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@BenjaminNicholas…Laugh a little.

Gotta eat more. It fills in the creases! 😂

And just like the rich and glamorous we love to bitch about, people can’t help themselves from giving the attention. I provide a vital service: someone for you and your fans to direct your annoyance and ire at!

Nobody is forcing you to look 😉 Or those who are your cheerleaders here.

No you won’t.

Wisdom. I’m an impatient fella by nature. My doctor tells me I could probably reduce my BP by 10-15 points just by going with the flow more. I need a molecular rebuild for that, I’m thinking!

Still patiently waiting…I sent the last message

He claims to be 26 on his RM. What really baffles me is how young people today seem to have their phones nearly surgically connected to their wrists but can’t have a decent exchange 🤷🏼‍♂️ I’m willing to attempt something with him. But I believe I would insist on paying upon arrival. Nothing up front. I’m also not going to be hesitant to call it off if it gets too cumbersome. I’m probably stupid but I do think he’s being genuine…Just extremely poor at communicating.

I did. And out of respect for him, I won’t say anything damning yet. Those guys here who’ve met with him have good things to say.

For those interested…

That is affirming. I’m going to enjoy the video (when it comes) and probably say no thank you. If I do that. I can’t imagine trying to arrange a meetup with him given how delinquent he’s been. It makes me also wonder about his reviews. How he amassed them…

I’m sure as I near retirement, my physical drawbacks will play less and less a role and those types of guys who once never gave me a second glance will start crawling out of the woodwork. I fully expect to be partnered when I die.

I’ve been communicating with a guy about a possible meet up. I stated I’d like to see a video of him topping as all his pictures and videos show off his admittedly very nice ass. He lists himself as “versatile/top” on RM. He tells me he would sell me a video of him topping for $10. Paypal by PayPal. Okay. I paid three days ago. I tell him I paid him. I finally get a message from him overnight last night: “i just saw this. very busy week for me. what’s your email?” I provide it. Now I’m waiting again. I understand this isn’t the meetup, but the transaction on my end has transpired. I have no reason to think he won’t follow through. But his nonchalance makes me reconsider if I really want to invest his top-dollar fee if he’s not invested in delivering what he says…If he can’t be bothered to follow through timely with a simple email, how is he going to be attentive to actual time together. Who’s wasting whose time here? Oh, and spare me the old saw about being soooo busy. It’s his job. Not his past time. Especially when money has been exchanged. There’s also an expectation of professional accountability. If you want to be treated as a professional.

@MscleLovr, oh, here you were speaking of escorts! I wouldn’t use the term “date” for an escort. That makes perfect to interview an escort. I was picturing you interviewing a potential boyfriend! 😂 I’m totally there with you on the BFE and compatibility. That’s why I like at least a telephone call before booking a new guy. I’ve found the compatible guys are more than willing to do that. FaceTime is even better, but I’d say it happens about half the the time. A guy can be a great fuck but unable to hold a conversation in a tin bucket. If I’m hiring for 3 days (my typical) I need the true BFE. A telephone call or FaceTime also can pretty quickly tell me if a guy’s intelligent enough to talk and if he’s all about himself.

This made me chuckle. Interview!? Did it come with a questionnaire too? 😂

Methinks someone can’t admit when they’ve misunderstood or were (gasp!) wrong. I’m done.

Well, I literally said it…”But would they hook up with older men for no money? That’s the test.” So, in the example you gave, the answer suggests “no.” Enjoying being with someone doesn’t mean you seek it out. Anyhow, it wasn’t about escorts, as I said. It’s about young guys and their preferences in general. You’re conflating two things. 1. If younger guys in general are attracted to older men as such and 2. if escorts are in this for money. Two distinctive questions. Obviously the answer to 2 is “yes.” My skepticism is that “plenty” of younger guys fall into category 1. I suggest they like they like other things commonly associated with older men, including importantly financial stability. If suggest that younger guys who say they like older men would prefer a younger guy if he can provide a stabile life, and especially financial stability and freedom. I’m not faulting escorts for making money or seeking to make money. You can stop litigating that now.

I didn’t write it. You read into it what you wanted to read because you decided I “need a new hobby.” Newsflash: not your decision to make 😉 I wasn’t complaining about escorts making money. You’re projecting. I was saying that money is a key motivator for young men who like older men. That’s my opinion and quite frankly, no one is going to change it. (I’m not changing your opinion either, now am I?) You imported a lot into what I wrote to argue your own points. Of course the escorts will hook up with older men for money. No one’s arguing that. That’s the work. I find it interesting, in fact, from a business standpoint, the escorts who won’t meetup with just about anyone. But would they hook up with older men for no money? That’s the test.

Eh. Copout. Nothing is 100% except death. That’s 100%.

1) What in the world gave you the impression that’s the case for me? 2) What in what I wrote led you to think I meant that? I was speaking to the circumstances around “plenty of guys” that like X, in particular younger guys who like older guys and why that’s the case. I’m perfectly aware I’m not what most guys like who I find the most superficially attractive aside from my ability to pay. I’ve made peace with that. But I don’t pay my friends, straight or gay. That’s almost insulting you even thought let alone wrote it…The difference is I don’t look for my friends, straight or gay, to find me attractive or want to fuck me.

“Plenty” is probably relative term. Plenty when “well kept” includes financial benefits, I’m sure. A “well kept” 70 yo likely has a decent home, more than a few life pleasures, and enough income to be generous. I’m not suggesting it’s bad. I’m simply saying I struggle to believe the attraction is strictly age related or physical. “There plenty of guys out there who really are attracted to men INSERT COMPARATIVE ADJECTIVE than they are.” That can probably be said for any parameters under the right constellation of circumstances. Dumber. Smarter. Thinner. Fatter. Poorer. Richer. Better employed. “Plenty” is a matter of perspective. To someone who has, plenty is a lot different than to someone who doesn’t. The real test is if these younger guys, escorts in particular, would still be attracted and spending time with guys so much older than them if the money situation changed. “For richer, for poorer?”

Call me cynical, but young guys who say they like daddies likely don’t like daddies nearly as much as they like the stability and security and pampering that comes with a financially established man. If a 28-yo could be a sugar daddy for these guys, they’d take that over a 40-plus-yo.