SportBud7

I'm the typical mid-40's, grey hair, beefy, some wrinkles in the face, 5 o'clock shadow, coach/dad type. Textbook definition of a 'daddy'. If I had a nickel for every college baseball player or jock that had daddy issues (hint: they ALL do!), I could buy a new Macbook. I have a client profile on RM with clear pictures, and I get hit up kind of often asking if I escort. Same types. The answer is no (not because I don't think it would work, I simply don't have the time and focus my energy elsewhere) but thank you for the compliment. Yes, I use my look to my advantage. We all should be playing the cards we are dealt in life. lol

Take an inked-up built MAN who is a "hood rat" but an actual nice guy underneath, yea, all about it.

This all boils down to the fundamental structure of how the FedACH system works. If a scammer puts in enough time and effort, they can set up a "fake" relationship with a bank or payment provider directly that will, in fact, allow for direct debit from a checking account with just an account number and bank routing number. There doesn't even need to be a full name match per NACHA standards. You can just say you're authorized to debit and if you have the facility or knowledge on how to do it, it can be done. ACHs are sometimes reversible for up to 30 days, to a maximum of 90. But those funds are long transferred out of the scammer account and gone by the time it is realized. Protect your ABA/Account information just like you would your SSN.

Well, my friends that own a bar in Chicago sell them out of these for $10. They have to make a killing and everyone sees it. So…

I just posted in that other thread above.

As someone who has been everything from 210 and well built to 285 and not well built in my adult life, I can say there are a few parts here: 1. As Jamie says above, there are position limitations and we all have to be realistic. I had them at the time and it sucked to be honest. I think people who are overweight know and want to try, but know their reality too. 2. There were just as many people attracted to me at 285 as there were at 210. Today, I am 220 and not muscular or defined by any stretch of the imagination. People would describe me as "beefy" in general. However, my boyfriend is the textbook Instagram type who looks like he just walked off a fucking bodybuilding competition stage. He's like a walking cinderblock and everyone looks at him everywhere we go. I have people who assume he is an escort and I am paying him, but that isn't the case. He loves me for me, not the time I spend in the gym. The only reason I work out now is to stay healthy so that I can maximize the years I have to spend with him, and that's attractive to anyone. 3. It's all about your energy. Anyone can attract anyone they want with the right mindset and energy. There's also an element of cleanliness and self-care that goes into it. No matter your weight (unless we're talking 400-500+ people who physically cannot manage to get into a shower or wipe their ass -- be clean. Cut your nails. Change your clothes. Use soap. Manage yourself the best you're able with the tools that are available. If you do that, you are good. Hope this helps.

The sad reality is that you are a privately run business offering a service. The only true "customer ban list" successfully implemented that works is in the airline industry, and even that is semi-supported by the government. Businesses (from Amazon.com down to the local corner coffee shop) can choose to ban a customer because the customer committed fraud or did something bad to the business. But Walmart or Target or the other corner coffee shop, or the other local bakery across town have zero interest in banning that same person just because their competition had a bad experience. That's not *their* experience. They don't have any with that person yet, so it really is all about the money. Even in the event of a customer blacklist, the customer here can create a new persona and get a new phone number or e-mail address. RentMen could ban the IP address, but there are VPN workarounds for that as well. There are apps that escorts use to write reviews on customers, so you should look into that if you don't already know. They're not bulletproof, but they work decently as part of a more holistic approach to screening. Chalk this one up and move on, you did the best you could. There are really awesome clients out there. You'll find many, but every once in a while you get suckered into a bad situation, which is just the cost of doing business. Good luck!

Real life. I've hired Jared (Row 3, Picture 3) before. He was a freaking great time. I haven't met his boyfriend (Row 4, Picture 3) before, but Jared spoke of him very highly.

Row 3, Picture 3 & Row 4, Picture 3 are in a relationship.

They didn't crack down before because they encouraged sharing. HBO came out and explicitly said their content is so strong they wanted people to share as a large % of those people would turn into paying customers. It's a good business decision. I think that Netflix now believes they have enough critical mass to force the people who shared to sign up on their own because their content is good. I do know they won't lose many paying customers over the crackdown -- the main account owner will continue to subscribe -- but will likely gain many of the people who lose access. All we need is about one or two quarters to find out. The subscriber numbers won't lie. I It's all upside for the streaming services at this point as long as they keep putting out awesome content, which they are. There has never been better television in history than what we have today. (*except news, dear lord not news, lol)

It's really all about positioning the question and the interaction itself. I've asked this question close to 200-300 times, and never once had a single person react badly.

One of the hottest escorts on Rentmen that I have ever met hires for himself on occasion just because of this. Sometimes these escorts are genuine men, they aren’t all about monetizing every cum shot they have, and they want to hook up on their own terms and get their own needs met. It’s so bad on the “apps” that this guy pays the same $350-$500/hr we all do because it provides value to him. I would have never believed it, but he was telling me the exact truth.

Completely obscene for someone who can’t read a fucking text and formulate a coherent reply. My opening was absolutely fine especially considering I list everything in the profile text that can easily be looked up. For $1,000/hr, I expect a “Hi Mike. Thanks for the message. etc etc etc” type reply. Obscene. I wouldn’t have him for free if he offered.

I've hired him and reviewed on RM. Passionate, totally into it, fully present, and will absolutely repeat.

RE: Oral. Your experience might vary if you have a connection. He’s uncut.

Alright, so I will jump into the pool here with the first feedback: I hired him this past weekend. Initially, the intent was an hour or two, but that turned into an overnight. His pictures and profile are absolutely real, authentic, and genuine. He's who he says he is and sexy as fuck in person. His communication skills do need improvement. In fact, after a few hours, we talked about that, and I showed him these threads here on this site. Escorting is not his main thing. He has a full-time job and other life obligations which contributes to the flakiness of his replies at times. Best of all, and this is what makes him great, is that he really valued the constructive feedback and acknowledged his age combined with ADHD was a challenge in getting back to everyone and following through sometimes. He knows he needs to improve and is working on it. That's awesome in my book. As far as the session, it was everything I wanted. He's a really great bottom with an ass like two fucking marbles that won't quit. Damn it was good. If you are able to pin him down (pun intended) then you won't be sorry with the time and money you're investing in this one. He's worth it.

https://app.rent.men/Maiconmax Kisses passionately. Great top. Been with him more than a handful of times. All 5.0 reviews across the board. You can't go wrong.

I have to say I am kind of blown away by how good some escorts are. My first hire ever was a little less than a year ago. Not sure what I was looking for but expectations weren't high. There were a handful of guys I met who were good, fair, average, and some not great. But I met one dude and when the connection is there and they're good at what they do, HOLY FUCK. He and I have since traveled out of the country together, etc. This man really set the bar in my mind so high it was going to be unbreakable. I'm not even talking about just good sex, but he makes me want to be a better person. When I am ready to get off the bike or don't want to do another rep, picturing this guy makes me stay on the treadmill for another few minutes or push through the last few reps a little harder. Love it. So last night in a random city, I did the usual homework and hired someone else and it was another version of the first guy above. Just absolutely incredible. This isn't just some of the best sex I have had in my life, or 'paying for sex' but a real high in every way possible. Here are some notes on what I have learned: Do your homework on providers. The more thorough and well-written their profile is, the better. The time and energy they put into their online persona is directly correlated to the time and energy they will put into you as a client. Reviews are everything. Both of these guys have 5.0 across the board. One has 60-70 reviews, all five stars. The other has over 120 reviews, again all 5.0. Not 4.7, 4.8, or even 4.9. I'm talking 5.0. If they can pull that off, they are doing something fucking awesome. It's not even up for debate. Be nice. Be upfront. Explain what you want and approach with respect always. If you're just looking for quick sex, find a hot guy and have a blast. Sure. That's sort of easy, right? But if you're open, there is so much more you can get from these transactions. Just open your mind and fully figure out what you want and need. That's all for now. Later guys.

I think good ones are making way more. $300/hr x 1 client/day x 1 hour/day = $100k and I think that's conservative. I don't necessarily think one client a day is the thing, but the good ones have overnights and trips and all that stuff. My math would be $250k-$400k/year if done well and they keep their game on point. That's cool in my book.

Jarrod, I hate to say this but I’ve been reading these forums and most everything posted for a year now. Public_ is kind of right. You just complain. If I was researching a provider and ran across your postings, I wouldn’t book with you just based on the energy you give off here. I’m sure you’re great in person and we all have outlets to vent in life, but there is some truth here.

I hear what you just wrote and there isn’t a single planet in the universe where we would not agree on the math, and I buy you a beer or you buy me a beer, and we laugh about this —- now you suddenly have this energy about you that I find attractive and it makes me hard and wants to get off somehow with you and share that experience. And I don’t even know you or a single thing about what you look like. But I do know right now, in this moment, I want it just as much as the money. I hope Jarrod reads this and knows who it is that made this post and the one above. IT’S WHO I AM. Put your energy into the things you want to change in the world. Form meaningful connections. Leave a legacy. 50x 5* reviews don’t lie. They’re all genuine and authentic and that is the true currency in this world. EDIT: I hired him earlier this evening long before I made that feedback post. My attraction to the thread was the in my research doing background checks and personal vetting process led me to this thread. stand by every word posted above. Authenticity. You generate it he learns from it and move on or don’t. It’s your legacy.

Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves. Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be. If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review. BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort. People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering. Just my constructive feedback to you.

What's his IG?

What's his IG?

That's awesome to read. You're doing it for all the right reasons. Well done and congrats.