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I started escorting when I started experimenting with guys at around 19-20. I still thought I was straight :cool:

 

I did it off and on throughout college because of money and it somehow allowed me to convince myself that I was just gay for pay. After college I was a corporate drone and decided to drop everything and pursue piano and fitness in New York. Fast forward to today: I escort because it's fun! The money is very helpful, but now I'm all about doing things that I enjoy.

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I started escorting when I started experimenting with guys at around 19-20. I still thought I was straight :cool:

 

I did it off and on throughout college because of money and it somehow allowed me to convince myself that I was just gay for pay. After college I was a corporate drone and decided to drop everything and pursue piano and fitness in New York. Fast forward to today: I escort because it's fun! The money is very helpful, but now I'm all about doing things that I enjoy.

I'm sure its fun for your clients too!

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I was tired of being devalued by the food service industry, needed to focus on my education, and couldn’t manage enough time for that while making <$10/hr for skilled & demanding labor (wherein I was often sexualised anyway as an informal requirement of performing my job successfully).

 

I’d been quite sexually adventurous in my late teen years and found myself more comfortable with casual and semi-anonymous sexual encounters than most of my peers. A lot of my real-life flirtations were with older men, and I found them much less complicated to engage with sexually than guys my own age, who surprisingly had too many feelings and often couldn’t handle our sexual encounters being NSA.

 

By the time I was in college I was mostly back to sleeping with my peers, but I never lost my openness to sleeping with people that fell outside the box of whoever I was “supposed” to be interested in according to society’s standards. I had learned that the most popular, best looking guys were often the most clumbsy, unskilled lovers, and the guys who no one looked twice at were sometimes the most repeat-worthy in bed.

 

I knew all along that I would be well-suited to being an escort someday, but never seriously considered it until finances got so tight in college that I had to leave University and continue my education on my own. I was too afraid of being subject to violence (my parents had a fondness for watching Law & Order SVU in the house when I was a kid) to try it any sooner than I did. Too bad, because I probably wouldn’t have needed to drop out of University had I tried it a couple years sooner. But my self-education and my career were both ultimately successful and I couldn’t be happier with where my life is at, so I have no regrets. Maybe I was just the right maturity level to handle it by the time I started.

 

For a couple years I used it as a way to not really have a “real job”, and accordingly made just enough to live a very thrifty lifestyle comfortably. After a while I realized I liked escorting enough to pursue it as a career. I spent a whole winter holed up in a rural woodland cabin burning logs & reading Internet forums via solar-powered wifi to research how to treat escorting as a business: marketing, touring, managing finances, etc. I worked small cities in the southern states for about a year before moving to NYC, where my career really had the opportunity to take off. My lifestyle involved a lack of routine and a lot of travel in my early-mid 20’s, so my work being so portable & flexible suited my life exceedingly well.

 

When I first started out 8 years ago, I thought I would use escorting as a path to fund my gender transition surgeries. It ended up providing so much more for me than that, and now I’m not even sure I want anything surgical done & have tossed that idea out the window. Go figure...

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I'm my mid 20s I was super active. Just about every day I was fucking someone new. My housemate jokenly and kinda seriously suggest I become a hooker. I read on it, thought about it and yahooed it (this was before the googles) and jumped it. I enjoy it and the guys I've met over the years.

 

Hugs,

Greg

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Long story short, I was running from a broken heart and decided to fill the void with money and expensive things.

I did however learn through all of this that money can’t buy you genuine happiness, and you can only suppress your emotions for so long before you have no choice but to look them in the eye and heal them. Grateful for all the experiences this journey has given me, and the freedom it gave me to spend my free time alone to better understand myself. I truly wouldn’t be as whole as I am today without this experience. It’s almost crazy to think that an industry that gets such a bad rap has actually taught me so much self love.

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Long story short, I was running from a broken heart and decided to fill the void with money and expensive things.

I did however learn through all of this that money can’t buy you genuine happiness, and you can only suppress your emotions for so long before you have no choice but to look them in the eye and heal them. Grateful for all the experiences this journey has given me, and the freedom it gave me to spend my free time alone to better understand myself. I truly wouldn’t be as whole as I am today without this experience. It’s almost crazy to think that an industry that gets such a bad rap has actually taught me so much self love.

Blake, you, like Rod, come across as a fundamentally kind and thoughtful soul. It may sound maudlin, but a slight mist forms on my eyes when I read things like this. Thank you.

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