Axiom2001

It's January 8, 2023, and I am just encountering your query. He's Felix (flexxxpapi at RM). When I type the website and the escort's name in a thread, it has failed to work for me here.

Ditto! Although I've been fortunate enough to have been there 11X,s and truly hope to return within a year or two.

You are quite lucky and fortunate. Unfortunately, the rate in many places in California is above $25. But one's living space or area also determines who's available, etc.

Last Thursday I drove in the rain for 1 hour and 45 minutes to see my barber who's been addressed in this particular thread. When I went to open the door, I found it to be locked. My barber opened it; I walked in and spoke to him. Did I get a response? No. Immediately, I fumed inwardly and walked to use his restroom. While I did what I had to do, I began to think about what had just transpired and began to fume more. I left the smallish toilet and occupied a place on the leather sofa that's in a well appointed room that gave me a solid and direct view of him and his client, for I indeed wanted to see if there would be any communication between the two. Well, there was not. When it came time for me to occupy the chair, I sat. The barber put the apron on me, did some other things, i.e. adjusting equipment, etc.; then pulled out the card to show me that there WOULD NOT BE ANY COMMUNICATION from him. While he did this, I said: "Yeah, I know." I told him what I'd wanted from him in terms of my haircut/hairstyle; he performed this to my utmost satisfaction. I paid him; thanked him; and did not say anything else upon my departure, but I was still baffled as well as down right upset with this man whom I'd been seeing for over a decade. On my drive back home, I thought about if there will be a next time. An hour or so ago today, I concluded that I'll text him or call him for my next appointment during the latter part of this month or early next, and in my communication, I'll ask if he'll be meditating. His reply will determine if I'll be seeing him again in 2023 or at anytime in the future. We paying clients should NOT be subjected to his idiosyncracies. And in the meantime, I plan to search for a barber/hairstylist who's in my area; although this is slightly difficult. The price will be similar, and with this I am all right. I'm just particular as to how I want my hair to be cut/styled. My SF Barber met this on all points. [I wrote the preceding since I posted the initial thread. And to the doubters-- our talk previously HAS NOT BEEN CHIT CHAT or SMALL TALK, for I do neither in the majority of situations in which I find or have found myself.]

Thanks for doing what you did. It's unfortunate that some of our members feel it necessary to deviate from the topic, something that always infuriates me.

I'd place both hands on his adorable face, open his mouth and smother him with some very, very deep kisses and lots of licking and spit sharing before proceeding in our hot fun. [Damn his mouth/lips are absolutely gorgeous.]

I've been engaging the services of escorts far too long as I care to remember. But in conjunction with your initial thread heading, only one living friend knows that I have paid for some hot companionship; he did prior to his prostate surgery. To date he and I have not discussed. Another of my very good friends knew that I hired but never hired himself except for the time that he spent with me at Carnaval in Rio de Janeiro in 2003. Regarding your thread's heading-- I would say no at this time.

Damn, if I were in São Paulo, I'd try to take him on. ...have been there previously but had my wildest and greatest fun while in my favorite city: Rio de Janeiro. When I was in SP one year homeward bound and being driven by my guide, we passed through a neighborhood where a man stood with his very huge cock twirling. I was so excited with desire that I went back to my lodging and had to take care of my raging cock based on the image that had super-excited and titillated me. They are there and are mighty delicious.

For about four years, I've been with one provider who'd identified as being bisexual. When COVID hit-- I did not see him or anyone. Once the pandemic subsided, I connected with him but did not play, for I was still afraid. I did give him his fee even after canceling our time. To date he identifies as "Straight" in his ad; yet he's retained all of the "I AM INTO's" in his ad. I question the latter. He and I were together prior to Thanksgiving; he was still gorgeous looking and charming, but he did NOT kiss a lot (as we'd done previously), and he used his phone and viewed "straight porn" while trying to get hard to give me "that BIG n THICK uncut bone." During the four or more years that we'd played, he has given me the utmost time during play; he loved having his ass eaten, (the only man that I've rimmed; he loved being fingered, and lastly, he did please me. All of this is lacking today as he is "suppose to be 'straight.' ...don't know that we'll see each other again.

"I could eat 'dat' ass then have him turn around and...."

"waitin' for the eatin'!!"

Would you engage his services? A month and a half ago, I took fancy to an escort who lives and works in the San Francisco Bay Area. His photos, ad, and vids are enticing. He and I have been in communication, and last month we connected via my IM'ing him at RM's site. At that time he quoted his requested fees of which I was OK. In my getting back to him, I stated that I'd hope to see him at the end of November. Well, did I? No. Plans had changed for me. He's in my Buddy's List at RM, and I can keep up with him and others on a daily basis if I so desired. I continued to view his photos and vids and yearn for his company. I decided to write Instant Messages to the three clients who had reviewed him. To date only one responded favorably and quite encouraging. From that I became more than eager to see him. Lo and behold I relayed to him that I plan to be in San Francisco on December 31 and would like to meet. He fired back an IM, and in it he stated that his rates had changed: $400 for one hour, $600 for two and so forth. He mentioned other rates, but after reading the preceding-- I returned a message to him in which I stated that I'd take a rain check. Well, apparently he didn't understand that, for he wrote back a favorable and encouraging response. What would you do if a similar situation happened to you? Because I've had difficulty posting RM's particulars-- I failed to post here, but his "stage name" is: Theo_SBUK, the young man whom I think looks deliciously mouthwatering.

Jamie21, you said it all and oh so, so succinctly. That was my point for devising this particular thread.

I like your response: two days ago an escort with whom I've been corresponding, IM'd me at RM informing me that his earlier quoted fees have changed. His base rate is now $400 per hr. $600 for two, and he's a newbie who only has a mere three reviews. I responded back via IM telling him that I'd take a raincheck. Apparently, he misunderstood, for he replied back with some favorable words. My money is limited; thus I will not engage the services of this young man whose experiences are limited; he's under 25 years of age.

I've never encountered any escort who was NOT intelligent. His being educated was not in his "job description." At RM "education" is not one of the bullets in an escort's "I Am Into's."

When I read in far too many ads the words "I Am Educated"-- I cringe, for one would hope that the individual has received some sort of education if only 12 years. If I were to engage the services of the individual, I'd find out if he is "educated" based on our conversation. But prior to that, I'd have an idea based on the composition of his ad, his sentence structure, coherence, manner of communication via text or IM via Rentmen, and if he and I were to talk on a phone--one would get an idea of this guy's education, or I would hope so. I think his use of those words are completely unnecessary; I'll meet you as you are and go from there, for in all of these years in which I've engaged the services of escorts, education (as such) has NEVER been an issue with me.

I strongly agree, and perhaps that component can be put somewhere in the guidelines of this forum.

I might have responded here too quickly on the 15th, for a day or so later, Rafael's most recent. vid at JFF was one of the hottest that he's posted. His partner was young and relatively hot and received a lot of kisses from Rafael and took "that blessing" like a champ-- all of it and then some. I enjoyed the vid so much that I sent a tip. So I think from what you wrote and from what I recently viewed, kissing on the part of Rafael depends on the partner with whom he's playing.

Last evening I viewed the last five episodes of eight of Smiley, a very entertaining and "interesting" story. I'd invite all of you who have Netflix to tune in. I know I enjoyed it from many angles.

Thanks for correcting. He sent me an instant message with the word "Hey." I did not respond but am waiting on his opening his "hidden photos"-- then I'll proceed. Right now he's in San Diego vs LA, but perhaps this is for a short time. Damn, he looks like he'd give one one hell of a very, very hot time. ...would like to be "drilled-down" by him.

Damn, I'd like his company and eagerly let him have his way with me. He's packin' and I'd relish that big log of his.

I, too, have always wanted his company but failed to contact him when he was in San Francisco performing at the now defunct Nob Hill Theatre. But, today, I took out a JFF and OF accounts. ...can't remember which one he's on, but in almost all of his short, short vids, he rarely kisses deeply and wants to be "serviced" then fucking one into oblivion. I, personally, like interactivity, but that's me. I am not writing this to discourage you, but what I did write might give you second and third thoughts.

Within two weeks I hope to be in Los Angeles. While there I desire to meet a few escorts but am in need of some specifics. The men of interest follow: https://rentmen.eu/Edu_Brazilian https://rentmen.eu/XavierZane https://rentmen.eu/brazilianboyxx https://rentmen.eu/AJ_xxx https://rentmen.eu/DiegoPassion I'd appreciate hearing from those men who have actually engaged the services of any of the above men of desire.

Agreed. He looks mighty mouthwatering (front & rear). He's apparently a newbie, for he only has one review. If you're a premium RM member, send the reviewer a chat message. I've done that for other escorts in which I've been highly interested and have been encouraged as well as saved from the responses that I've received back.