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5 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:I think before you try to assume some shortcoming about me, you should read the other thread about Full time/part time escorts. Several guys said they could not do it Full time because it’s not reliable enough. I said I am doing it full time. So, obviously, there’s guys who’s success is assisted by their main job: which isn’t bad, BUT the real test of success is going to be who can do this as their main or sole job, and feel the same way. 
 

I made no assumption of a shortcoming. I answered the question that you posted, and gave you list of potential culprits that can be causing the issue you are having. It’s unfortunate that you chose to take offense, but no offense was intended.

On 2/15/2022 at 12:43 AM, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Hmm, possibly. But to me it still seems like racism. People may want to think it isn’t, but it often is. Especially in the Middle America market. It’s also usually the White potential clients contacting with the game playing and BS (despite also making up a majority of the client base). Not to mention, when one of my White friends came to Kansas City last year, he had a decent schedule of clients. Meanwhile it was pretty slow on my schedule. However, it could have just been his new guy novelty. But aside from a few occasional locals and visitors who come to the area, that's general how it's been.

Even today I had to deal with someone unreasonable. He asked for 30 minute session, then says the rate too much (which is actually something I don't even offer, but in trying to accommodate). Despite the compromise, still managed to be a complete flake but I didn't take much time entertaining. Regardless... It's annoying. Why the fuck these people contact intending to be rude and disrespectful, and play games, I have no idea. And majority of them are White. So, I have a hard time believing it's not racism. It's racism because they don't think I deserve to be paid, or paid fairly enough for my time and effort. Then they try to get free explicit chat time, when they knowingly have 0 intent to go thru with meeting for an appointment. 

It may be more due to an aversion to gay sexuality/acceptance (this area has a lot of closet cases), or aversion to providers (there seems to be a lot of “sex work” haters here, and in all of the state, only St. Louis and Kansas City has any sizable market. Everywhere else in the state is dead). But…I still don’t rule out micro aggression. It’s their attitude. Their demeanor.

The original post was “White guys” instead of “All-American”, but I didn’t want to make like I’m singling out on 1 subject versus the bigger picture. 
 

That said, in 2022 it seems like most every American has some form of tattoos or piercings.

1) I consider “All American” to be White or Black. To me at has to be a boy next door look. Wholesome looking, clean cut, boyish looking, which is not limited to white guys. Ive had many Black guys fit that bill.

2) @storm4u and others mentioned being successful in many different markets and they are Black. Maybe the challenges you are having, have to do with the city you’re in, your marketing, you, or your luck.

Im wondering how many guys these days are providers full-time vs part-time. There was a thread on this a decade ago, but Im curious to see if things have changed.

46 minutes ago, FrankR said:

“I think I’ll take a picture of your penis and enlarge it.”

A client actually said that to you?

Has a client ever said anything that offended you? If so, what was it?