It can work out. Tapped a nearby guy on GRINDR today I had never seen before, showing a beautiful set of abs. To my surprise, he responded (I'm not in his league). I asked what he was into/looking for. Said he was looking for gen and now. Sent me a pic of a very handsome guy with a beautiful, very muscular build. Out of curiosity asked how much gen. Said he'd blow me for $60. Price was too good to pass up the possibility. Arranged to meet him in front of the building where he was hosting (so I could walk away if anything was amiss), which was just four blocks away, and sure enough who showed up but the guy from the pic, a definite wet dream, dressed in professional level business casual, his muscles bulging in his shirt and a fantastic v shaped build. Turns out he was from Connecticut and was apartment sitting for a friend. We went up to the apartment, and he did exactly what he said he would while I held on to the rock hard muscles of his shoulders and arms. In the elevator on the way down, was telling me what other days he'd be around, but, sure enough, blocked me while I was walking back to the office. Ah well . . . .