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I think that’s the key point. You enjoy the work. Glad you do! I can always tell when an escort is actually enjoying the time. It makes it even better for me!

@Jamie21, if I may be so bold, it sounds like you’re saying it’s the escort’s responsibility to service and provide the pleasure for the client, yes? The needs and desires of the client are what matter to you, as long as it’s reasonable. You agree to provide a service and the client pays for it?

How long on average does it take someone/you to send a text?

@Jarrod_Uncut, you’re one of the escorts who chooses to your phone. Not all do. It seems a blanket expectation for all clients and all escorts to use a “real” number doesn’t keep jerks or communication problems from cropping up. I know for my own self that I’ve had communication issues with escorts in every medium. Your choice is fine as far as real numbers for your business. But it just limits who you’ll see, and it might be an unnecessary limit. You can’t expect everyone to behave according to the rules for yourself anymore than others can tell you what to do. Everyone can choose for themselves what works best. If not using a real number is a no go for you, then some clients just won’t be meeting with you. And you won’t get their business. But that’s just the nature of things. I find it fascinating how strongly some seem to feel about this!

100%

That’s why I said on average.

When you send a text (not just for potential escorts or clients) how long do you spend thinking of a response, typing it up, and sending it? I’m guessing when I shoot off a text it takes me less than 10 seconds on average. That amounts to 0.011% of a day, and 0.034% of eight hours per text.

For the first joke it’s 100%. But I’ll offer a break for subsequent jokes at 80%. For an extended discourse with jokes I can do 50%.

My experience has been a phone app sends messages and does calls much the same way as a regular phone. I don’t understand the problem either way. A time waster could just as easily use their regular phone number too. I also have had providers who are using iPhones who are largely unresponsive or unhelpful too. And I’ve had escorts say they were sorry for a late response because they’re using an app, suggesting they have notifications or whatever turned off. Either way, I just think whatever method anyone uses to communicate folks should be decent. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for someone, escort or client, to use a burner if that’s what they feel most comfortable with for whatever reason.

@dbar123, I think most providers don’t actually care what clients are looking for. They are very concerned about making money and anything that stands in the way of making a quick, easy buck (answering questions) is a “waste of time.”

Masks were more effective when the disease was 1) less transmissible and 2) more virulent. At this point, especially with meds to take when you come down with COVID, the chance of getting severely ill are much slimmer than before. I'm not interested in wearing a mask anymore simply because I might happen to give COVID to someone who isn't vaccinated of their own choosing. Kids can get vaccinated now as per the FDA and CDC. So if parents make the choice not to vaccinate their kids, that's on them. I don't see it as my moral obligation anymore to take on extra measures for the sake of others who won't do it for themselves. It's one thing if vaccination and therapeutics weren't here, but they are. People are choosing to not get vaxxed. And as for those who can't get the shot, that's always been the case for other diseases too. Yet we don't all put on masks because someone can't get get the shot for whooping cough, for example. That person has to be more careful. It's time for people to assume more personal responsibility. COVID is here forever.

I don’t think client or provider using burner numbers is bad. I have a separate phone for work and the rest of life. That seems pretty normal to me. The bigger issue is if you won’t provide any number. If a provider somehow figures out a guy is using a burner and won’t meet for that reason he’s probably not a good fit otherwise either.

It’s easy enough to get an app to protect your actual number…It seems to me if you’re going to fuck, you should be willing to share sone sort of phone number. Are you going to fuck with a bag over your head too?

What’s up with Floridians anymore?!

Precisely.

I’m sure it’s lucrative!

@Epigonos– That wasn’t my point. I’m glad that works for you. I’ve only ever hired for overnights plus, and I have never had a guy try to milk me. What I was looking for here was if the landscape has changed or if this guy was looking to take advantage of me. It seems that guys here think he was looking to use me as his ticket to traveling. I doubt there was any consideration of getting to know me or compatibility or whatever. I was a possible meal ticket. Telling him I was no longer interested also got no response although there’s two checks in RM messenger.

Wow. And I thought I was bad! Christ. People have lost all decency.

@Luv2play– I think, from my feel, that @BonVivantis right. I get the vibe, as they say, this guy only sees me as a ticket to turn other tricks. I just was never so blatantly asked before, is all. I wondered if it reflected a change in escorting culture that others may have experienced too. It seems like it might be just this guy, though. Good to know.

@Calix_V2– I’ve always hired for overnights, never less, and the time was always fine. Sometimes for multiple days. “In and out” doesn’t do it for me. I don’t think you describe universal advice.

That’s what I’m going to do. I was asking more of a followup if that’s something anyone here has encountered. I’ve paid an extra night for a guy after we spent multiple days together so he could have appointments, but never a separate room at the same time. As for going to him and seeing him when I want to and only paying for that…I *want* to spend the multiple days together. Another reason this particular situation isn’t going to work.

That’s a potential option. Has anyone else been asked to pay for a separate room for multiple-day stays? That’s new for me. It seems to me the whole point is to stay in the same room. Him asking that makes feel like we have a communication breakdown. At least as far as expectations go.

I think I will be moving on. It sure can be easy to get taken advantage of if you’re not careful and have your mind set from the beginning!

I try to be accomdating when it comes to paying for guys and everything that goes along with it. It's not a cheap hobby, to be sure, and if you're too cheap, it'll just be a poor experience for all involved. But has anyone noticed as of late, perhaps because of inflation, that the expectations of us clients as far as costs have become a bit unreasonable. I was trying to set up an appointment with a guy. He gave me a quote, which was a little more than I wanted to spend, but okay. I'll go with it. He seemed likeable enough. I told him I'd cover his plane or train fare too, that I would need to factor that into things. I asked him then which he preferred. He preferred the plane, but ignores the price of the ticket. (haha) Well, I can't ignore the price of tickets. Then he asks me about getting a separate room at the hotel for our stay and I said I've never done that before. So he wants his fee, a plane ticket, regardless of the price, all expenses during our time together covered, AND a separate room? I understand wanting his time during an extended stay, but I don't feel a separate room is my responsibility. And if I'm buying the planet ticket -- well, he can ride economy class then. He seemed likeable enough, but now I'm not so keen on hiring after this money talk. Like I said, I try to be generous but I don't like feeling like I'm being used. Has anyone else noticed that it seems money talk is a lot less amicable than it used to be?

https://rent.men/SirZues He was ZuesZeus in Boston yesterday. This morning SirZues in Jersey City. Still SirZues this evening, but in NYC.