I'm sorry to hear about this.
Something very similar happened to me a few years ago. I documented it in the forums and Daddy's (#15 in the link below). https://archive.m4m-forum.org/cruise/2016-06-13/kerry_slate_la
To summarize, Kerry was well-reviewed but didn't show up to the meet and didn't respond to my messages. I documented it here in the forums and he apologized. Turns out he had suffered a death and his head was not in the right place.
We ended up meeting eventually and he made up for it by giving me four hours for the price of one. I ended up seeing him a couple of time after that.
It's helpful to all of us, if you do mention the name, and in my case, it may have prompted some action on his part.