polydoron1977

All this said, there have been more than a few times when I wanted to hear “Shall we move to the bed?” 
Agree that bed massages, especially $200 ones, are pretty much a no go. But back when I used to travel a lot, very few masseurs traveled with tables. I appreciated the two occasions where the masseur did bring a headrest that was inserted between the two mattresses. Made a big difference. 

Here are a few suggestions:

Don't waste the providers time with too many txts. Try to get to your confirmed appt in a few txts.
Be clear (communicate) about what you want out of the appointment, be as specific as possible.
Be respectful. While it is a client/provider relationship; both are humans, have needs and deserve to be respected.
Always use the term "donation for your time only" when asking rates.
Shower just before your appt if you are able, and use breath mints or mouthwash.
Ask permission before doing things which might be considered disrespectful - like spitting, slapping, being verbal etc.
Ask about and respect likes/dislikes and if anything is off limits, for example some ppl don't like nipple play, being tickled, cologne, etc.
Generally, don't wear cologne, avoid deodorant unless you have a BO problem. Nothing worse than someone reeking of bad cologne.
I generally try to provide some info about my stats. This will be controversial to some as there have been active threads on this topic, but my MO is there should be no surprises.
Check in during your appt - How are you doing? Everything OK?

I give great service to clients who are respectful, turn up on time, are clean and who agree the services beforehand. Anyone late, unhygienic or who makes unreasonable demands gets no extra time and a perfunctory service. Fortunately it’s possible to identify the time wasters and disrespectful clients when they contact to book (I’ve an algorithm for it!) so I can avoid accepting those bookings. There aren’t many bad clients luckily.

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I agree about skipping the alcohol entirely. I gave it up years ago not so much for health as because I was sick of the way it made people, including me, act. There’s nothing wrong with a drink. The problem is so few people stop with “a” drink.