we were chatting in his kitchen afterwards he took the money and said “You gave me X and the rate was Y.” I explained my reasoning and he very much appreciated it.

Over time I have come to the conclusion that it’s best to be upfront. I usually apologize for being blunt but then proceed to state what I am interested in experiencing. It’s usually not anything out of bounds for a sensual massage as I prefer a fairly vanilla experience. That being said, if I change my mind once things get going I ask but don’t demand. Most of the time the masseur is fine with it. One time he was fine with what I asked but didn’t feel properly prepared and would have to take a break to get himself ready. I passed and we just continued what we were doing. No problem. Always best to be respectful.

Saw him quite awhile ago in SF. He traveled with another similar looking escort and they were partners..not sure of the current situation. He’s definitely big, maybe the largest I’ve had the pleasure of seeing. I am pretty vanilla so we just played a little bit but he was able to get hard. Seems like he’s really bulked up since I saw him. To me, he came across a little cocky, no pun intended. I felt that he prolonged conversation and slowed things down to take up the time.