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HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEVIN
 

 
Thanks for showing us how it's done with sexiness, intelligence, and style.
 
Hope you have a wonderful day.

Self Proclaimed

That's from a pretty hot Tom Chase video.

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WHAT????? "Unavoidable" is just not a word in my vocabulary.

I'll show you a man trap alright

Guys I have attended two of these nude parties and haven't found them to be the horror scenes some have presented here. I never saw family members entering or leaving the facility and I certainly never heard of or witnessed neighbors peeking over a fence to check out the lap dance area.
Now for my personal reaction. Lap dances do absolutely NOTHING for me thus I haven't participated. As for the private room I haven't participated there either. I simply do NOT see the point of spending that amount money considering the limitations of the situation. I will save my money, thank you, and hire an escort to play with at either my place or his.
Now why have I gone twice you might ask. Two reasons: 1.) the eye candy is damn nice and 2.) to make contact with some guy(s) I might want to hire for a more involved get together.
Frankly I have found the entire experience enjoyable and I will likely go again!!!!!

I'd vote no if it were your first time out.
 
Personally, I wouldn't want anyone profiting (for years) off my image without paying residuals. One-and-done ain't my ideal business model
 
Since you already have scenes out there, if this adds to the coffers and could continue to do so in the future, go for it.

You would know if I visited the land down under. Otherwise, Palm Springs is 6 mos. away

I think most of us would prefer a personal appearance.

Well, that would be fun to watch!

Lordy. I hope this doesn't turn into a battle of the hotels. We'll have to have some sort of massive oil wrestling competition to determine the winner. I suppose we can use my room, if it comes to that. I'm always willing to sacrifice for the community.

I'm going to stay at INNdulge and get a day pass or visit a friend at CC. I'm looking forward to the trip.

Woah! I don't know how somehow my notifications for this thread got turned off; since I had initially jumped in on the first few pages when the dates were first announced to let everyone know the airfare was alreadyyyyyyy booked. Wouldn't miss this for the world.
 
So since I'm in arrears here...combing through pages and pages about Deviled eggs, my future fiancé Steven, and what-not, I'll try to be succinct...
 
Rick from Rentmen(who used to help 'manage' me, and knows me better than probably anyone else on this page), once told Traveler North("TN"-my mentor to the Springs and in life/travel), 'Tristan would never be interested in something like that."(The Springs Event). It's the one thing he's ever been somewhat off on, in my entire life.
 
Figuring what's the worst that could happen- what could possibly be outside my comfort zone given what we as escorts and those of us who've done adult films(boom microphones and cameras literally right next to your ass while having sex at weird angles)....I accompanied TN there. The rest is history.
 
When you shape clay, like Patrick fucking Swayze in Ghost...is it instantly a smooth, beautiful process? No, it's a turn by turn revolution with each surface coming into contact with another surface...hand to clay...that CHANGES one thing into another.
 
Every single forum member you come in contact with, every escort....will change you every so slightly....and the aggregate of all these meetings is such a positive thing...I cannot name ONE case where someone has left the Springs not better off for it. Opens you up, broadens your horizons...makes you feel comfortable as both worker or client alike, with something that is so innately 'uncomfortable' or off the radar screen.
 
I owe a great deal of my success as an escort to this event, not solely because of sessions ever occurring with people I've met from there....moreover, because of how those <1% of people who have the courage and interest to come to this event have SHAPED ME in dealing with the other >99% of people out there. They make the mold to follow, and god do I loveeeeeeeeee that mold. Especially when it's shaped like Kessler.
 
(Half asleep as I type this; greetings from Thailand!)
 
Jordan / "Tristan"

Oh, right. Me and my logorrhea. Sometimes I forget that some of you respond better to pictures than prose.
 
Bottom line guys............................dive in the pool.
 

 
And, yeah, I know I can be long-winded at times. We all have room for improvement, I guess.
 
But that's okay. I'm working on it. I'm all about knocking down barriers to communication.
 
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Ah, but what a nice ass pic!. Fine, indeed.

Somehow it seems that this thread has evolved in a way that might make the Palm Springs Weekend appear, to those who have never attended, to be a sex party. It has NEVER been and I don’t believe EVER will be a sex party. It has always been and I believe always will be a gathering of a group of guys who share a common hobby and enjoy getting together and spending some time together socially. Yes there have been some sexual encounters at the party. Yes some of the attendees have gotten together professionally in order to enjoy each other’s company. However the actual sex encounters are separate from the Weekend formal events and aren’t a part of the planned events. Please guys don’t scare off some possible attendees by making the event appear something it isn’t.
 
Let’s get this thread back on track

So just to pull my intentionally sexy rhetoric back a little bit I will now be very literal and say this.
 
While everything I described above (except for Chris Eisenhower having sex in a closet) actually did happen, this is not a sex party.
 
It is a party at which sex has occurred, at the margin. It is not the focal point.
 
If there is something that I would describe as the emotional center of this weekend, for me, it is a sense of community and openness and warmth. What I cherish about it is the intimacy and friendship shared with many people - some of whom I know very well, and some of whom I see only rarely but have an abiding affection for. That's it.
 
Everything else is what you bring, and what you seek.

After thumbing thru a bunch of Forum posts and RM profiles like my gum-popping mom sitting under a beauty shop hairdryer reading The Inquirer, I stumbled across a jolting, refreshing set of observations by Tylerthebadwolf. It’s something that really struck a nerve because it seems so obvious yet elusive:
 


"For all of the hardcore, bareback, fuck-me-in-the-ass porn that exists in all the mansex world, it seems that what men want (without realizing that they want it) is to be connected. Connected to another human; another man."
 
If your thing is ejaculating into a wet hole or being ejaculated into then more power to you and have at it with sweaty gusto. I’ll even hold the flashlight.
 
But the game seems lopsided.
I read RM profiles by "heavy shooters" with close-up, bareback videos that look like Soviet-era industrial safety films and read discussions here about who didn't get hard and who didn't cum and wonder if I'm missing something.
 
What I want to do is make a brief connection with someone... to freely give and receive affection, holding eye contact and happy simply for the moment of the shared experience. Most profiles & videos I see tell me something about someone's anatomy but what I really want to see is something about who they really are and how capable they are of making a connection with me.
 
I'm not trying to change anyone's mind about what they should enjoy - to each their own. Please enjoy.
 
What I would like to do is give a word of encouragement to the escorts who are genuinely interested in creating a connection with their clients. It's so rewarding to find a guy who understands and values this and, I think, it's more rewarding for those escort too.
 
 


"...what you’re sharing with that other man is intensely personal and very often private. Something about which they may have all sorts of conflicted feelings: shame, guilt, fear, sadness, elation. You can’t do anything about their feelings, but you can be open and receptive and those are the keys to connected sexual interaction. You can be excited and you can let their expressions of pleasure enhance your own...:"

Tyler gets the trophy for "Most Insightful Observation Of The Day".
(please don't sue me for copyright infringement)

Every sex worker should have their hep A&B vaccinations. Many clinics have them free or at a reduced rate. No excuse.

Here's my man Carl Ross
 
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Don't worry, I am sure your buddies at InnDulge will be more than glad to provide any highlights;).

I booked at Inndulge Thursday through Sunday nights - looking forward to round two!

OnlyFans is not for me - but part of that is that I already have my website that I update several times a month with new videos.
 
I can say I could really do without the announcements on Twitter from OnlyFans. If I only cared that you have a new fan ....