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Are you single? I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you. Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. Good luck!

I just found this thread on here. Wow! I am 45 years old and have been to 56 countries. The plan is to visit all 193 U.N. member nations before I check out. Man oh man do I have stories. But first, need to read through all 13 pages of this thread. lol

That's why I love these forums and this is so true. That's amazing.

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here: www.vivirenelmomento.com (Live In The Moment) As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎 He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job. He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed. I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest. That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works.

I think that the internet in general has made everything direct-to-consumer in the past decade. This applies to everything from products to services to escorts. Additionally, middlemen/brokers/agents are on their way out. Stocks, automobile, insurance. Trust me the next ones to fall are real estate. Who needs to pay a real estate "agent" a $60,000 commission to conduct a viewing (I will walk through myself, thanks), look at neighborhood comps (Um, Zillow!), and lie about the true offer amounts just in order to stretch their commissions (happens way more often than you think). I mean, did you ever see PROOF when you bought your house of the other offers? Nope. Didn't think so. Then they what, schedule a home inspection (there's apps for that), and um, help shuffling papers around at closing? Okay, I can hire a TaskRabbit person on that app for $15/hour for 20 hours who has real estate experience. All for the low low price of 6% of the purchase price. Half the time they cause more problems than they solve with failing on important tasks, not being available when you need an appointment, or having other obligations/listings. When houses doubled in prices in a few short years, did the effort and quality of their work double too? When house prices went up 10x over the past two decades, did their workload go up 10x or did the internet and access to information at fingertips actually remove the legwork in neighborhoods and reduce the effort of their jobs? We all know the answers to these questions. They'll all be out of jobs in less than ten years. Good riddance.

One escort I was with advertised PNP on his profile even though he is clean and sober and never uses drugs or alcohol. Another put "NO PNP" specifically in their profile, although secretly they did it (GHB) during sessions if asked. The obvious question was why? Right? Both said that many clients that are brand new to hiring and people uncomfortable with their sexuality reach for all kinds of substances to feel more comfortable in their own skin. Newly out people who haven't admitted they are gay. People with tons of family and work pressure just to check out and forget. The list is endless. PNP and "high" has a very different definition to each person. Is someone with a Ketamine nasal spray prescription "high"? Does anyone want someone to show up drunk, which is sold legally almost everywhere (with few exceptions) across the planet? Cannabis use? I think we can all agree on Crystal Meth (T) and Heroin, right? But even a small amount of coke or microdosing GHB? You couldn't even tell if you tried or gave a blood test. The escort's personal business decision was to allow it, but also decline at the meeting time if the person was obviously impaired in a dangerous situation -- or something that risks their own personal safety or health. Otherwise, it is a business decision to advertise (and not partake) and they both said it actually can net more good clients. Takeaway: As a client, I now disregard both the NO PNP and the PNP text/tags. Ask clarifying questions, state what you want to do, what you expect, and guarantee your condition. Show up present in that moment and make the escort feel comfortable. Like you should do with anyone you meet in life for any reason.

Check out Broken Hearts Club. Pretty cool average gay themed movie. Not too much partying. Not too much sex. Just the right amount of funny.

From what I know, the farewell is based on him transitioning to other full-time work (from his current position) and the sale of his house with his divorce. Both of those are variables that may have him coming back again.

He gets into NYC on the 18th. I'll probably swing down from Boston and go see him.

Sorry voice texting.

As a follow-up, they do allow negative reviews in those reviews are posted. However, each group provider is a lot of response to every review which you should be able to see in writing. If you can’t see all of this in writing, you need to use a VPN in order to put yourself in another country because the United States blocks about from People accessing the sites within the United States

Reviews are time tested, and true method to prove out anything in life these days. Whether you’re ordering food from a restaurant on DoorDash, or you’re getting an Uber, or you’re buying something on Amazon, it’s all about the star rating and the number of reviews. You would never order something online from a seller who was a 3.9 or 4.1. That is just a simple fact, we look for people who have 4.99 or 4.84 or even 4.7. And then we look for people who have thousands of reviews at least hundreds. On the flipside, everybody has to start somewhere. Reviews are notoriously hard to fake and of course there will always be someone who is displeased. You can’t please everybody in life. Put as much weight into reviews of others online as far as escorting goes as you would use them just like you were buying a toaster on Amazon. Do you, you are the seller or the provider, treat every review as if it were your own child. Treat every customer as if they were going to write a bad review. You will get bad reviews and you cannot please everybody but your reviews will absolutely be a reflection of who you are as a provider and a person. You can opt out of the system, and not have a profile and not have to deal with reviews, but that may also impact your business. They are true, and they do reflect reality. There are always exceptions, but this is the best advice you will get.

He will keep it parked forever. There’s no way on RM to deactivate. He doesn’t want to lose all the real and good reviews. They’re a major selling point and all true. Never say never. It’s just good business to always keep that door open. 🤨😎😈

There may be rumors of Trev's permanent retirement (at least for this chapter of life, who knows what the future will hold) from escorting by the end of the next month. If you want to make plans to see him for the first time or a repeat, I suggest you get in touch with him directly now to find out his travel plans for the next four weeks. He can tell you the rest.

I'm with @TorontoDrew here. Exactly my type and looks so hot I would be bankrupt living in NYC. As to him specifically, he does have 7 5.0 reviews. Have you thrown up a VPN and looked at the comments from outside the USA and read about him? What do they say?

PS. I am 46 and gay. Never seen My Fair Lady. Never saw a Broadway show in real live until two years ago and I was hooked. Book of Mormon in NYC and was like, oh shit this is what I have been missing all my life! I had tickets with my boyfriend and another escort to see Back to the Future on Broadway this past weekend but a delayed flight fucked that all up and I never saw it. There's so many shows/musicals/plays (I don't know the difference) that I want to see now I have heard about all my life. Adding this to the list.

Holy shit. @purplekow took control of this thread, put the original poster in his place, and threw me in a corner and shut me the fuck down. I'm so impressed by everything, @purplekow is now my new best friend and I want to hire him... for something. Anything. Well done man! You made my Friday here. You shut me down and I am smiling about it while typing these words into the computer. Amazing. 🤩

Awesome thread. As far as reading the room and knowing who to approach, that comes with age and experience. I hate to say it but that is no substitute. By my age (I am 46) you still have enough youth and energy and looks to execute and the wisdom and experience to know who to approach and how to do it in a non-threatening way, that I will be honest... my rate is better than 1 in 10. Maybe 1 in 8 or even 1 in 7. But there are so many factors there. My father also had two girlfriends on the side during the time he was married to my mother. That "game" or "charm" is in my genetics. That can even be a factor, who knows? For the example about small conversation about the cheese, I approached a guy last night on the beach. He had his motorcycle parked on the street directly in front of him and was sitting on the seawall, alone, looking at the sky, not on the phone, just staring into the night. It was a warm mid-summer evening and nobody else was around. I opened with "nice bike man" HIM: "Thanks. I love it" ME: "What is it?" HIM [don't remember his reply, that wasn't what I was after] ME: "That's awesome. How come you're sitting here alone? Just soaking up the day and night?" HIM "yea. I just had an argument" [no gender or reference given] "and needed to get out of the house for a while. You?" ME: "I hear you. I was just hungry and came from the place down the street and I am walking home now. I live right over there" [points] "alone and will be doing the same as you tonight" ... at this point he starts talking about random stuff. It was clear he didn't get my hint or suggestion, and I wanted to get home, so I but my losses. Did I strike out? Was this a win or loss? I don't count it really, because I didn't invest the time to seeing it through to the end of the conversation. The opening and conversation was there and it flowed. If I had of invested the time to see it through, I would have gotten him to reveal his sexuality at some point and/or proposed an offer he come hang out at my place on the balcony and watch the ocean and night from there and/or that I was gay and had an ex-BF, a current FB, a partner, single, whatever. My point is, I would have changed my responses to mirror his situation in an effort to make him more comfortable in that moment to get what I want out of him. His reaction dictates where the "count" above comes from. I hope this all makes sense and ya'll can learn from my random rambling, lol.

You’re very welcome. You’re not gonna succeed 100% of the time. Fact, you will strike out nine times out of 10 but if you do it to people you really like it that are really handsome. You will hit a home run one of those times and you will get a phone number and a hook up out of it, so do this reply back to this thread once you tried it 10 times and let us know how the hook up was I’m that confident it works.

God, so many things to address here: He is Colombian and English is not his first language. That means he has to think about words to say and it can be difficult, and he uses words that may not exactly fit the situation based on his vocabulary. This can come off as "attitude" but that is never the scenario more often than not. He has 89 five star reviews. That is an impeccable record and sorry, but if you read the text with a VPN, it goes against the two posters above. Combine that with #1 above and you have what, a 4.95 for him. By every single online review metric around, that is a perfect score. There is always someone (or two) who aren't happy and it isn't the escort's fault. He is Colombian. I have a Colombian boyfriend who is the same as #1 above. They're insanely passionate about what they do in life, in work, and in escorting. Association with MDE and that city in relation to drugs is from the 70s, 80s, and 90s. Does Colombia have a drug export problem? YES. Is it a huge economy and thing for them? YES. Does that mean 51.5 million Colombians are walking around high all day or are addicts? NO. Not even close. It's a couple thousand people which is 0.00038 percent of the people who live or are from there -- AND the government is actively trying to manage it and squash it because it is bad for the country's image. As far as PNP in the ad, instead of writing them off, why not ask the escorts? You'll fine -- and I have in many cases -- they list that so they show clients they are comfortable with client drug use. Some clients have too much shame to hire without some sort of substance involved and it's just great business to list PNP in a profile and then clarify when asked. It's as simple as that. That's all here. I'm done.

Be nice and respectful. Don't lead with sex but with a solid compliment. "Wanna have sex" or anything sex related can be a turn off... but the one line that works for me every time is: "Damn man, you're handsome as hell" It shows your intent and your interest. It's a genuine compliment that every guy will take, even the 100% straight ones. It's non-threatening. It just works. Try it.

I'm going to go the other direction here. Based on the posts by @Coolwave35, I think there can be something more here. Coolwave, you seem like an awesome guy. I'm not sure what you're looking for longer term, but if you truly adore him and he really needs some 'help' perhaps try to offer to bring this past the hiring phase. There is a place to be a mentor and a trusted confidant with people you really like and find attractive. You have to make sure the value exchange is just mutual, no matter what that looks like for you. I'd set some very, very clear boundaries on every future meeting and also sit him down (sober!) and perhaps show him this forum thread. Have him ready it and your text and all the replies. I personally choose to invest not only my money but also my time (as a client) in those escorts who I find worth it. The ROI measure for everyone is different, but it sounds like you may be able to have an impact on this guys life. I don't know him or you, but I wouldn't write him off just yet on strike two. One more, sure. Good luck.

His endgame is to replace the banking system. A much larger play here has been in the making for over 25 years. Anyone who has followed him and has been paying attention knows these are just steps to get to the endgame, much like the paid blue check marks. Think of him what you like, but the guy is brilliant and I would place my bet on him every. single. time. Read more here:

Sadly I don't think you have any influence over Rent Men and more than a seller has influence over Amazon.com. You'd have to have critical mass in order to make them even listen to you. Although as a business owner, I know that ALL feedback is received and analyzed, so keep talking to them and making suggestions. The only way to make a change is to build a better mouse trap and make it so compelling that people use a new platform over Rent Men because it makes sense, can drive additional business, and has the features they want (providers and clients). That can happen, but you're looking at a bank roll of about $1M to $3M to actually try to compete with Rent Men. I have ideas where you could secure the capital for something like this, but don't really have the time to get involved. There are tons of investors out there who will jump at the chance to compete with a company that has a monopoly on something -- which Rent Men has on the largest market in the world (USA). Good luck.

I work full-time, and the main guy I hire also has a full-time career (he does this on the side). We also live in separate cities. We have taken a longer trip out of the country and that requires a lot of planning and a solid commitment. For regular sessions, he visity NYC on a regular schedule that he plans time around his personal and work schedule, tells me when he will be there. Then I schedule time away from my work to meet in NYC. I haven't ever really done the "hire in my city" or last-minute meetups. It works for me this way, but I also know the chances of cancellation (for work, for family, for health) carry a huge monetary loss on his side and on my side. It's an acceptable risk for us both because the rewards are greater.