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He won't do well in prison. Guards hate guys like this and inmates do as well. Everyone will be against him and he will be tortured and beaten and everyone will turn a blind eye. He will likely be found dead at some point in prison. Oh well. You suck fuck PS. It's funny because he's a big dude -- 6'3, 240#. which in general people would stay away from a guy like that. But I would bet my entire retirement on the fact he can't fight himself out of a wet paper bag.

For me, months later, I found out that I have a condition his father had. Two different color eyes. It's a small thing but he fell in love with it. After the third meeting, he invited me to his house down in Miami (I lived in Boston at the time) for the weekend and told me he couldn't take my money he just wanted to spend time together. I asked him when I got there how many guys have you ever invited into your apartment like this and he said "not a single one, ever. My home is my sanctuary and I don't bring clients home." I said: "But I am a client" and he said "Not anymore you aren't. I don't know where this is going but I am so happy you're here." and then we just lose the clothes and went at it for a few hours. 😈 For you, just be guarded for the time being. I was for months and was honest with him about that. But definitely enjoy and get what you want out of the situation. Clear communication about feelings is very key. Tell him you're falling for him and you're not sure how the future will play out but you want to spend time together. Be prepared for 99% chance of not getting what you want. The chances here are really, really slim. But if he's a keeper, he will be clear with you and tell you exactly how he feels. That's when it is worth more than money.

For mine, he advertised himself as 35 and I was 45. After two weeks he said I have something to tell you. He hands me his driver's license and he is actually ten months older than me, born in the same year. He certainly looks fucking 35 years old and everyone believes it. So many people think he's with me because he's the younger jacked guy who needs a daddy and needs a green card or passport (he doesn't; he already has his -- if anything we are getting married so I can get his passport, lol) but people will believe what they want. I know the truth. He pays half the bills, I don't actually contribute anything to him these days except for half of our living expenses and maybe a decent vacation here and there where he pays what he can and I maybe pickup upgrades from coach to first class, etc. I'll write the story at some point over the summer if ya'll are interested in how it all happened.

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Write a quick private message: "Hey. Your photos and [insert a compliment or two here] are amazing. Do you ever do side work one-on-one with people? I'd love the opportunity to have some private time with you and maybe spend the night with you if that's your thing. [Insert something about yourself here, age, stats, location, etc.]. If not, no big deal. Keep doing what you're doing, it's working. Peace" That'll work. The worst thing anyone can say in life is no... but you miss 100% of the chances you don't take, and if you take enough, you will eventually get a yes. It's practically guaranteed.

I had an escort I hired fall for me. I'm typing this from our living room (actually, I moved into his place). But that's a story I haven't told here, yet. I will share, someday when the time is right. My hesitation to tell it is because it will give others false hope and my situation is really, really rare. I hired escorts so they would leave because I didn't want or have time for a relationship, but this one stuck around. lol.

Clients can easily change numbers and emails and profiles (if they have them). You're the product/service, they're the purchaser. You don't see Amazon or Wal-Mart reviewing their customers, although they do keep internal databases of blacklisted numbers, names, addresses, etc. A business in general (say a restaurant, toy store, or [insert small business here]) doesn't want to blanket ban the public/new customers based on what another competing business across town says about them. Yes, the playing field isn't equal and there is Mr. Number and other things, but in general, what you're seeking doesn't exist.

Doing a little recon for a friend. I am neither an escort nor a Republican, but are any providers thinking of going to Milwaukee for the Republican National Convention next month? It brings in a ton of people from delegates to support staff to law enforcement to media for all the support and infrastructure required. Curious about thoughts.

That $600 was for 1099 reporting for taxes to the IRS, not for reporting to FinCEN for activity monitoring, but you're correct. If you want to use Cash App or Venmo or those for transactions keep it a personal account. You'll never get a 1099 or be reported. If you switch to a business account, they'll 1099 you for all transactions no matter the amount each year. They don't tell you that upfront. It sucks when you have only done like $5k in a year but get a 1099 and had a "business" account because you thought that was better. It isn't.

I know everything there is to know about MSBs. I'm deeply involved in that industry and can quote almost any Bank Secrecy Act (and its descendants like the USA PATRIOT ACT) law, rule, and/or guideline in my sleep. The answer: It's complicated. Part of that could be read as this person is considering themselves a MSB. That's also incorrect, they aren't. lol There are no new federal regs or guidelines that came out recently about accepting payment in this context. There has been a big crackdown by the regulators on MSBs involved in certain high-risk industries like crypto that are making it really hard to operate a legit company in this environment. When you pay, you can pay cash, debit, credit, p2p payments (Paypal, Venmo, Cash App) or crypto. Since he said only cash and crypto, that means they're probably worried about getting p2p payments and the 1099/taxability implications of incomes from those sources. That would be my guess. You want to know my advice to providers who read this: Start accepting crypto. If you're worried about the ups and downs of the market, you can easily exchange it for a "stablecoin" that tracks the dollar that doesn't lose or gain value. Everyone should have a coinbase.com or kraken.com or gemini.com account and own a little bit. It'll be worth $1M or more in the blink of an eye, as sure as the sun rises and sets. It will do for finance what the internet did for information. It doesn't seem like it right now, but let's bookmark this post and link back to it in about five years, yea?

Providers who ask or even require a pic to meet are iffy in my book. I find many of those types are just monetizing their sex lives and want to look for a way to turn someone down who isn't attractive to them. As for sharing a picture of myself, I do so almost always. It's a way to humanize myself to them and at least give them an idea of who will show up at their door or what to expect. I'm not looking for validation or a comment and generally state something along those lines. Taking it another step, I have a 'client' profile on RM that has my stats, a couple of G/PG photos, my "intos", and some text of what I like and get into. It also shows the reviews I have left for other providers. Why? It helps to let them know I am serious and have hired before and I am not a time waster. That's key.

At the moment, they want USD for sure. The USD is stronger and more beneficial for them. Question is are they quoting you in CAD or USD for a rate?

Well, you could TRY to hoard them by buying up all their time 24x7 and having a live-in arrangement, but we all know that is always super successful and works out great. 🤣 (My escort never left and now I joke that I stopped paying and why won't he leave but he keeps hanging around which is a story for another thread, lol)

Hahaha. Reach out. I believe for two weeks next month.

He's coming back next month. Stay tuned.

... a little birdie told me Trev might be back in New York for a bit next month if ya'll are wondering. 👀

Oh wow, I didn't read the whole thread. Glad you found a few others. Like any business or interaction, sometimes it just isn't the right fit and that's okay. Glad you didn't let that first experience turn you off from trying again because as you have found out, they're out there. For me, I had to go through three guys at first before I found that "magic" connection and that changed my world. Years later, I still hire him and engage and we talk about the dumbest stuff (like the Orville episode with Topa, because he's even a bigger Star Trek geek than me). lol.

Think of him as a long lost friend you haven't seen in forever. Ask him about himself a little too -- he is a person with his own struggles, and issues, and family, and work. I find if you take a small interest in knowing them as a person, that puts them at ease because you see them as human. Of course, they won't share details and everything, but just asking is what counts. HAVE FUN!

My #1 provider who I rave about everywhere has 120+ 5.0 reviews and he literally writes a personal reply to each one talking about what he loved about the reviewer. He is the only one I have ever seen do that and part of why he is so good. Also, he doesn't have "people" doing it for him like others have managing their online presence, so it's definitely him writing each one.

Yours too, I am going to send you a private message so we can carry this conversation on without interrupting the thread.

No. Here's just in NYC for a short while (one or two months) and is going back to Boston for a bit, but not sure where after. Just text him and ask, he always replies fairly quick.

Some of us have a lot to lose but we also have our own risk/reward tolerances and vet the escort as much as they're vetting us as clients. I had one bad experience where an escort I hired to my house for the first time saw my full name on a credit card laying on my table in the hallway. He found me on LinkedIn and started a small extortion scheme because I own a couple companies and he was able to find me in the news, etc. Upon researching him more on here, I wasn't the first person he tried that with apparently. It was easily nipped in the bud by "my people" (LOL) but it could have gotten out of hand. I'm much more apprehensive these days based on that experience. I always look for reviews. If you have over a dozen good reviews, that is typically a solid way to vet people. Yes, some reviews can be fake or whatever, but the entire rating (Uber, Amazon, etc.) thing really works. That's why it has proliferated into almost every aspect of our lives. So honestly, if you have 50+ 4.9 reviews, you're fucking awesome. I even know one escort who has 120+ reviews and every single one is 5.0. Maintaining a 5.0 is extremely hard as you can't please everyone, but there are a handful out there who manage to do just that. Those are the experts at their craft and worth every single dollar.

Thanks for the info. I was able to get on the internet a few different ways there but know the drill for sure. I'm fluent in Spanish so that's not a problem. My trips to Cuba have been for adventure, history, culture, etc. I never really tied in sex at all, I suppose I just did a mental block on it. Next time I am there, I am going to remember your post. Just copied and pasted it in my notes app for future reference. It's an incredible country if you dig in and get around. I could talk about Cuba for days with people who have been like yourself. I've been to almost every place on earth (and will do all 193 UN nations before I die) and Cuba ranks up there near #1 for my most favorite of anywhere in the world. So close, so awesome. Thanks again.

Maiconmax -- he is from Boston but is spending a month in NYC. Great guy, nice hard top, really attractive, passionate, etc. Check him out.

Quick question -- I am an American who has been to Cuba four times (which is really rare). Where are you finding the escorts there? There's no internet or sites, so word of mouth or do they advertise somewhere, or how are you doing this? I'm so curious.