Would you care if your masseur is gay/bi/straight?

[+ 7829V]

I've read from some forum members that they would never hire a straight masseur... ? Honestly I really do not care that much... if he delivers a good massage and the extras are acceptable... is all good with me. I've hired masseurs with nice extras and they are married to a woman and have kids... that's their business and it does not bother me.

[fratphysicals]

I've read from some forum members that they would never hire a straight masseur... ? Honestly I really do not care that much... if he delivers a good massage and the extras are acceptable... is all good with me. I've hired masseurs with nice extras and they are married to a woman and have kids... that's their business and it does not bother me.

Yes, although a straight guy can absolutely give a great massage/ending, the connection is missing. For me this is a solid aspect of the experience. Having an awesome massage by a gay/bi guy who slowly gets into it/gets aroused as the massage progresses makes for a much more enjoyable experience than a straight guy just doing it for the money, in my opinion at least.

 

Now I’ve definitely had masseurs in the past who identified as “straight” but as the massage progressed it was clear that they were either bi or at least curious - those experiences are just as hot for me. I’ve had a massage by a “straight” guy who at the end of the massage asked if I could take my boxers off - I told him sure, but only if he took his off as well...that was fun.

[img2ciya]

For a legit massage, I don’t care. However, for a sensual/erotic massage he’s got to be willing and comfortable with nudity, touching, giving a good HE, etc. Basically, I shouldn’t be able to tell that he’s not really into it on his end.

 

And for escorts, I really only prefer gay unless the bi guy says he’s only a bottom for m4m sex. I’ll never trust a straight guy enough to bottom for me. lol

[Aquarionsol]

At the end of the day I don't care as long as I had a great experience. I honestly could not even tell their sexuality from the limited time interacting with them. I always figured they all fake it to make it for a majority of their customers.

[+ sniper]

Yes, although a straight guy can absolutely give a great massage/ending, the connection is missing. For me this is a solid aspect of the experience. Having an awesome massage by a gay/bi guy who slowly gets into it/gets aroused as the massage progresses makes for a much more enjoyable experience than a straight guy just doing it for the money, in my opinion at least.

 

Now I’ve definitely had masseurs in the past who identified as “straight” but as the massage progressed it was clear that they were either bi or at least curious - those experiences are just as hot for me. I’ve had a massage by a “straight” guy who at the end of the massage asked if I could take my boxers off - I told him sure, but only if he took his off as well...that was fun.

 

You wear your boxers for a massage?

[Dmitri]

The straight thing I take with a grain of salt. A masseur can tell you ANYTHING re: their sexuality.......they can easily make up if they are straight. Case in point: I had an outcall to my home from a "straight"masseur a few years ago. I had mentioned I was gay in conversation. During the massage this "straight"masseur would make idle comments such as "yep, totally comfortable massaging a gay man." And then: "yup, married 5 years to a wonderful woman, and totally comfortable massaging you". And then back again to "yep, doesn't bother me you are gay and I am straight, love doing massage on you." It was getting annoying, but I put up with it, knowing I would never hire him again. Finally, when the massage was nearing the end, he started massaging near my groin, and I got hard. He the leaned over and pleaded urgently..."Dmitri, would you fuck me, PLEASE!" So much for the "straight"masseur. I got up from the table, paid him, thanked him for the massage, and told him to go home and fuck his wife. So I just ignore it if a masseur tells me they are straight. You just never know the real truth.

Edited May 23, 2018 by Dmitri

[Damien Black]

Ooo this will be a good one.

 

 

 

Generally I claim the straight end of the spectrum as far as therapeutic massages go, for my legit massages if I’m “straight” it helps make it less confusing what people are getting if that makes sense? Expectations match reality. It’s a therapeutic massage so my orientation isn’t a dealbreaker and since I massage 99% men, it draws the line at therapeutic *unless* during the course of the massage we get talking and they let me know certain things they would like, and we can change the course of the massage.

 

If I’m giving a sensual/erotic massage, or providing companionship, then I can show my true colors and let people know I love the person inside, not the body parts. I don’t really stand by a label so idk if it’s bi or pans, but I like men and women depending on the personalities, I just like to make people happy, and whoever the client is I enjoy it, and if I’m into it they usually enjoy it more. I just say I’m bi if they ask so they know everything is on the table for more.

 

Idk how other masseurs separate clients, but that’s one method I use to keep legit and play separated.

[+ E.T.Bass]

I've had straight therapists that were great.